suhana's behavior?? - Page 3

Originally posted by: sargun

i dont think rajni and disha were right in their way. how can suhana know disha's problem. if she knew she did not throw a party. bt i didn't like rajni's behaviour at all. i felt really bad for suhana when she said

rajni aur disha didi ne ek bar b nhi socha k uske dad and sister b wha hai and i cannot face them...really touching...

Originally posted by: sargun

No, suhana should not change herself because we like her what she Is. she should take care but , I do not want her to become like badi maa. She is known for her pure heart and the childish attitude. and i do not want to lost that charm. everybody is right at their place the only need is understanding and communication.
And rajini and disha had made suhana relaise earlier also in their way.but this way was little bit wrong . they can make suhana understand in their way and they had done in past also.

Originally posted by: bigtvawards

Completly agree with u dont want to see suhana,s change behaviur

Originally posted by: bigtvawards

I totally agree. Suhana shouldn't change herself. She just needs to learn to fulfill her promises whenever she promises to do something and she needs to wait for her turn whenever she needs something from the kitchen be it tea, coffee, aloo puri, or paratha. Rajni and Disha need to learn how to share their problems and insecurities with the rest of the family members. If Disha and Rajni had spoken to Alok and Bari maa about these issues, I am 100000% SURE they would have told Suhana not to celebrate Ishan's birthday and made her aware of the current events. Rajni and Disha should also learn to correct Suhana's mistake on the spot rather than standing in a corner, fuming with anger and giving Suhana killer naagin looks. Suhana does understand everyone's feelings and she cares. It's just that, sometimes when she is too happy, she gets carried away by excitement and fails to detect others' sorrows. Rajni and Disa should have told Suhana nicely that she shouldn't back out whenever she she takes responsibility for a task and she has to wait for her turn whenever she wants something. Even Bari maa explained certain things to Suhana which she actually understood. Remember, bari maa telling Suhana to be a little more caring towards Ishan and that she should to small things for Ishan every now and then and that Ishan is only hers and Sona is just his best friend. Didn't she think of making chicken dumplings for Ishan after that? She did feel more concerned about Ishan from then onwards. Suhana just needs to be counselled and Rajni and Disha need to correct her whenever she is wrong. Wouldn't they correct Meethi on the spot if she had done something wrong? When Meethi does something stupid, they don't just stand in a corner and fume with anger. They tell her right away. That's exactly what they need to do with Suhana. Tell her right away or later on when she is alone and be more open about their issues, when they know they can't solve these issues all by themselves.

Edited by rabees011 - 14 years ago