Kesar is NOT negative but a VICTIM! EDITED!

Originally posted by: likarsh

I'm asking.😊

Originally posted by: Anjalg

Earlier she used to moan about wanting to get married to Kes...now she will moan about why she ever got married to Kes. I feel like this girl gets way too much air time...Gulaal is pretty much in the background while all we get to see is Talli and her tears!

Originally posted by: maybe-just

Okay WOW look at me posting alot today *will regret it next week in exams *

Don't worry. You seem to be too dedicated to anything that you would do. That too convincingly. So you would rock in exams too.

but anyway this is a post for those who are finding it difficult to digest Kesar's change and the TK marriage! I will try to explain as best as I can!

Kesar was always meant to be a character with a whole new dimension relating to complexities in human emotions. So unless viewers hope for the conventional goodness to a show lead, it is not going to be that hard to understand Kesar's change in behavior

The victim is Kesar. WHY? You may ask.

No doubts about it. He was and is a VICTIM.

Well because today we all saw how stubborn Gulaal was with her mother and she refused to listen to reason. She always does what she wants and always gets her way. GOD she reminds me of myself I'm such a spoilt brat 😆 Because of this Kesar was cornered by Talli, Sudha and Gulaal (without his knowledge I'm speaking figuratively obviously). He didn't know about it for a long time but when he did find out he was hurt because his important life decisions were being made without his consent or knowledge even. Even if he had refused to marry Talli, I'm sure Gulaal would've had her way and would've forced Kesar into marrying Talli. We all know that she always keeps her "stupid promises" regardless of Kesar's feelings. What annoys most is that she thinks she is right.

What Kesar reminded her was that she can't promise a happy life to Talli unless he was willing to cooperate.

His change into his (insanely HAWT might I say ☺️) behaviour is the reason of all this, he knows he wouldn't have had a choice to choose his own life partner because of Gulaal's words yesterday, she wounded him so deeply and they say a scorned man in love is as dangerous as it gets (okay maybe that saying has been manipulated 😆 but you get the point) I think he feels that the only way to make Gulaal see her mistake is by doing what he is, his emotions cloud his judgement to the point where he cant see what's he's doing as the wrong thing, though I think he knows the consequences his actions might have (hint him giving Talli a chance to back out) so just don't blame Kesar in all of this, everyone shares a blame equally. Had Kesar spoken out to his family about him wanting to remain Gulaal's husband maybe that's would've solved some problems but then where's the masala in the show 😆

His family still finds him immature and out of order because they have blind faith on Gulaal. Even if he had spoken to his family stating his wish, they would ignore it as immaturity and Gulaal continuing to tell them that she does not give importance to the ritual will convince his family that Kesar has totally lost it.

As for the marriage, it hasn't happened yet and we dunno if it will happen so chillax. It's only the preparations that are happening. For all we know some problem arises and they dont get married.

I was wondering when Sudha invited Raman, whether he agrees or not, he is the father figure to Talli. Kesar being Raman's brother, I wish someone ( read some sensible one) should have brought up the issue that Kesar becomes Tall's uncle by relation. I was so banking on Jamna Kaki on this. I need to thank my friend who has put this "Chachaji" thought in me.

(DUGGU might come in 😆) And now that Gulaal knows Kesar's intentions of revenge I'm sure she will regret and might even try to stop the wedding herself *wink wink*

If she really cares for Talli, she would. Or if she is over confident that Kesar cannot go to such lengths to hurt Talli and believes that over a period of time Kesar will accept Talli, then she wouldn't

I honestly don't see the marriage as a bad thing Marriage will doom Talli's life forever. She has been fed on fantasies about Kesar as her prince charming. Yesterday when she told Kesar that she does not even remember any reason for her to love him, it was obvious that she is not actually in love with him. Her need to get married stems from her insecurities of being orphaned at such a young age that she is looking for rightful reasons to be part of this family that she is so used to. Because she knows in ths household Sudha and Gulaal are always there or her,

for all we know it might be the only thing that might jolt Gulaal and make her realise that maybe Kesar would've been happy with her

Remote possibility

no matter how much she tries to deny it. (I have more ideas on this theory so I will elaborate further if anyone asks)

Besides we can always petition for Talli's character to be bumped off the show *evil laugh* 😉

As you can probably tell, I'm just kinda sick of defending Gulaal's POV 😆

I have never done that mistake. I believe in "A smallest good deed is better than the grandest good intention. Gulaal's intention may be grand but she is not even into a smallest good deed when it comes to understanding Kesar.

I just cant stand her decision-making at the moment 😛 And I'm all up for Kesar going evil, I'm loving it really and who doesn't wanna see Talli torture? She tortured us audience for a long time with her talks of marriage with Kesar 🤢 Now she will get what she wanted but not how she wanted it!

Oh and one more thing, I have Never seen Neil in such a complex character before hence my excitement by the prospect of this marriage and change in Kesar turning into something good, it gives Neil a chance to develop his acting skill and Kesar's character turns something more than just a guy in love...the usual types you know, its changes the dynamics of not only his character, but also the relationships he has with his family as well as the coming tracks. 😊

Neil is capable of enacting these transitions in his character so convincingly, it does give him ample scope to explore himself as an actor. he has the true potential for that. And as your topic indicates, its not a negative character, it is having partial and minimal shades of gray(not evil) because at present Kesar behaves in proportion to the amount of trauma he has been subjected to for so long.