Wht if Ananandi wd not hv support of In laws - Page 5

Originally posted by: CutiePiee4

if A didnot had the support of her in laws then in all probability she would have been outcast-ed by the society, called by dirty names and would have been forced to work as a labourer to make her two ends meet and people eyeing her with dirty thoughts and she would have been a victim of sexual abuse. It's not so easy for an abandoned wife to survive ina country like India and here we are talking about a village girl. Her life is doomed.

Originally posted by: hooked

Going back to the main thread - Anandi wud have been in Bilaria if she did not have the doting saasra she does. Also, maybe this serial shows a family that wud disown their own son for a bahu - but most wl accept the son n his new beendni back JUST like DS did - and overtime reject/insult the old one enough to let her want to get out by herself.

Originally posted by: pjyo

so true,leaving her education was anandi's biggest mistake ..but thats one time i wished bhairav had been stricter with anandi,he tried by bringing the principal for her admission but she refused because of dadisa ..but instead of listening to her he should have given her his kasam "school jaa anandi,tujhe mhaari sau" that would have been the end of discusion afterall he was the guardian,important decisionns like education shouldnt be left to the whims and fancies of a child . .when jagya didn't study bhairav forced him but with anandi he was too lenient ..

sometimes i though anandi too was a bit scared those days because she had memory problems after that bullet wound ,so those were the days she needed extra encouragement but just didn't happen..

Originally posted by: ankit111

one justification of Jogia is tht Anandi hs back up and support of her In laws so she will not suffer much and can move on easily. But whn we talk abt Jogia or criticize him, its not matter of one individual but Jogia type all people with such mentality, who cheat her wife on the name of NEW FOUND DIVINE LOVE. And whn we talk abt Anandi, we talk abt all women, who was abandoned by Jogia type cheaters (there r many in real life). Can we justify a person abandoning his wife becoz she hs back up?? Can we justify a person who forgotten his own responsibility on the basis of tht there r other to take tht responsibility. Wht if Anandi wd not hv such back up and support. Wd Jogia hv thought before cheating her? Or he wd hv behave differently?? A big NO, becoz the same Jogia was asking Sumitra, whn she was in Mumbai, to kick Anandi out for sake of her own blood. He hs ensured to make Anandi life hell by every means, by blaming her for continuing study against DS will and ensured tht she cd not study further. But his BAD LUCK tht Anandi wdnt broken and she got full support of her in laws. This loser wd hv cheated her same way, without thinking anything, even if Anandi wdnt hv any support. For such selfish people, others life dosnt matter, and they cover their selfishness with the name of DIVINE LOVE. If tomorrow he will leave Gouri and go for other girl, thn I hope those who support him now in the name of love will continue supporting him.

Originally posted by: lifeisloving

I have a simple question a person who lived with a girl for 16 years in a relation ship!! how cannt he love him ???? is it possible ??

i dunt think so beacuse before jagat can understand relationship he was bound with anandi and anandi had done every possible thing for him and his family to bring happiness for them ..if Jagya cant love anandi person !!! how cud he even love any 1 on this universe ???? HE IS SELFISH who just LOVES HIMSELF!!!😡