Wisdom & Life Lessons from Balika Vadhu

🤢Life Lessons from Balika Vadhu😡

I know this post is kinda lengthy.😳 But this one post is actually the whole fact, basis and gist of life and world according to BV!👍🏼

this is oscar stuff really,bravo. i still hope cvs wake up and smell the coffee, pls, abhi bhi time hain
do whatever but dont unite ja an

@annika


u just rock ..fab points n analysis 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏...true BV seems to portray that girls only exist for saasraa...n educated gals r ill mannnered n wild

Not just patni yaar. Actually whole modernisation, progress, city life and moving away from traditional orthodox stuff is poisonous for society!😲 College toh bande ko adulterous aur dhokebaaz bana deta hai. Zyada padhne se insaan mein parivaar ke liye koi izzat ya unka darr nahin rehta. 🐷

@Annika,

As usual a gem of a post, wish CVs visit this forum see the frustration and anger towards their flagship show which has turned into a self promoting loudspeaker of social evils.

BV continues to reinforce the importance of every social evil prevalent in the society, it is showing how a girl's lyf is not hers at all, she is indebted to everyone since the day she is born..., and educating her will only make go sanile lyk Gauri, no matter what a husband does, beats u up, rapes u , leave u for a keep , the wife is expected to hope and pray for him, he will alwayz be her GOd, it is her fault alwayz, and she is expected to forgive him, she doesnt have a right to her own lyf.

By showing the stark contrast between Anandi and Gauri , they r showing how career oriented girls are bad, they dont respect anyone and the best fit for a girl is at her in-laws place and under her husband's feet.

I alwayz loathed the tag line of Kachi umar ke pakka rishtey, if Anandi takes Jagu back , for whatevr reason and doesnt move out of haveli, then I sincerely hope some NGO and Parliament take up there case and ban and rather as penalty shut colors down.
The show is insisting that child marriage is the way to go, the relationships are strongest and holiest, even if ur husband is a philander, even if u loose your dignity , u have no right to move on, u have to pin, pray and serve for his almighty's return.

I feel lyk tweeting about BV to all the editors, tv people , let' s create an interent buzz about this , there are so many MPs on twitter, and other eminent columnists lets write to them , heck even Kiran bedi will do.
I cannot fathom this happening in this serial , even if i stop watching i cannot help neglect the feeling of disgust and helplessness in my stomach for what it is giving to our already female skewed society.
The channel and the makers by selling the glorified idea of Bal vivaah, domestiv violence and marital rape are feeding excuses to those who consider females not a human being but an object.

Colors and BV , as a female, educated professional i feel threatened by what you have portrayed, you have violated the dignity of millions of females by showing how v lack self-respect and should rather be treated like clay, ready to be moulded according to your whimps and fancies.

WIsh was in India, would have loved to file a case against you people!!

I am a recent member of the forum and i watched only those episodes of bv when Sugna got remarried and was liberated from the bloody vidhwa riwaz. I liked Shyam's character, how he thinks so clear and respects women and thats how every man should be.
But the past 2 yrs the serial story has gone down tbe drain. Anandi's personality is totally wasted.. I always wanted her to get educated and powerful and the cv's kept going the other way. When Ds stopped her school I thought Bhairav and Gehna will fight for he little girl but the vakil ke kagaz and dal chawal was enuf to keep them busy. When she went home i thought she will study but when i saw the illeterate maid cookingthd first day, my disappoiment had no bounds. Then Jagya goin to colleg I thought she would be inspired to study for her self respect But NO! 12th was enough for her. At this stage I have been disappointed and given up.

But i have learned of patience from these serial characters. I never watched these dramas and mocked them and was right in doing so. But after getting married they suddenly made sense. I had to work in the kitchen after work while the hubby gets to sit on sofa(only in front of inlawz :), thank god!). But as an independant strong feminist that i am, thus and other discriminations were hard to digest. I am sure thus is pretty mu h the case in all Indian families.. Even after years of education and fight for equal rights, the world still has a distorted view of whats just and fair. And this I claim after researching so many close families! I should not be bringing personal life in thus forum, but the truth is women are still discrminated against and thses serials do make sense after some inLawz therapy

@BvFan123,

Firstly a big welcome to this forum and sharing your personal experiences,

Absolutely, agree with you that these situations not only exist in so called rural areas but are more pronounced in the educated class as well. This is the reason why we emphasize more and more that a serial lyk BV which is one of the trp leaders and with a wide range of viewership should reflect the flaws and drawbacks of this social issue. It need not glorify or give a sense that it is ok to look down on women and that women are inferor to the opposite sex.

BV should show the flaws and importance of independence , self respect and education to a woman , they need to feel confident enough to not bear it all ,if it persists to threaten them in any way.
Am lad u being a feminist understand this pschy of our society , but there are many more who are not even informed , so when they see this serial where female lead rather than kicking out the husband is living in repentance and waiting for her ,sends a very wrong signal,.

Watchin BV makes me very thankful that I have a family which has taught the importance of equality, have a dadimaji who drilled in me the importance of self respect and my own independence.


I know it is difficult and sumtyms impossible to question a husband or the in-laws over this, but my major concern is the belief women themselves have, that they r better of in the kitchens , they dont even think about the outside world..., these women are responsible for a coming generation , r they goin to teach their daughter to serve the family and keep the kitchen as well?...

i have many yrs to me before i experience marriage or the in-laws, but if pardoning my lack therefor i suggest that every woman steal away some me tym even in her much married lyf for herself, teach her children the importance of equality especially in front of the family , have a healthy discussion with the better half -voicing your opinions or letting him pamper you for atleast a day a week or month can still improve alot.

Unfortunately, in India MCPs exist and are thriving , what v can immediately do is to prevent future MCPs by educating our children better and slowly enjoying being who we are and from tym to tym the "me" in us should speak out!