felt bad for akshi...

icyprincess81

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Posted: 14 years ago

she made a mistake in judging naitik.but naitik didnt have 2 tell his mom how akshi felt...culdnt he solve with her...like talking 2 her bout his feelings..instead of bottling it up...mayb then aksh wuld have cme out of her grief faster.he had 2 tell g3...shes always luking for a reason 2 scold akshi. and the precap y is she asking g3 for forgiveness? she needs 2 ask naitik 2 forgive her for misunderstanding him.

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swati

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Posted: 14 years ago

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yes i agree too... g3 always wants to be in naksh bed room...don't understand her problem on other hand i also don't like akshi..she is always crying...scared ...making faces ...and creating lot of problems...

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: icyprincess81
she made a mistake in judging naitik.but naitik didnt have 2 tell his mom how akshi felt...culdnt he solve with her...like talking 2 her bout his feelings..instead of bottling it up...mayb then aksh wuld have cme out of her grief faster.he had 2 tell g3...shes always luking for a reason 2 scold akshi. and the precap y is she asking g3 for forgiveness? she needs 2 ask naitik 2 forgive her for misunderstanding him.

MIL involving in their son's life is a major problem in todays society. There are certain things that a couple need to keep it to them selves. Things happen. Arguments happen. Misunderstanding happen. Thats the reality of a married life. That doesnt mean that u have to tell those to ur mum. And now she has another reason to be angry with akshara. I did feel sorry for Naitik. YES akshara was wrong in saying those. But people need to understand her as well. It is she who went through this MC. She is the one who is at home and have to go through all Gayathri's mood swings and listen to Bindiya's 😡 stupid talk. She doesnt tell anything of these to Naitik. Obviously that would hut her big time. And like they say, 'we take out our anger on the people we love the most'. So did akshara. I too felt sorry for akshara!!

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Charu

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: apoorshan

MIL involving in their son's life is a major problem in todays society. There are certain things that a couple need to keep it to them selves. Things happen. Arguments happen. Misunderstanding happen. Thats the reality of a married life. That doesnt mean that u have to tell those to ur mum. And now she has another reason to be angry with akshara. I did feel sorry for Naitik. YES akshara was wrong in saying those. But people need to understand her as well. It is she who went through this MC. She is the one who is at home and have to go through all Gayathri's mood swings and listen to Bindiya's 😡 stupid talk. She doesnt tell anything of these to Naitik. Obviously that would hut her big time. And like they say, 'we take out our anger on the people we love the most'. So did akshara. I too felt sorry for akshara!!

true ! we take out our anger on ppl. who we love the most AND we SHARE our innermost fears , secrets and problems with the ones who we love the most ! for Naitik. his mom means the world to him and more than him, it's Akshara who wants transparency b/w her and her saas's relation and doesn't hesitate in telling every little detail to her and ALLOW her to interfere in her married life ! Akshara, being an outsider to the family, can do it then why not Naitik? for him she's his mom, he can share his pain with her ! (although i agree it was not right bec. it'll create a negative impression for Akshara) and then , how in the Earth was it possible to clear this MU? bec. Akshara will never trust Naitik , she just knows one part of the story that Naitik didn't want the child ! it's Gayitri and Naitik's family who can tell Akshara that he was shattered , just like Akshara, but controlled his emotions for Akshara's happiness ! if he, just like Bindu , Gayitri and Naitik's family , CRY in front of Akshara that they lost their child , will she EVER come out of her grief? Akshara is ready to believe all sorts of negative things said by Bindiya and Gayitri but when Naitik tries to give her a normal atmosphere by diverting her mind, she wants to come back to the same old rut again n again 🤢 to her sasural where the root of all fears and expectations are ! how is Naitik supposed to help her out with Bindiya's taunts when he has no clue abt them? he'll come to know only when maate tells him .

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Deepali

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Posted: 14 years ago

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BUT TRY TO UNDERSTAND NATIK'S STATE IF HIS WIFE IS NOT UNDERSTANDING HIM THEN TO WHOM HE WILL SAY HIS PROBLEM HE ACTUALLY DINT TOLD IT .YHAT WAS JUST AN OUTBURST OF HIS FEELING IN FRONT OF HIS MOM. & MOMS R SENSITIVE 4 THEIR CHILD OBVIOUSLY SHE WILL FEEL BAD ESPECIALLY THE WAY IN WHICH AKSHI BEHAVED THAT WAS REALLY WRONG EK MAA APNA BATA KA LIYA NAHI KAHEGI TO PHIR KISKA LIYA KAREG

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anaya

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Posted: 14 years ago

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yes i agree too... g3 always wants to be in naksh bed room...don't understand her problem on other hand i also don't like akshi..she is always crying...scared ...making faces ...and creating lot of problems...

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icyprincess81

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Posted: 14 years ago

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but aksh didnt kno how n felt.cuz he never told, which he shudve.it was about time.aksh is goin thru a sensitive phase in her life.she needed 2 kno how naitik felt.and as for telling his mom he told her the 1st day thats understandable but telling her this bout akshi was totally wrong.

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asha

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Posted: 14 years ago

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very correct...akshi wouldnt have done this naitik

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Kruti

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I think gayatri was went over the top shouting at akshara,maybe cos of bindya filling her brain...but yes natik shouldn't of told his mum what akshara said but then again he was thinking my wife dont understand me so who can i talk too,and i guess the only person he could cry infront of is his mum.
Also akshara was wrong to acuse natik because he did say when she told him she was pregnant that he is happy that he's going to be a dad maybe before he wasnt ready but he too wanted that baby once he knew akshara was pregnant.
Also bhaabi maa and gayatri giving baby clothes and jelwery to akshara as soon as they found out she was pregnant was a bit too much i felt...they could of waited sometine ebfore doing all that,normally people dont give such things before 3 months have gone.

and about bindya taunting akshi,natik has been there when she has taunted and shut her up without being disrespectfull or rude and maybe akshara should learn this from him😆

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