What did you learn?? - Page 3

I'm serious though. First time I saw it, I thought it was a typo. Then I kept going through posts and kept seeing it only in her posts and I thought...for her to have done it repeatedly, she's obviously having misspelling issues. 😉 And I keep staring at it...can't even move ahead in her posts...and then having to go back to read her posts all over again so I could remember what I read before that...come upon the weird spelling...and back to square one again.

So, please...a sincere request to Sachi...spell explosion correctly. 😆

Anyways, goodnight to all. 😆

I'm serious though. 🤣 First time I saw it, I thought it was a typo. Then I kept going through posts and kept seeing it only in her posts and I thought...for her to have done it repeatedly, she's obviously having misspelling issues. 😉🤣 And I keep staring at it...can't even move ahead in her posts...and then having to go back to read her posts all over again so I could remember what I read before that...come upon the weird spelling...and back to square one again. 🤣

So, please...a sincere request to Sachi...spell explosion correctly. 😆

Anyways, goodnight to all. 😆

for once i thot ekta is gona say sumthin sensible😃..but she d it again..😆..

If we see it in general way there is lot to learn

1. Nobody is perfect in life everyone has their shortcomings but we should never take the advantage of those to find faults..if you love a person then dont try to find out the mistakes !! accept them as they are and make them to realize where they are at fault in their own way..yehi hota hai saccha pyaar.

2.A husband should be strong enough (though loves his wife sooo much) to point out to his wife if she is wrong !!!! bavana vo hi bahar me nahi behak jaana ! make her to understand where she is wrong! Now- a- days a strong reason for separation from parents.

3. Ppl dont shy away are stay away from Joint family system, just learn the art of living in it..you can be d most happiest person on the earth with a strong support system.

4. No matter you grow as an individual but still we are the same little kid to our elders..they expect to share their problems and they never feel as if they are burdened by it, but feels happy to guide us and share their views with us.

I honestly loved this track.. it was soo close to life scenario cauz i have seen so many situations like this happening in reality but sadly none of them were like R,D and S!

I m from nuclear family at this moment, since my father neva realli had good relationship with his side [ even though i do remember tht when times were right, we used to hab blast! my memory is more or less faded since i was jus 6 i guess.. ]

But then when i went to india for studies, I had to live in joint family [ my mom side] and I cant tell how much i miss those days! yes we used to fight a lot [ i wasnt gunda like febs, rather quiet kid, so get blamed all the time! ] its such a good feeling tht you have so many people arnd you who care for you, and you're not alone when you're sad.. but ofcourse no family is perfect!

Hab seen many fights like this.. [hate them]! but i guess after watching things like tht, i have learnt myself as in how to deal with such situations.. My maamiji didnt like us..so partiality came in, and fights started where all they were concerned was themselves, but they werent looking at situation in whole picture [ for family]! i have seen tht worst moment as well where our mamaji wanted to move out! before all this could happen our mom jus called us bak..

though not married, and unaware of relationship between jethani, devrani, i believe most relationships ask for one thing i.e respect, whether its with your friend or your parents! You got to respect the presence, privacy of other people and acknowledge what they doing in order to develop good relationship! I guess reading between lines is important too.. got to take indications.. and if someone is asking for their OWN time.. should not force yourself on them.. but let them have their own time to sort things out.. and If one's angry other should play the role of listener [peacemaker]! Furthermore, its important to understand one's nature before hand so you dun get hurt later. for instance, my mom is rather short tempered but kind at heart.. i often tell our helper or even mom's office staff tht if shes angry listen frm one ear and get it out of another.. jus dun take it to heart.. so the point is you have to understand another person! 😛

I guess I wouldnt mind, actually would love to have joint family! 😊 but i guess i m more like rajni out of them! 😆 [ gussa kam aata hai, lekin jab aata hai bahut zyada aata hai! ]

So yea, there you go my answer! 😆 i bet only 2-3 lines make sense but i wanted to write since many people wrote big paragraphs! 😛