Suhana's Corner: Of women and motherhood
Hi friends, how are you all? Hope you had a good week. I am feeling superb because after Ishaan's disastrous birthday party, I was able to bring a smile on everyone's face at home, especially Disha.
I felt good to be able to help Disha didi and erase her pain of not being a mother, with a baby that I found in the park. Surprised??? Well, read on to know what happened, I promise it's worth your while.
This mammoth news was bombarded on us when during Ishaan's birthday party last week, Disha didi snapped at me. She accused me of being insensitive towards everyone in the family and not caring for their well-being or emotions. I felt very hurt but it was Rajni didi's taunts in the same vein that pinched me the most. I was humiliated before my family, dad and Sanjana and all my planning for Ishaan's birthday was ruined. I was distressed.
I don't know why they were upset with me and felt I didn't care for anyone. If I had known what Disha didi was going through, I would have never organised a party for Ishaan. Whenever I do something nice, I am misunderstood. On the other hand, come to think of it, I can understand what Disha didi must have felt when she got to know that she can never be a mother. It must have been devastating for her. I remember when I thought I was pregnant, I was super thrilled. I made plans for the baby, even thought of names but later the symptoms turned out to be a tumor and all my dreams were crushed. It wrecked havoc in my life and mind. So I don't blame her for her angry comment and reactions.
The next day, I went to ponder about my plight in the park and accidentally found an abandoned baby!! OMG, I mean - who leaves their little infant unattended in a public place!! So irresponsible. But even after calling out and asking around, no one came to claim the child, so I brought the baby girl home. Disha didi and others were stunned and happy to see the baby and she forgave me too. It felt good to bring a smile on her face after last night's incident. But soon after papa came home and pointed out that the baby belongs to someone and that we must report the missing child at the nearest police station. After a lot of question and answers, the cops let us keep the baby till they found the parents.
Handling the child and being a mom ? even if its temporary- is a super duper feeling I realised. When I was thought I was pregnant earlier, I remember I had spun a whole yarn of dreams regarding my motherhood and my baby. It is so easy to think and talk about babies but hardly does one realise that babies need care 24x7. They can't talk so you have to take care of feeding, cleaning and getting them to sleep and everything else in between. I am sure Disha didi too must have thought about being a mom numerous times but those dreams didn't realise for her. But I hope she doesn't lose faith as science has a cure for most things today. She should try again and consult with different doctors to find out about the options that are available.
They say a woman's life is incomplete if she doesn't become a mother. I do believe that motherhood is very important in a woman's life. But one doesn't have to conceive to raise a child. You can adopt if things don't work for you. The bottom-line is don't lose hope. There are so many kids in this world who are abandoned by their parents for a variety of reasons. Like the baby I found, you too can adopt a child. I was very worried when the inspector at the police station insisted that we leave the baby in the police station as they would send the baby to an orphanage till her parents are found. Imagine what would have happened to the baby if I had let the cops take care of her. They are not well equipped to take care of an infant. I had to bring her home.
For now the family is on tenterhooks wondering if the parents come to claim their baby at the same time we are all enjoying the company of the little. Do share your motherhood experiences at Suhana@startv.com and tell me how children have changed your life for the better. I too look forward to experiencing this wonderful phase in my life and hope that I make a good mother.
Fan comments
Vishal- hello, suhana mam i m the big fan of urs. i love ur smile whenever i tensed due to some reason i just see ur smile or remember ur smile and believe me i get more happiness. i hate this type of program but due to u i love it. plz always smile in ur whole life. i pray to god give u my life happiness to u if u tensed anytime. i love u suhana mam. i want to marry u but my age is 20. n u r the popular celebrity so can't be matching. love u mam. keep smiling
Suhana- OMG Thank you so much for your honest thoughts and feelings and for your lovely compliments. I hope God gives you all the happiness in the world. Do keep writing and watching Sasural Genda Phool.
Aditi - Hi Suhana I am from Myanmar Although I am in foreign country. I watch your show everyday. I love you very much. You Look very sweet with sari. I am waiting for your reply
Suhana- Hi, how are you? Hope doing great. I am so glad to know you are enjoying Sasuraal Genda Phool in Myanmar. Thank you for loving my style and saris. I love them too. We try to experiment as much as we can.
Deepak- Hi Suhana, Emotion ,happy, comedy fight and drama everthing in Saural Ganda Phool, Disha's emotion, Ishaan ke birthday per darma , Deepak and Sanju ki comedy and fight , Rajini aur suhana ka upset hona, Bidi maa ka Eswar se mila,Ishaan ke birthday ki khushi and most important in sab me Suhana ka hona. Superb week. This is best week of Sursal Ganda phool. And Ragini , you are superb actress. Your smile, comedy, upset, fight, sab is tumhari acting me. App ke face per dikta hai ki aap har pal k
Suhana- Thank you so much for loving our show Sasuraal Genda Phool. We do our best to entertain all you loving fans out there. So keep watching and writing in to me.
Anshika -hey suhana. sgp is relly an awesum serial. luv ur chemistry with jay soni. luv u both a lot. n i relly wana have a mother like u have (badi maa). all the charaters in d serial r jst superb. frm radha bua to ilesh! hope it continues successfully like d prsnt. n ya ur effort to bring back happiness in disha bhaibi's wyf was relly a an affectionate gesture -luved it. the baby was relly-2 cute:)
Suhana- We look forward to feedback from our viewers and always want to satisfy them with our stories and acting. Thank you so much for all the lovely compliments.
dharsana - Nowadays sasural genda phool is not at all shown during daytime. iam a house wife and i just luv to watch this show. so i request starplus to show this during day, atleast one time ,instead of showing reapets of all other shows during daytime please
Suhana- I will surely pass on your request to the STAR team and hope they can help you. Thank you for loving the show and enjoying it.
Hill Road Media Tuesday, August 02, 2011
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