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Is pyaar ko kyaa naam doon? 😕
In the history of MKAP - Today I feel like this 😕 BOLTI BANDH!
Judging today's epi... Lets see what writes...Maybe likhthey likhthey I'll find the answers I'm looking for...
We all know that Baba took away Pratigya's safety blanket, Her patch work quilt - that he had patched together for her with his Unconditional Love, Unconditional Trust, unconditional Security/Protection and Blady blah.
At the first point of separation we expected Anger from Pratigya's side. This current attitude to be shown at that initial stage, but instead we saw a girl fallen victim to Love hurts.
Okay whilst many of us were willing to grill and did grill Krishna over this, Ignoring his angust, pain, hurt betrayal... we were blinded by Pratigya's love for Krishna. Her highness was worshipped for being the bigger person and understanding her partners pain.
Krishna too was suffering... but did not confront Pratigya over the matters (Which we did not approve of).
The hatred in him went to new heights with each passing day, and we hated what he was doing.
Although he was ruining his own life and himself, we were annoyed at him. BUT we were all supportive of Pratigya for her noble acts to reconcile her marriage. And she showed us all that she is trying her level best from MMFG that she will get her Krishna back.
Krishna was angry that she left him, For him his Love, Vishwaas and Love was already cracking due to Amma - But at that point it was confirmed that Pratigya din't love him. So he went about hating her and didn't feel that there was anything left for explaining.
Pratigya begged him to give her a chance - and he did. Despite the fact that he showed her anger - she believed he loved her still.
She proves her innocence, breaking him in the process. Knowing well that he is shattered.
At this point I trusted that Pratigya will take him to task, ask her relevant questions, sort out the problems and go back. OR infact at some point in the separation call it a day forever.
But instead she decided to challenge her marriage... to test Krishna further. To make him realise her value. Although at this point he did. Krishna doesn't know how to love logically - He just loves, that's all. It is not that he could not read the love manual - it's just that Love doesn't come with one.
So as far as he was concerned he talked to her, lay his heart out infront of the Sax clan. KST apologised... for his mistake.
But the audience was shocked when Pratigya gave her glazier looks and denied his apology and told him to do one! The audience was betrayed and fooled. In all this time they supported Pratigya because despite how we all felt, we thought she wanted to reconcile, we had adapted ourselves to join her plight in winning Krishna back. But all of a sudden without knowledge the tables had turned and Krishna and the audience had been shunned.
Still the ever so loyal audience said - fine Pratigya needs reassuarance further from Krishna that he will prove his love. He will show remorse in a way that she expects. Possibly by saving Ganga, Building the dabba, aplogising again. BASICALLY doing all the kind of things that HE HAS DONE BEFORE.
But this time, he thought the gesture has to be more grand as khata was just as big.
So he did what he felt he had to, Jaanu meri Jaan...
The audience thought he was a twat.. but more than that the annoyance came with Pratigya's statement 'No matter how much I tried to change him'.
Now the audience realised what is this? One minute when he was not willing to listen to you and was drinking, you didn't think of this and were following him like a headless chicken in the dark hours in a dirty pub. But here he is trying to make amends and you are dismissing his efforts for a need to change. I'm sorry but us humans felt a bit 😕 CONFUSED.
Then he did all the other bits, flowers and baloons, which was not embarrassing. The manuquin epi was for her.. but he was trying. She wasn't willing to listen. She did not even steal a smile in privacy.. if she did really love him.
So now what did Pratigya want - what was she feeling, her expressions and attitide was showing that she didn't want him at all.
When he threatens to kill himself.. she didn't want to go. Knowing well that KST will jump.
how could she become so heart less. This was the point that really bothered the audience.
By taking the situation to the media.. We could understand that Pratigya too felt embarrassemnt.
But if your loved one was up on that tanki, forget talking to him - I'd dash to him 85 feet up that tanki - when you know deep down inside that the Nirbuddi loves you. But she stood there challenging him, whilst he help lessly like a fool looks on.
Okay Today's episode...
She stands with her challenging looks.
Krishna's statement "men blindly follow your wife with trust - with or without understanding her"
This was a desperate call - he is willing to do anything for her.
He openly admits that he didn't take the cowards way - but apologised in front of the whole world.
This is a HUGE change in krishna from the KST that he used to be in the first epi.
When the truth hits her, she called him down that he will jump, when he was rudhing down the stairs - she was scared for his safety and was holding her pendent tightly out of anxiety.
The confrontation..
She tells him that his antics will have no effect on her, for he has sinned unforgivably.
He was broken, He looked like he was regretting coming down those steps. He looked like he had fallen down the 85 feet high tanki. His chest heaved, his breathing came in gasps like his life support machine was being turned off. He WAS BROKEN.
Still not had any effect on her... she walks of - he pleads.
Whilst she did her catwalk on the mud path, he looked like he was staring at her, pleading to her for the last time. Because after this he had already decided there was going to be no life without her. Pratigya did you not think, that he would have climbed back up and killed himself, or do something else harmful?
I would also pray that she would share what is Love and respect and vishwaas. As far as I and many of us know - krishna has defined this many a times with his actions.
She came back...
What stopped her, the silence, the fear 'what haappened to him.. is he heading back to the tanki?
His words? what stopped her?
What did she feel - when she turned around.. pitty, love or during the catwalk did she find the missing pieces of her trust, vishwaas puzzle?
Did his kneeling down satisfy her ego that, yes he truely cannot live without me OR was it that I cannot live without him too?
The hug..
This said - Don't cry, I'm not going anywhere, I won't leave you.. you are my one and only.
Now did it have to take him breaking down completely for you to realise. I hope her ego is satisfied and this track ends here.
Justification...
Is this what she was looking for? Was this the humbleness from his side, the satisfaction that wihout her he cannot live. Will this justify the stamp on the divorce papers for her. I think it should.
He gave backk her safety blanket, and she returned his dummy back to him (Dummy being his Pratigya). She got back her mental security and he got her back and that's all he wanted.
For those who are not satisfied at the reunion..
Many still possibly feel that they need to talk, but sometimes seeing a man bring his emotions on his face - gives you the answers, sometimes it is not the words but the tears that speak volumes.
In this case that is what has happened. The tears have washed away all bad feelings, The slate is cleaned to start again. the rain too was the metaphoric significance to this.
Did their bond grow stronger?
Yes it did. When one can forgive anothers misdeeds, and still feel the love to want to be with them after neing tested then yes that bond is strong. IF YOU LET GO then no the bond was not that strong to start with. But after being tested in a big way if you find your way to each other then you were never far in the first place.
How do we percieve this...
Many of us slightly older members with myself being 32 yrs.. saw that they need to talk till the cows come home, and a more realistic approach should have been applied, especially knowing the charatcter of Pratigya the way she has been displayed as a hard pratoganist.
On the other hand the more young and single girls take the romantic approach.. and with Kriya being very young too.. maybe a more light approach was enough for them, a more filmy one, a more romantic one.
So I found my answers after this huge essay
That she found the love, trust back.
And also Love, trust, respect doesn't come with a manual of right and wrong - it is a emotion which will fluctuate up and down situationally and it is ith care and understanding and patience each time that you will be able to work through your emotions.
That's all from me now..
Carisma.xx
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