Life partner decision - Page 2

Originally posted by: harpkaur

hahaha i know...

itz liek dis

before marriage

girl friend ask..whers d moon

boy friend says- one is in d sky d othr one is with me

after marriage

wife ask:- whers d moon

husband:- r u blind..cant u see its in d sky😆

no offence ne1..

😆 true everything does change after marriage, the moon doesn't become special anymore. But to get to that point in marriage, you had to have some sort of common ground to make the marriage work. I think that is what Ratan needs to look for, someone that may not have the same thinking as her but agrees on things that matter the most in life. I have known my husband for 10years before we got married and have been married for 3 years now. We have went thru school, college and careers together. And I always complain that he isn't as sweet as he use to be. But reality is that things have changed situations have changed and we as wives have changed also, we think we want our "boyfriend", but reality is we really don't want that. As much as we would love to hear that he has two moons, one in the sky and one right in front of him, at this point I rather see him calling me every 1/2 hour when I am away from home because he doesn't know where I put his things, or can't eat his mom's food because he has gotten new taste buds from my home cooked meals or is completely lost when I am not there and give a huge hug as soon as I get back home. That is what makes me feel most important now a days...that I matter and am a big part of his daily life...and if Ratan is smart, she will look for someone that can respect her and her thinking, because that is all that matters at the end of the day, not who can woo her...

Originally posted by: taral83

😆 true everything does change after marriage, the moon doesn't become special anymore. But to get to that point in marriage, you had to have some sort of common ground to make the marriage work. I think that is what Ratan needs to look for, someone that may not have the same thinking as her but agrees on things that matter the most in life. I have known my husband for 10years before we got married and have been married for 3 years now. We have went thru school, college and careers together. And I always complain that he isn't as sweet as he use to be. But reality is that things have changed situations have changed and we as wives have changed also, we think we want our "boyfriend", but reality is we really don't want that. As much as we would love to hear that he has two moons, one in the sky and one right in front of him, at this point I rather see him calling me every 1/2 hour when I am away from home because he doesn't know where I put his things, or can't eat his mom's food because he has gotten new taste buds from my home cooked meals or is completely lost when I am not there and give a huge hug as soon as I get back home. That is what makes me feel most important now a days...that I matter and am a big part of his daily life...and if Ratan is smart, she will look for someone that can respect her and her thinking, because that is all that matters at the end of the day, not who can woo her...

true 😊...but swyamvar is so short..she can't know a person this way..wonder,how she is gonna choose her life partner