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Posted: 14 years ago
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Ambaji should have never ever asked Anu to gift her daughter a Car. She thinks she has complete right over her Anukalap income, not only he is responsible for her daughter but he should take care of expensive gifts to make them feel good.

I am waiting for Anu to rebel and tell her that he wants to help, but she is taking advantage of him, she sees him as her personal bank of Anu.

If father has no money daughters get none. Ambaji keeps saying we would have given Hetal all the gifts when Hetal father has no job and no work, he earns nothing. She should encourage Hetal to find a job to help Anu, but instead she wants Anu to earn and give everything.

Ambaji could have said no to Hetal and she has been saying to Mona.

Ambaji is enabling Hetal to be greedy and ask for expensive gifts. She should teach her that married daughters shouldn't ask for gifts. The gift should come from heart. Also, they have never ever had car in their life, this is the first car family which Anu has bought, Hetal's father and mother, never had a car, if she wants car she should get one when she can afford it, if she cannot afford it she can do with out it. Mothers don't beg their sons to gift expensive car to their daughters..sons only help to keep the family afloat, they don't take place of a father in their sisters lives.

I hope men of the house put end to this nonsense. Gandhi family is not one woman (Ambaji's) show. Ambaji is running the whole family like a dictator, now she is ordering her son to buy her daughter a car because of her love for her daughter, she should show her love in the ways she can afford.

It is weird that Anu has taken the place of father and husband to Ambaji. If Ambaji's husband and Hetal's father cannot afford to gift her with car, then Ambaji has no right to burden her son with greedy demands.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am totally agree with u. Stupidity in both ambaji and Heta(always)l this time.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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This is SOOO stupid! when mona asked her parents for money to pay the electricity bill ambaji became sooo mad and said "what is wrong with you that you have to go to your parents for money when your husband is earning". she said so much to mona nfront of the whole house and then tattletaled to anukalp. now hetal is coming and asking for a car out of pure greed for her own personal self and ambaji is letting her have it?? does that make any sense? and fine they weren't able to give too much to hetal but they were able to give her the man she supposedly claims to love and a good house to marry into otherwise noone even wanted to marry her. and ultimately she had a love marriage, it was her choice, and never forced onto her. if mona wants anything she's such a horrible, selfish person. now this car is for the whole household, so the dad can go buy material instead of walk in the son, anukalp can take a car to work instead of a rickshaw, it's the first and only car in their house for the whole household to use bought and stupid hetal wants it for herself and karan. she's too stupid and needs to get thrown out her character makes me sick of the show.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree, Ambaaji should have definitely discussed this with the family before giving Hetal the car. She is really spoiling Hetal.😡😡

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Posted: 14 years ago
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It is really so stupid to hear Hetal ask Ambaji for a car to enhance her and Karan's izzat and Ambaji going for it. What a shame!!!! What is wrong with these 2 women?????
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Posted: 14 years ago
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so true,the men of the house need to speak ,especially anu's dad and grandfather... this not just ambaji show ...and i also think mona should speak up for once as well. Anu need to tell his mon enough is enough and stop trying to control his life...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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To please her daughter, Ambaji should let Hetal remain in her maayka for a couple of years so they can save up & give Hetal all that she wants. Hopefully in this time Karan gets a wake up call & find someone who loves him.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with u. Ambaji should not allow this to happen. When mona had asked for money from her mother then it was such an issue with their family but when their own daughter hetal ask for it then its not an issue. Such an hypocrite gandhi family. Before I was thinking that ambaji will never support her daughter greed. Once when hetel was enjoying in gandhi family and her MIL was looking for her then ambaji didnt take her side, that time I thought that when ambaji will know about her daughter behaviour she will not encourage it but she is just another hypocrite mother. She proved that she is hetal's mother only.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think ambaji has some ulterior motive she may be givin it so that smhow Hetal realizes her mistake, the ambaji we know will never wrong her son
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: pixienasrin

I think ambaji has some ulterior motive she may be givin it so that smhow Hetal realizes her mistake, the ambaji we know will never wrong her son


Ambaji uses her son for her ego, she has been so cruel to her daughter in law and makes her son grovel and ask for forgiveness when he has done no wrong. Ambaji has no love she see Anu as her bank, he should look after her, her daughters and his grand parents. He should fulfil all her dreams, that is not love.

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