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Posted: 13 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: annika20

His respect dialogue is such a joke! Do you say things like ''tu gawar ki gawar hi rahegi'' and ''nikaal ke phenk diya usey maine apni zindagi se'' for a person who you respect?!😡


His logic is all useless. BTW does respect also include having honeymoon and SR?

Jagya doesn't even respect himself. Kisi aur ki kya karega!

nah nah annika...try to see through jaguu dada's POV!!😃
ok let me explain...😳
calling gawar and phek diya is actually a status symbol...see his illegal wife was sooo unhappy being rejected in childhood...if she wouldnt...now she would have called as gawar too!!
and daactar sahiba actually wants that...such a big status...!!
and about honeymoon and SR...that was the sideeffect of FBS...no fault of jaggudada !!
jagiya respects himself so much...thats y he agreed to take help from anandi...after all how can the dr jagat singh lives in a city like mumbai without enough money and luxury!!😆
see hum sab bekar jaggu dada k pichhe pade hain!!🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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See i think both luv and respect are two different things but the real test of any relationship lies in striking the balance between the two.

Luv can bring that spark , that sprin to your feet , can brin that random smile while doin nothin, it adds a passion and desire but on its own its not enough.

So many of us, luv a bad guy we all hope he has that ood heart somewhere hidden and will finally turn into the perfect prince but that never happen , resulting in neither party being played or just drift apart. the reason is the lack of respect, not only for each other but for yourself. I should have enough self respect to move out of a harmful relationship lyk if Gauri and Jagya truely luved each other , he should have legally separate himself and atleast apologised for his deeds not only for out of repect for Anandi but for his relation with Gauri.

And Gauri should have enough self-respect to move out of that house , give Jagat the tym to clear the legal mess and concentrated on her lyf and family a bit.

Durin marriage , i beleive luv can have its own high's and lows but mutual respect gives better satisfaction and sense of security.

Nice topic, tinoo, personally for me respect is a little step ahead of luv, he earning my respect can be the best way to have a shot at my little heart.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: vivacious_priya

dis time i agree wid Jagat love n respect n two different things...
if i respect a man it z not dat i can start loving him...
but things r different in Jagya's case as d women he respects n admires a lot is his ex wife... whom he dreams at his SR wid his second wife..🤢🤢

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i agree if sum1 respects a person not necessarily he/she start loving (in certain way)...but if u love sum1 its automatically occur that u respect his/her opinions ideas, the way they are,the things they love n respect their pov..i mean everything of them.
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so i think love n respect comes 2gather .
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and even if u respect sum1 it means u r admiring him/her...love is there in different forms...if they get hurt,,,u feel bad...isnt it?
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evry1 like J ...who claims love n respect r 2 diffrnt things only manipulating things for their selfish ends.
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or may b J is saying this out of guilt ...ki ...yar itna to bura kia A key sath...thora respect karna to banta hai🤔
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Posted: 13 years ago
#14
Love and respect go hand in hand. But I think it is wrong to always assume that respect or admiration will necessarily morph into sexual love.

There are different kinds of love too. Love for all human beings, all life forms, love practised by Buddha, Nanak, Kabir, Jesus etc. There is love for teachers or parents. Love for friends or siblings. Films and TV serials make it only about love related to sex (same sex or opposite sex)!

I found Gauri's reasoning rather perverted. Though I think reason for this perversion has got more to do with J-A's marriage than a generalisation.

There are many persons who I admire and would even stand up or fight for. But I may not necessarily ''love'' them or lust for them!

For a man like Jagya, one may never know his true feelings. He has his own definitions of respect and love. One can't ever tell who he respects and how he respects! It is natural (oh I am talking like Dr. Jagat!) for Gauri to have doubts on a compulsive liar and spineless, unpredictable man like him.

I still maintain that she is staying with him, sticking to him more due to desperate attempts to resolve her childhood trauma and fulfill bachpan ki adhoori zidd. It's not just ''love'' or attraction after growing up which makes her stick to a scumbag like him. Her fixation and obsession have more role to play!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nihsheeth

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i agree if sum1 respects a person not necessarily he/she start loving (in certain way)...but if u love sum1 its automatically occur that u respect his/her opinions ideas, the way they are,the things they love n respect their pov..i mean everything of them.
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so i think love n respect comes 2gather .
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and even if u respect sum1 it means u r admiring him/her...love is there in different forms...if they get hurt,,,u feel bad...isnt it?
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evry1 like J ...who claims love n respect r 2 diffrnt things only manipulating things for their selfish ends.
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or may b J is saying this out of guilt ...ki ...yar itna to bura kia A key sath...thora respect karna to banta hai🤔


@ bold i agree J is a selfish creature... he can say anything to satisfy his own reasons why he does a thing n why not
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Posted: 13 years ago
#16
Really?????? 😕

How does he RESPECT Anandi? By calling her GANWAR? 😡 😡

And how does he LOVE Gauri???? By telling her LIES???? 😡 😡

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I do think one can have love, lust and respect for someone but just one of the 3 for another. J has NOW (lets forget old SR and honeymoon as FBS influenced) only respect for A - no love or lust. Whereas he has only love, lust for G (maybe no respect as she can match him in any lie telling extempore ! she may even beat him at it)

J somewhere realizes that A and he are just not in the same league. She'd rather deny him n herself a pleasure just coz its not 'right'. Whereas G might happily help J compose the excuse to facilitate the scam while not denying themselves anything (Ex- lets ask bade papa, but lets do that in the next call)

I dearly hope the CV's won't break them up. they r just too well suited 👏.

Waise jokes apart - J probably is confusing the term respect for convenience. He really shud look up the word in some dictionary - he hasn't to date respected any soul - not DS, parents, teachers, anyone. But he has used them all as disposables and never seen any harm in doing so. Gauri will understand that - after all hasn't she treated Bade Papa and his support n funds in the exact same way ?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think Jagat should have told...I respect Anandhi but lust in only for you!!!!
Though this sounds rather bad!!!! This what i think they have for eash other...Marriage is beutiful thing which is sutained by love and mutual reapect for each other...
Personally i do not think men like Jagya knwo the meaning of both the words they are using..
Respect...does he know what it means!!!!! Is isulting you wife...hiding the fact that you married to a girl whom you "respect" or who is always "worthy of respect" and called her ganwar etc...
Love...he loves Gauri thats the biggest joke...Loves her but hides facts from her...loves her but throws her at the mercy of people who are sure to criticise her...loves her but...runs behind his ex wife and can't divorce his ex wife and doesn't mind the illegal status knowing that the girl whom he claims to love will be most affected by it...
the worst part is he takes anadhi's name and asks what is wrong in it!!!!
heights of cruelity esp when he knows Gauri is insecure about the realtionship!!!!
Anyways only a humna will have empathy or sympathy he is just maggot...which feeds on flesh!!!

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