You think about my love for you more than I do

Originally posted by: Lennie

I loved that line - Kesar was so right in what he said , so true - she is so focused on that one bit that she forgets other things along with it... other things that matter and come along with them being who they are, indivdually and together...

As you say the bond and love they had for one another

You know i do think its about time Gulaal apologised and i think she will - she knows she was wrong here - and she knows she has hurt him - that was obvious, judging by the expressions she had and the realisations as well, what Kesar said

Kesar has understood his love 'the concept of love' what it means, he isnt denying it but putting it elsewhere but still his love is there, which is pure and rich, and doing things out of love for her betterment and her happiness, and wanting nothing in return, its all about giving -

I am gonna put what i said in EDT

I loved Gulaal and Kesar last scene, what i really loved from the start was the tone of it, there was no harshness from both in a way, no coldness from Gulaal - no anger from Kesar (which i didnt think there would be - just hurt) just pure and simple hurt, and even from his voice we knew he was hurt

Gulaal i say was desperate, worried - desperate in need of answers in what she thought was going on, i dont think she 100% believed what she was coming up with - but she was mulling over it, and was getting irritated till she snapped - and that too not in a harsh way as well, trying to understand something she couldnt

Kesar's reaction i loved the most and how he was, its what i expected, i for one did not see him getting angry or lay donw some law or give her statement as such (kinda like the scene we saw 3 weeks back before the friendship phase), Anger Kesar for now has gone - he has released himself from what he had before, and what he heard today would only hurt him, and he answered back in hurt as well, the voice and his tone - for some reason i thought of little Kesuda/Ali Haji here, i dont know it just made me of think of him - coz of how innocent Kesar was sounding and hurt, as Srushti he has matured inspite of that innocence😳

In one simple paragraph what Kesar told her, he laid it down, that she always thinks he is wrong in whatever he does, or tries to do, why he was doing what he did, why he went to break the DV, why he felt the need to bring her happiness, his love for her... and also took away her assumptions which was needed to see the next phase (the certain eyeopeners Gulaal has got, esp the one where she takes him for granted and see how it feel that he is avoiding and staying away for her, that angle has come in now)

Will be interesting to see how Gul-Kes will be, i do see Kesar staying away and maybe getting himself busy with Talli's shaadi and Gulaal i guess trying to seek him out atleast and talk to him etc - one thing i am glad in a way her assumptions are cleared away to move onto the next phase and the eyeopeners connecting and her journey moving ahead like you say Reemz, forward and in the right direction - and also getting hints of a 'woman within her' out etc

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Yeh there wasn't any coldness really. It was more about Gulaal's confusions to WHY is he doing this? It must be because he wants to obtain her at the end of the 3 months but now she has her answer. Again it's another step forward in the right direction because she will not judge his actions or intentions any more. She will accept that it's her Kesar doing this for her because that's how it's always been with them.

I don't know if its too much to ask but I hope we get some sweet scenes between the two where Gulaal tries to manao Kesar. Hope Manasi is able to resume shooting soon!

Originally posted by: MeySimi

<font color="#0000ff" size="2" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">Reema,</font>

<font color="#0000ff" size="2" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">Every word that he spoke was nothing but TRUTH. But this line was the highlight. Actually the article now makes sense when Kesar says she is not moving on from the fact that Kesar loves her even if he has decided to put that thought aside for her happiness nor does she allow him to forget that fact.</font>

<font color="#0000ff" size="2" face="Comic Sans MS">Kesar believes that apart from these "NAMED" relationship, thereIS a bond between them, and since she has forgotten all about that he corrects it to "BOND THATWAS"</font>

Originally posted by: Lennie

</div><font color="#0066ff">It would be nice and cute sweet scenes of Gulaal trying to do something and going out of her way to get back Kesar, and say sorry for hurting him, and get backKesar's friendship atleast 😳</font><font color="#0066ff"> and also move ahead from the ILU thing now... since Kesar has told that she isnt letting him and also her move onfrom that, and that they do have a bond/relation that doesnt need an name, or anything attached to it</font>
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<font color="#0066ff">I know i havent written in anything in thethread of Manasi being injured, but i hope she is ok and its not too bad- worried for her 😕</font>

<font color="#0066ff">MSimi - i agree </font>

Originally posted by: soapbubble

It was a good fight! and particularly seeing how some of the others between GulKes have gone - completely derailed without either of them making any sense (esp the one when he tells her he knew about Dushyant - that was a crazy hyper fight).

This one was good - she was confused and suspicious. he was hurt but said EVERYTHING that needed to be said, she heard him, understood and finally is on the defensive. It's true she obsesses about Kesar being in love with her far more than anyone. He's now settled for loving her, rather than BEING in love with her.

I have wanted Gulaal backfooted for some time - she's too sure, too obstinate, too willing to squander everything for her stands. Not too much, but just a little bit. It's time Kesar got some understanding, some mollifying, some pampering. He's been so blackened and blamed by everybody for everything. 😕

Side jump: Nothing to do with this epi, but I hate when Reva starts yelling at him too, blindly supporting Gulaal through black and white.😡
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

'Mein tujhse pyar karta hu, yeh baat mere mann se zyada tere mann mein har waqt rehti hai'

I think that dialogue was the most thought provoking for Gulaal.

I'd personally vote the one where he tells her how she doesn't let him stay or move on and how there is a relation beyond all this 'love'.. or rather was - as the dialog of the confrontation; but this dialog about his love being more on her mind is phenomenal in how explicitly and simply it explains exactly what has been wrong with Gulaal all this time - especially, ever since Kesar's reform. Who ever writes dialogs for this show has such a precise insight into each of his characters, I like the way how the GK confrontations are never off, not even one line! 👏

She is focused so much on the fact that Kesar is in love with her that she even fails to respect the unconditional bond they once used to share. She fears that romantic love to the extent that she turns a blind eye to the love they always had! It's interesting because its true and in a way shocking for Gulaal. Why does she have to think about his love for her so much when he's trying so hard not to?

Gulaal cannot get away with insulting Kesar's feelings or giving him the cold shoulder whenever she wants. I'm glad Kesar clearly showed her mirror as to how she actually treats him! It's not fair at all and it's about time that she realises that his feelings deserve respect whether she wants to reciprocate them or not.

Gulaal should apologise to Kesar and by that I don't mean 'ayoo mera kesuda'. It has to be a genuine heartfelt apology from one friend to another.