PRATIGYA - 4th July Written Update !! - Page 7

Originally posted by: tanthya

Implying that she needs something strong to enable her trust in him or before she even considers beginning the relationship smacks of putting a condition to me ...Both have to change..No question's about it ..P was present in ur post/s and I elaborated on it ..

yes, P was present...but there i was only talking about K...

she is hurt n she is trying to come to terms with the fact that he signed divorce papers , just like that, all his promises forgotten...n any girl would want an assurance from such a man who does things in a spur of anger or just to prove himself not weak...i won't call that a condition, i would call that a much needed space for K to think about his POV to their relation...i see P's pain n hurt in all this matter...rather than her wish to make him dance to her tunes...

Originally posted by: Binny1247

Hey Thanths...🤗

I have to agree.. I understand P's perspective she is in pain and cannot find the courage to trust K will not repeat the same mistake again.. but it's not acceptable nor is it plausible to expect another to mirror your expectations.. if she wants him to change she needs to help him want to bring changes in his own behavior from within.. today he may change to get her back but for how long.. real change can only come when an individual is determined and wants to change for the better... it takes time.. !!

Binnnyyy 🤗..


How r Yaaa ?? am not seeing u or ur posts nowadays..kya hua busy hogayi kya ..

I can understand and totally sympathize with Pratigya's irritation when Krishna begins to sing n dance...for a private girl (???)...that would be totally embarrassing ..but I cannot condone the Change statement ..

Yes..For a supposed intelligent girl who knows everything , I simply cannot understand why she cannot fathom that enforced changes without the backing of consistent rewards at right times will only lead to relapse to former behavior ...The motivation to change has to come from within and she has to tap his inner core ..

Originally posted by: tanthya

Binnnyyy 🤗..


How r Yaaa ?? am not seeing u or ur posts nowadays..kya hua busy hogayi kya ..

I can understand and totally sympathize with Pratigya's irritation when Krishna begins to sing n dance...for a private girl (???)...that would be totally embarrassing ..but I cannot condone the Change statement ..

Yes..For a supposed intelligent girl who knows everything , I simply cannot understand why she cannot fathom that enforced changes without the backing of consistent rewards at right times will only lead to relapse to former behavior ...The motivation to change has to come from within and she has to tap his inner core ..

I have been home entertaining guests.. had cousins stop by over fourth of July break..😛

Exactly.. and I completely agree.. I was completely fine until she stated I could not change him as much as I would have liked.. fine we all agree he needed changes to be made in his behavior towards others... but feeling let down because she could not change him in to the man she could be proud of is too much.. change does not take place over night.. it takes time and comes from within.. I was surprised even her parents are willing to accept his behavior because they can see past his actions and see his desperation.. I am not saying forget everything but let him change on his own why rush or force him !!

Originally posted by: dhakarn

yes, P was present...but there i was only talking about K...

she is hurt n she is trying to come to terms with the fact that he signed divorce papers , just like that, all his promises forgotten...n any girl would want an assurance from such a man who does things in a spur of anger or just to prove himself not weak...i won't call that a condition, i would call that a much needed space for K to think about his POV to their relation...i see P's pain n hurt in all this matter...rather than her wish to make him dance to her tunes...

In ur posts P is present directly or indirectly...

we all get that she is hurt and also that she must not forgive hm so soon...and as her own mother pointed out closing all the doors and windows will not make the pain go away , the hurt to fly away... how will she get the assurance, has she talkedv to him about it...no..he is flying blind on this !!...

He does not understand space in relationship..They already had enough space ..now it is about reducing the distance..

I saw it sometime ago..now I see stubbornness