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keenu gill

@Keenu.G

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Posted: 14 years ago

I m back with my discussion topic 😆 [ 2nd topic, now thts fast]

Ok SGPians, what i have noticed, tht we all want raunak track to end, we want him to return back to his family as soon as possible so we can see the end of this track, So i m assuming tht everyone believe that Panna and his mother will forgive him and accept him back in the family...

On the other hand, in badimaa situation, we do not support the idea of Ishwar [Bade papa] being accepted and forgiven by the family.. since we think what he did was wrong.

I couldnt help myself from comparing both situations and how we are not thinking about one over another..

and look at the irony, i m assuming both of these tracks are gonna run side by side, so panna and her mother both of them will be in same dilemma.

Raunak left family and went on to commit suicide without thinking of how his family will live after his death and how will panna handle all the situation.. he was being selfish since he didnt think about anyone else..

I dun know , but it seems strikingly similar to BP situation, he left his family for money but consequences of his leave, were same as Raunak at current moment..

Raunak wants to return back to his family badly [ i m not lookin at the part of piya and his father at this moment... jus looking at topic broadly] on other hand, i assume BP is contacting family because he is feeling lonely after loosing his job and want to return home..

I dun think any of them deserve forgiveness for wht they did...

We are jus considerin BM situation and how she shouldnt accept BP, but how about Raunak ?why no one is thinkin about panna's situation?

I dun knw if i explained my situation clearly 😆 but i m curious as to how you guys will answer...

plz share your views guys...

Edited by Keenu.G - 14 years ago

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Posted: 14 years ago

Hey Keens... first of all... Nice post for the discussion... 😊

Here's what I thought...

Badi Maa and Panna are in the same situation... there are many differences in Panna & BM's situation.. Raunak wants to return within couple of months.. and BP after 20 years... Time plays a important role for someone to forgive & forget the past... 😊

Raunak ran away coz of failure... whereas BP cheated BM & left her with 2 children... was more painful to BM.. Mistake also plays a role that how big it was & how much pain that had given to someone...

When I compare Panna and Badi Maa when it comes to forgiveness... circumstances play a vital role...

Panna's Scenario --

now Panna has Raunak's dad and Mom, but what if when they won't be with her... how she wud handle herself.. she also has to run house financially...

If Panna doesn't want to forgive Raunak.. then she has to forget her past & move on in her life... she is young, she is not binded with Child...

but if she can't forget Raunak... & still loves him then it's better to forgive coz it wud be difficult after certain age to live alone... It's depends on Panna... how she wants her life...

According to me... Raunak still deserves to be forgiven.. he ran away coz he was not able to handle failure... if Panna doesn't forgive him... he will lose everything & again will run to suiside... it's better to give him another chance & support him to be strong to fight with the situation...

Badi Maa's Scenario --

Now to Badi Maa, her husband left her... at that time... she had children, she had Dadaji, Dadiji like her Mom & Dad, she had Alok to support financially... and Rano to support Mentally... she had to think abt Children & hence she was not able to give away her love & responsibility towards Inder & Panna... she fought her battle...

but now after 20 years... her husband came back coz he lost everything... If we look by BM's nature... she inside of her heart still feels for BP.. coz she loved him only, Bp is father of her children... all that memories is making her weak to forget him... & move on... she might forgive him coz she never keep grudges towards anyone...

But According to me...

BM shud think that she has her Daughter, Son, Daughter-in-law & Grandchildren Meethi.. they can keep her happy till she lives... she won't be alone.. and hence... BP shudn't be forgiven nor he shudn't be given chance to be a Kashyap family member inspite of being in such a bad condition... he doesn't deserve... he is plain selfish man... but he shud come back & see how BM & his children r happy with family & wihtout him ... that can make him regret & realize what he had lost in his life...

Hope I am clear enough to make my point... thanks Keens for the wonderful post.. and sorry if I hurt anyone... 😊

Edited by Sachi16 - 14 years ago

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keenu gill

@Keenu.G

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Sachi16
Keenu darling... abhi ke liye Reserve...

Thoda dimag khujlana padega teri post ko reply karne ke liye... but none has replied so, I did... 😃

thank you sachi i feel loved 😳! please do! thodi post popular ho jayegi 🤣

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Netri

@iViews

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Posted: 14 years ago

Rounak 's case is little different from BP .
He lost his job & going to kill himself .
WHile BP went on to have another family.
If someone has hope of being accepted is Rounak.
I can't ignore the fact that he was going to kill himself but
He is in trouble & suffering so I can live with Rounak being accepted in the family
On the other hand there is BP I can't forgive at all costs.
I hate people like BP in real life.
Even Ishan , is in slipperi slope again ...
I really hated him during " THAT " Track . Now this .
Chalo that's from Me. It's not worth getting upset for .

