Originally posted by: kashish_s2
hey coo, post. I havent yet read all the other posts so I dont know what everyone else is saying but Id just like to say that I dont think Jagya and Gauri love eachother as I have pointed out in my post, "Kya Gauri galath hai?" earlier. Gauri loves Dr. Jagat, she cant handle Jagya and Jagya loves Gauri's education and how she was in the city. Even if they did love each other then the point comes back to why did Jagya treat Anandi so badly then. In the 5 years, Jagya just left Anandi thinking, pinning mouling over events trying and fighting to find out why and what she did wrong that her husband was treating her like a doormat. I mean she serves his family and he comes back with a wife without telling anyone. An Indian. in my opinion should know that our norms tell us to seek elder's advice before taking drastic and important decisions. Him falling in love is not the problem.. in fact love is beautiful and should be followed through. His ways are wrong. He should have consulted his family, told Gauri, spoken to Anandi personally not over the phone and then taken decisions. Thats what I think would have been the right way to do it.. Now back to your discussion question. I dont completely agree with both options.. Ok let me explain..
Firstly if you have a devoted wife, wouldnt you fall in love with her anyway.. I mean I dont know about boys but all the girls do say if you agree with me..if I had a loving, caring, respectable husband I would fall in love with him. Its only natural. i believe that love doesnt happen because two people's qualities match..but love happens when people spend time together to discover and accept eachother's faults and qualities to those extents that it starts being one of reasons for loving them. That is exactly why opposites attract. Now if you have a devoted wife why would you fall in love elsewhere. However if you do fall in love..which I dont see how.. then obviously talk to your wife, find out if the otehr person loves you too and then decide if you want to give your marriage a short or move on. If you want to move on then you should. You should compromise cause comprise doesnt only concern ur life but ur kids, ur family and ur wife's.sorry for such a long post.. tc😃
I appreciate the clarity, depth and detail in which you've written your thoughts.
I agree with most of it...
going to the point ...if you have a devoted wife, wouldn't you love her anyways...😊...in ideal world yes ! but real world and human mind is complex, and more times than we can imagine ...thats why we have all the problems in the world...So we need to seek optimistic answers to problems in real world scenarios...can't judge things by absolute rights and wrongs,in a world where nothing is a rule.
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