Manav has no respect for women?-slapping varsha

Yesterday precap was so disgusting for me.manav slapped varsha.Whatever varsha did was in frustration .She didnot push Archana wantedly.for what manav slapped her?isn't it rude on manav's part to behave with his saali like this.

Slapping is never the solution to anything. In relations, one should not slap. Men should not slap women and vice-versa.

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

Slapping is never the solution to anything. In relations, one should not slap. Men should not slap women and vice-versa.

However, as human beings, none of us are perfect. Everyone of us has a weak point, and sometimes we fall prey to it.

Like when Varsha pushed a heavily pregnant Archana with force (accidently), and Archu screamed "aaaooo", Manav, who loves his baby to death, slapped her. An impulsive, angry reaction upon seeing one's loved one getting hurt, coupled with fright about the condition of mother and baby, also signifiying that Manav's upper limit of tolerating Varsha's abuses and accuses had snapped. The push was the last straw and finally he lost all control- the lid toppled over. Not right, but understandable.

At a later point, I hope Manav apologises to Varsha for it- thus proving that he is the bigger one, more cultured and respectful towards women. But what is important to think here is that maybe anyone in his place would have done same thing. Manav shouted at Archu so badly when she pushed his Aai accidently into fire- understandable again, but at that time, it was less implusive, he got time to ask Savita how did accident happened, what happened, consoled her and all.

Similarily, Shravani was not pushed by Archu in front of Manav- he came to know of it later- so reaction will not be an impulsive reaction- it will be a controlled reaction of a man who is courteaous and never hits ladies. The impulsive reaction came from Girishji, Shravani's father, who saw her falling and immediately pulled up the whole Deshmukh family for all this angrily.

In impulsive reactions, one doesn't see wrong or right. It just happens. One doesn't have control over it. When you see your own people getting hurt, the heart pains and we lose control.

Manav was wrong, but his reaction was understandable. I don't feel he doesn't respect women or anything like that. In fact, he shows respect to women like Manju and Rasika, and never shouts at her bcos of her age. In fact Varsha has spewed all sort of nonsense about him from time to time and treated him like a dog, yet he never slapped her or Vaishu, keeping in mind that she is a woman and his sister-in-law.

I agree with Nikita

Manav didnt do it intensionally. He lost his cool and slapped Varsha. Am sure once he would calm and realise his mistake he would want to apologise to Varsha. But then i dont think Varsha would hear him.

Right now its Manav and Archana responsible for the mess in her life. And Manav slapping her in front of so many ppl is just gonna aggrevate the issues for the 2 families. I wonder if this is gonna have an end?

yes Manav did a wrong thing by slapping a women but his reaction is very much needed so as reasonable also..

Varsha can shout at dem and the way she screamed at dem as if Manav-Archana killed her baby naturally and not only dis instance everytime she shouts and behaves at others is just disgustingg like only she has a loud mouth and she is right and others are wrong...she never argues but screams lke madd...she is a no.1 hypocrite in PR..

Manav's reaction is very much human and varsha deserves dis period..

anyways dis is all for high drama to be set which will be followed by vaishali going back to Dharmesh(she deserves him only) which results in Archana going into Depression and a hugee differences between K's and ArMan..thus,as mentioned in one article savita will enter into the frame

I totally agree with Nikki.

Though Slapping is not supported, Its the outburst of a Man who had done so much for that girl yet going through this and seeing his pregnant wife getting pushed by the same girl,surely that impulsed reaction is unavoidable.

Its a long overdue from Manav for the way Varhsa treats him.
when she needs him,she calls him jeeju jeeju and gives respect ,when not,call him Tum and say things to him that are ungrateful and what not.

And then though Archu has done a mistake, what all have archu did for varshu ,how many times she has stand for this spoilt sister in her family, even then this girl(varshu) ,once what she thought is not happened,then start cursing her sister's happiness. So its wrong

Even though not purely intentional,if she pushed her preggy sister out of rage then it is wrong.

Anyways hope Manav will surely ask for forgiveness later.He is such a kind of person who regret for his mistakes.


@Real Life, these slap scenarios are not seen, and I haven't seen such delicate relationships slapping each other , (Jeeju slapping saali and vice versa, MIL slapping SIL). Its weird.

varsha deserves a slap wen she aborted her kid but armaan supported her,she deserveed a slap wen she was speaking nasty things about manav but still armaan dint slap her,at the end of it varsha anger twrds armaan is justified,i agreee she is pulling the thing too uch but she has alwys been like dis,manav is another useless guy,he jusut want to loose every1 who loves and support dem,i hope satish fights for varsha.

i agree manav shouldn't slap varsha its wrong to slap a woman

Swedish princess shudn't have been slapped. But I enjoyed the slap.. :-/ It was very much wrong on his part. But he also did it in frustration.. He got frustrated coz she pushed his wife. Varsha also did it out of frustration. so its even... o_O