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Posted: 14 years ago
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I was shocked the way Anandi refused to go with her parents. Some how I cannot gulp down those extreme dialogues when she tells her parents they have become paraye for her. It was just ridiculous. Her staying in the haveli had no relevance. Ok, its her choice, but when your parents want you to go with them, what was the big harm in going and living with them for a few weeks and may be when situation would cool off she would have made her mother understand how everyone stood up for her. That's more logical. Now there's no village girl mentality in this. Sorry, I cannot see it. Even village girls go to their maika. Its not Maha paap to go to your parents if you are married!

What Anandi told her mother was completely wrong and gave out a wrong message to the soceity. When a girl is married, YES she makes her sasural her own, THAT DOESN'T MEAN YOU FORGET YOUR PARENTS. Sasural and Maika BOTH TOGETHER IS A FAMILY. What has she given to her parents? Her parents did the world to ensure her happiness, sold away their lives so that she can have a comfortable and taunt free life in her sasural. Then, she was young, she couldn't do her bit, but what now? Agar beti ki shaadi ho gayi toh iska matlab ye nahi she considers her parents dead. Even worser in Anandi's case, she's the only child. Who will take care of her parents financial needs after they get old? What if they fall sick? Is she going to still sermonize the same thing? If you are girl, that doesn't excuse you from your duties towards your parents. No child can stay happy by hurting one's parents. She never bothers to call/ find out if her parents are dead/ alive. And just look at the mother's love..she erupted like a volcano on her child's problems. Did she even think twice on the 'paraye' funda?


The part where they showed Anandi confess infront of God made sense and understandable that it was unintentional.. so excusable! Otherwise, I swear I would've joined Anmolsa's league 😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Sonali, if you would care to scroll up slightly, you can see my post where I've answered all your questions.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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As long as Anandi remains the legally wedded wife of J no body can send her to to her parents.In fact
for a married lady,sasural ki ghar means Husband ONLY,& as such she need not serve at In laws at jaitser!She should & Must go to Mumbai to stay with Jagya.Then comes the Maza!!Nobody can deny it,esp the "illegally & unsocial"ly wedded bazar aurat G!!

It is the legal obligation of J & J's parents as they brought her 2 haveli.They can't leave Anandi simply like that without settling her alimony & all!
Why should Anandi herself come forward for divorce?It will never make any sense as she did not have any necessity from her side & she did not come 2 haveli for that.It is the cheating husband who is in dire necessity as he initiated an illegal move & it is up to him to worry about the divorce,settlement & all!
UNTIL THEN ANANDI MUST STAY @ MUMBAI WITH HIM,THROWING GOURI OUT OF KUNDA THAI'S HOUSE!!
Edited by sreevask - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think its ok...that she didn't leave as of now...her in-laws love her and want her to stay-and her future & education is more secure there...she can build a better future there-and that should be more important for her now. she also has all the right to get a decent accommodation for herself. good her in-laws are accepting the responsibility.

But she should have called her parents up after they left or maybe visit them to soothen their pain a bit. And I think it was a bit unfair on her part to keep them in dark...and they knowing it from a third person was not good.



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Posted: 14 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: muktha_cute

for jagyas property
which she can only get if she stays with ds



🤣🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆...hehe lol for ur nature of kiddingness
😆🤣
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: hima_123

I think its ok...that she didn't leave as of now...her in-laws love her and want her to stay-and her future & education is more secure there...she can build a better future there-and that should be more important for her now. she also has all the right to get a decent accommodation for herself. good her in-laws are accepting the responsibility.

But she should have called her parents up after they left or maybe visit them to soothen their pain a bit. And I think it was a bit unfair on her part to keep them in dark...and they knowing it from a third person was not good.





Anandi talked to her parents and have sorted out with them...CVs did close that loop too😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: hima_123

I think its ok...that she didn't leave as of now...her in-laws love her and want her to stay-and her future & education is more secure there...she can build a better future there-and that should be more important for her now. she also has all the right to get a decent accommodation for herself. good her in-laws are accepting the responsibility.

But she should have called her parents up after they left or maybe visit them to soothen their pain a bit. And I think it was a bit unfair on her part to keep them in dark...and they knowing it from a third person was not good.



i agree that she shudn't leave as of now!!but its more bcoz she has bcum sort of more attached 2 sumitra & bharion. no doubt she shud luk at her educn & future. but at the same time i want A not 2 give divorce 2 J just 2 teach him a lesson. men like him needs 2 teach lesson & thatswhy in child marriage act the amendent abt living for 2yrs. after cuming off age legally & not seeking separation is brought 2 make child marriages legal so that A like wives won't b abondoned by j like men!!👏👏👏
@bold i fully agree wid this bold part!!😊😊

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