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Posted: 14 years ago

When V get married V take vows of " FOR BETTER OR FOR WORST " Ishan Suhana repeatedly told each other that No matter what They will take care of each other Never Hurt each other . Ishan to even though know & Understand Suhana repeatedly tell suhana to not cling to khushi too much or Suhana to even after hearing so many times from different people or even Ishan not to get message ? Is this really true that these 2 belong together ? I m not taking sides , but Does Enough is enough ? Suhana is that occupied with Khushi that She doesnt see her husband at all ? or even anyone else ? This is SAD & weird ... Can U really that into someone else that suddenly , U r so oblivious to everyone else in ur world ? Ishan is someone whom she lost to AMNESIA few months back , & now she doesn't care for him completely ?

While Ishan asking for tips at WORK ? Y people tell their business to others ? I don't like that abt Ishan & Suhana . Some thing should never leave bedroom . When Ishan knows what works on Suhana , Even after him repeatedly telling Suhana , she doesn't get it than Y not go to BM ask for advice ?

Is it just me or Disha is worried of closeness between Suhana - Khushi ? I know Suhana is trying to b all Motherly but I fail to see that angle . To me Suhana always comes off as Very Needy , Clingy , Psycho Person Now a Days . No Offence . It is just My POV .

I don't hate KHUSHI or Anyone here Hates her . Its just V r all very tired of KHUSHI Jaap all the time . Specially from Suhana . She is over doing it . I can understand Disha as she wanted to b a mother for while , even after she lost all her hopes She is finally MOM but what is SUHANA's Excuse for that .

I m just tired of all this & Needed to vent out my frustration today . 😆

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Posted: 14 years ago

You know I really don't like them discussing their business with others it REALLY bothers me! It doesn't matter how big or small the matter is you just don't talk about it with anyone else!!

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Netri

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend
You know I really don't like them discussing their business with others it REALLY bothers me! It doesn't matter how big or small the matter is you just don't talk about it with anyone else!!

I too don't like people sharing their BEDROOM talk with everyone . 🤢 I toh want to ask them If they really understand the meaning of LOVE & MARRIAGE . I ecpected better from Ishan , Suhana being Suhana is well I gave up on her . For time being . I m not expecting much from her .

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: netri

I too don't like people sharing their BEDROOM talk with everyone . 🤢 I toh want to ask them If they really understand the meaning of LOVE & MARRIAGE . I ecpected better from Ishan , Suhana being Suhana is well I gave up on her . For time being . I m not expecting much from her .

When you are married you need to maintain the dignity of your marriage and your spouse. If everyone comes to know about the husband-wife matters, then slowly people will start to think low of the couple. Sometimes if people intervene then the matters can easily exacerbate, which is clearly not needed. Both husband and wife need to protect each other's self respect and dignity and only speak of matters with others IF it's ONLY necessary. Sharing secrets with close friends is okay because they don't usually tell anyone else but no one should share the details with family, no NO, and CERTAINLY NO for work/boss!

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Netri

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

When you are married you need to maintain the dignity of your marriage and your spouse. If everyone comes to know about the husband-wife matters, then slowly people will start to think low of the couple. Sometimes if people intervene then the matters can easily exacerbate, which is clearly not needed. Both husband and wife need to protect each other's self respect and dignity and only speak of matters with others IF it's ONLY necessary. Sharing secrets with close friends is okay because they don't usually tell anyone else but no one should share the details with family, no NO, and CERTAINLY NO for work/boss!

I wouldn't go as far as Friends too . I have seen that sharing Ur personal things with ur friends , will not like by ur Spouse . I don't want to b judge or let anyone of my friends to judge my spouse . Simply I would see it as insult . They have no right to b in my marriage so If I have to I go to family but strictly no Friends . But I would b cautious to what I share .

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Posted: 14 years ago

You misunderstood me Netri. You know sometimes, it gets to a stage when you have to talk to clear out head and you know that talking with anyone in the family may cause problems then the next best person to talk to is your close friend. Not because you want their advice but just get things off your chest and just to clear your mind. Talking about it with someone who will not be partial to anyone helps to understand your thoughts and feelings better. Of course no one should judge or tell a couple what to do, it's none of their business but they can be very good listeners and that is what we need the most sometimes. It's good to have a confidant.
Indeed that is only done if you trust that they can keep it a secret.

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Netri

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Posted: 14 years ago

It all Depends on the person Whom U share U troubles . But it's hard to keep the feelings aside & b natural to tell ur best friend that she might b wrong or It is as much her fault as Her husbands . I get it sometimes I do share this kind of talk with my best friend but only harm less talks she does that too . but thing is When U share marriage problems , That's where the trouble lies . Most of the time Spouse doesn't want 3 person in the marriage . While Sharing harm less talk with Friend is ok but Choose ur Friend wisely .

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Posted: 14 years ago

ya true...
but i think that no one would understand you more than your husband as he is a friend beside being a husband...and same is the case with wife...

but i m not liking Suhana s attraction or i say over-obsession towards khushi...OMG! i think that kid must also b thinking the same...

Give me some space guys

i really didnt like the scenes when suhana thinks that khushi called her maa and not to disha...she totally forgets about all disha s happiness in the single moment

creatives need to change suhanas character a bit and should show suhana being taking care of the home more as before...

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mjtruelegend

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Posted: 14 years ago

Friends should only know if you know that it's not that much of a big deal and that you can fully trust them. Yes you're right when it's about serious/private issue it's really NOT good to get ANYONE involved because of the obvious reasons. In such cases both need to communicate and share their thoughts/feelings. Bottling things up doesn't help either. I can understand letting go of trivial matters but if its something that really bothers you then it's far better to talk about/ argue over it. Keeping quiet only mean a storm is its way.

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Netri

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: cool_SK
ya true...
but i think that no one would understand you more than your husband as he is a friend beside being a husband...and same is the case with wife...

but i m not liking Suhana s attraction or i say over-obsession towards khushi...OMG! i think that kid must also b thinking the same...

Give me some space guys

i really didnt like the scenes when suhana thinks that khushi called her maa and not to disha...she totally forgets about all disha s happiness in the single moment

creatives need to change suhanas character a bit and should show suhana being taking care of the home more as before...

I know What U mean Ur Husband is ur best friend . But since Message Ishan is trying to send , Suhana is not receiving than what to expect more ? While it is really hilarious ur comment on Khushi . I think Suhana - Disha problems r next in line . right around Suhana - Ishan problems surfaces .

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