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brainychild92

@brainychild92

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Posted: 14 years ago

i havent been on the forum lately so i have no idea on what basis people want raunak to be accepted except that we are annoyed of seeing piya!

personally, neither deserve to be forgiven but if one had to i'd choose raunak... why? well first, he's trying sooner than ishwar... he didn't disappear for 20+ years!

but if i look at the whole picture, none deserve to be back.. i want both to return and get punished. i want kashyaps to ignore and not accept ishwar and i want panna's family to ignore raunak, especially his mother.. than he'll really realize his mistake!

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keenu gill

@Keenu.G

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: netri
Rounak 's case is little different from BP .
He lost his job & going to kill himself .
WHile BP went on to have another family.
If someone has hope of being accepted is Rounak.
I can't ignore the fact that he was going to kill himself but
He is in trouble & suffering so I can live with Rounak being accepted in the family
On the other hand there is BP I can't forgive at all costs.
I hate people like BP in real life.
Even Ishan , is in slipperi slope again ...
I really hated him during " THAT " Track . Now this .
Chalo that's from Me. It's not worth getting upset for .

atleast you replied thts good enough for me! 😊

and I agree with the point you mentioned about difference between raunak and BP situation..

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brainychild92

@brainychild92

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: netri
Rounak 's case is little different from BP .
He lost his job & going to kill himself .
WHile BP went on to have another family.
If someone has hope of being accepted is Rounak.

He is in trouble & suffering so I can live with Rounak being accepted in the family

oh my god its been so long i forgot why raunak left! haha.. well another reason why its easier to want to forgive raunak compared to ishwar...

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crysind

@crysind

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Posted: 14 years ago

Even I will say the same... Both of them don't deserve forgiveness from what they did... And I donno what Kashyap & Sharmas are goona do with them as everything is unpredictable about them nowadays...

Raunak left home with frustrations and BP with dreams... But at the end they lost...Thats the hint we are getting from them...

But if I compare both, I will say Raunak is better than BP...because I believe that his family was also a reason for his decision... I am not saying he is right, but somehow none could carry his feelings. And we should understand that he was a egoistic person too. So my hand will go up for Raunak if someone asks me " if anyone of them to be forgiven.."

BP left that family only for himself...So he never deserve a rethinking about forgiveness...

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keenu gill

@Keenu.G

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: crysind
Even I will say the same... Both of them don't deserve forgiveness from what they did... And I donno what Kashyap & Sharmas are goona do with them as everything is unpredictable about them nowadays...

Raunak left home with frustrations and BP with dreams... But at the end they lost...Thats the hint we are getting from them...

But if I compare both, I will say Raunak is better than BP...because I believe that his family was also a reason for his decision... I am not saying he is right, but somehow none could carry his feelings. And we should understand that he was a egoistic person too. So my hand will go up for Raunak if someone asks me " if anyone of them to be forgiven.."

BP left that family only for himself...So he never deserve a rethinking about forgiveness...

thans febs for wonderful reply dear! 😊 esp the red part! thank you couldnt think of tht 😉

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Keva

@Keva

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Posted: 14 years ago

#10

Fantastic topic. I have been thinking about this as well for a long time.

Badi Ma should not forgive her husband under any circumstances. Her husband left and never looked back and now he wants to come back that is ridiculous. I believe somethings in life you can forgive but somethings are not at all forgiveable and what badi ma's husband did falls under the unforgivable category according to me. Badi ma's husband did not bother for many years and hence now nobody in the family should forgive him. If they do end up showing that they forgive him I am sorry but that will be the worst part about this show according to me.

Pana and raunak track I am very disappointed. Raunak is being forced to stay at that other house and now I am sure panna will forgive him and say things like he wanted to comeback but he could not because he feared his family would be harmed by that crazy lady's father. They really had a good track but they messed it with this issue of him being held by the other lady and her father(sorry I do not even remember the names). I wanted to see him comeback home after a few months or days and say he realizes that he messed up and he did make a mistake of leaving her and his parents. I wanted to see him regret. Then it would have been a good story as to whether Panna should or should not forgive him but now all this is not possible coz it is just about that other lady forcing him to stay with her. In the end, she is going to forgive him just because this guy could not comeback as he was being held by the other lady and her father so technically he is not at fault.

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