What did you learn??

Hello to all SGPians... writing after a quite long time... please bear with me... 😊

I have seen many shouting on R &D and many SGPians taking a side for Suhana... this post is not for taking a side... so I request you please don't comment here if you want to take side of either Rajni, Didha or Suhana... I want all of you to share what did you learn with this track without being bias... 😃

I want to raise a point here... we all are discussing who is right & who is wrong... did anyone one of us thot about learning a lesson from this wonderfully executed close to real life scenario track... I personally loved it... and I don't know who is right or who is wrong... all of them are different person and all of them are very good on their places... no one is evil... here... not Suhana and not even Rajni Disha... I don't want to discuss that why R &D exploded... I want to discuss about the situation after explosion...

I loved how BM said to Suhana... "You are not at fault... par tume bahot kuch sikhna hai... Tume logo ki muskurahat ke pichhe chhipe gham ko samjana padega agar tum in sabke sath has milke jina chahti ho to..." how true is it??

I wud say 200% true when you are in Joint Family... that is a very good learning lessons for us all who has not seen life beyond than 25 years... (Sheema di... as of now I know only You Elder than 25... please correct me wherever I go wrong... )

what happens in real life when there is a fight between Jethani & Devrani... in 10% cases out of 100... it gets solved & they live happily... but in 90% cases... either Devrani or Jethani... Take thier husband... and go out of house... to live separately... that's what happenes... and I am sure many of us wud have seen that situation...

but that will not happen here in Kashyaps.. neither Suhana wud say to Ishaan... let's go separate & live with my dad... nor R & D wud say... hum thak gaye hai kam kar karke... to hum alag rehte hai.. suhana ko handle karne do tab pata chalega... no... none of them think like that... and that's best part of SGP... they will show us rifts between relations... but the next thing SGP will show is... how to solve it in a most beautiful manner... considering each person's situation... and making it a learning lesson for many like us...

we don't know how to handle relations... we might have seen our Mom doing it... but can you do it being at your Mom's place... can we sacrifice... so my answer wud be no... coz we r 21st century kids... we think individually

we can only handle our friends... coz we know their nature and we don't live with them under same Roof... but Problems bound to happen when you are living with others under same roof... I have shared house with many different room mates... in spite of being best friends we used to fight & shout at each other at times... coz of many things... I can't say who was right...

if friends can fight & shout... then RDS are three different ladies... coming from a different life style, different family culture... & started living in same house coz of relations... but adjustments & considerations comes along with all the relations... particularly in joint family and that's what CVs are trying to show in a Most Most beautiful manner According to me... I loved whole track... and Loved how BM explained whole thing to Suhana... if I put myself at Suhana... then I wud say... I learned a Very Good Lesson of my Life...

that was my learning lesson.. I wud love to know how you took it... what did you learn... please share your views... and please don't discuss who is right & who is wrong... and don't say either of them is perfect and no one needs to learn anything... coz My Papa says... even if you reach at 60... you still need to learn... and Life itself is a learning lesson... 😃

Very very good post Sachi , and I am proud of being part of this forum who thinks beyond romance and lovey dovey story where the leads are never wrong and perfect with super personalities
I loved this track although the timing is wrong as all this should have been done before BT track in my opinion but anyways. A very realistic situation which happens in every joint family. Young SGPians can not or might not had first hand experience but I had many many times, I have told off, shouted at but I made mistakes as well, no one left anybody, people get angry and then time heals the pain, nothing stays the same, no body us vamp or evil all the time sometimes circumstances pushes them to behave in a nasty way. I can't write a lot as I am sitting in Alton Towers theme park , near water under the tree, so don't feel like lecturing but one think for sure never give up on people for little misunderstanding, talk talk and talk.

res sachi...u will have more to add after today's episode i feel...

Very nice post Sachi. 👍🏼

Wonderful post Sachi⭐️👏⭐️Will post what I learned later on abhi toh discussion thread par hain😆

excellent post sachi! 👏

Very well put sachi awesum post yes i loved it very much the way the showed that drift's r ther in a family but the important thing is how to handle though no one is wrong but stil such things do happen i live in a joint family n fights with my cousins do happen bt d best thing i understood felt was how to handle a situation u might not be ri8 bt stil u hav to hav patience for d matter to be solved without a fight

Great post Sachi 😊Now this is what I call initiation of a healthy discussion👍🏼