Geet said "Aaj Beti ki farz" meaning at the moment...things are never static..she didn't mean that they will always come first...but at this point in time it is important for her to fix things...
Our parents and elders shape who we are...we learn to respect our partner through our parents...if we lose that respect for parents than the respect for partner holds no value...
You mentioned that if anyone insults your hubby you feel bad...but similarly if anyone insults/hurts your parents you feel JUST as bad...
PS: Obviously this is just my point of view...and I don't believe there is a right or wrong...just different opinions.
ur right same goes with parents to if parents are insulted by hubby the girl has the right to fight for her parents too.
but u didn't get what i meant in geet -----first without clearing the fight with maan means clearing his doubt's she just walked out of her own house she was immatured then instead of running if should have done what she is doing now then we would have liked it.
now coming to this new found family she respects beeji and teeji it's good and she wants to clear the issue that's good why i feel bad is if she loved maan that much as she mentioned today like she will die but can't let anyone say bad about him were was this love when she left his house never to return is that love no i don't think so there she was immatured and more over she is wife and D-I-L she had some responsiblity and she failed in that she left dadima who supported all the way how could she now talking about beeji she has all the rights to be angry so geet decides to stay back .
my question were was this concern when leaving delhi couldn't she think about dadima,anni and offcourse maan don't u think she was selfish then .
that's what the dissussion was about😊
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