Wht if Ananandi wd not hv support of In laws

one justification of Jogia is tht Anandi hs back up and support of her In laws so she will not suffer much and can move on easily. But whn we talk abt Jogia or criticize him, its not matter of one individual but Jogia type all people with such mentality, who cheat her wife on the name of NEW FOUND DIVINE LOVE. And whn we talk abt Anandi, we talk abt all women, who was abandoned by Jogia type cheaters (there r many in real life). Can we justify a person abandoning his wife becoz she hs back up?? Can we justify a person who forgotten his own responsibility on the basis of tht there r other to take tht responsibility. Wht if Anandi wd not hv such back up and support. Wd Jogia hv thought before cheating her? Or he wd hv behave differently?? A big NO, becoz the same Jogia was asking Sumitra, whn she was in Mumbai, to kick Anandi out for sake of her own blood. He hs ensured to make Anandi life hell by every means, by blaming her for continuing study against DS will and ensured tht she cd not study further. But his BAD LUCK tht Anandi wdnt broken and she got full support of her in laws. This loser wd hv cheated her same way, without thinking anything, even if Anandi wdnt hv any support. For such selfish people, others life dosnt matter, and they cover their selfishness with the name of DIVINE LOVE. If tomorrow he will leave Gouri and go for other girl, thn I hope those who support him now in the name of love will continue supporting him.

The point I think is that in Jagya's head, anandi is not HIS responsibility,... she is the responsibility of the people who got him married jabardasti (his parents).

Originally posted by: tinoo

The point I think is that in Jagya's head, anandi is not HIS responsibility,... she is the responsibility of the people who got him married jabardasti (his parents).

This is where the disconnect lies. He does not see it as abandoning his responsibility because he does not even think of it as his responsibility. He does not see her as a wife.

He sees it as that his dadisa and parents arranged for a woman to sleep with him when he was 18 so that he could have his physical needs met. Beyond that, she is nothing for him.

I think most Anandi supporters do not want Jagya to come back to her. The point is that it was his responsibility to end things properly which he failed to do. The point is regardless of whether Anandi had support from others or not, it does not justify his behavior toward her. He should have brought about closure to their relationship by meeting all social, moral and legal obligations.

About people feeling confident that Jagiya would ditch Gauri by now ...most Anandi supporters do not want the two fools to separate. We want them to suffer on each others company. We want them to make each others lives miserable with distrust and accusations. They truly deserve each other. That is what we are waiting to see. Picture abhi baaki hai. No need to count chickens before they hatch. 🤣

Anmol first of all I don't expect anything from tht loser and I hv never asked him to come back to A. I always tell tht both girls sd kick him out, becoz he cheated both. Secondly if we support tht if u stop loving ur wife, u sd leave her and settle with ur new love, becoz love come and go but life continue, thn why criticize him if his love for G go after sometime and he will find new love. After all we live in modern society. Again we will criticize his method but support his love . Tht wd be fair 😉

I agree with intruderfast here. Even I started a thread a few days ago questioning whether anandi's real intention was to study or not?

heeh I am glad I am the Biggest Jagya Hater ... oo me likey.

I have to curse him every day to get my day going!!!!

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anywayz after clearing that up : ) THanks Anmol : ) and yEs I am really happy that Jagya is with Gauri and I am not sure why. I mean yes you see that as love for Gauri , thats a POV that might be possible and many of us here feel , that he is sticking with gauri as he has no where to go. Agaay khadda peechay khaai deal.

But yes the fact remains he is with gauri but now the true test of his relationship will come. If he really wants to pursue their relationship to be legal in the eyes of society as well for gauri's sake. He has said that , we should not care about anyone but ourselves alone but for gauri it will be hard and thats a fact. people will find out, truth comes out, it always does and then it will be a shame for Gauri and , Jagya should not put gauri through this if he really loves her. He can still go to Anandi and request of Divorce and he KNOWS that Anandi will def. give him divorce. This way , at least, no matter what has happened in the past, by gones be bygones , he can start afresh with gauri and remain faithful to her and give her the respect she deserves. As anandi said herself, to not repeat what he did to her with Gauri as she understands the pain and humiliation behind it and does not want it for another woman.

(no matter how rude she was to her)



But Anmol , I doubt this will happen. He never had the guts and in future as well I do not think he will do this.

If he does I might actually stop cursing him for not ruining Gauri's life completely and taking some responsibility finally.

Time will tell.
I personally doubt it. BUt time will tell. And here lies the real test of their relationship.

The thread is abt the responsibility of a husband who ditch his wife for his NEW FOUND LOVE. There were argument tht as A hs her in laws support so she can move on easily and Jogia can enjoy with her divine love without feeling any responsibility towards her. But my question is wht if A wd not hv such support. Wd we hv supported such action of a husband leaving his wife rotting in hell for the sake of his new found divine love? And wd jogia hv think abt A in tht situation before ditching?? My answer is big no.