Love vs. Relationship

Hello all,

I've been reading some of the posts that you guys have made regards to Love between Prem & Kareena and Tushar & Kareena...

For me - Love doesn't care if one lies or one cheats ... Love cares only for itself (quite selfish if I might add)...

Relationship on the other hand demands trust, honesty, and sencierty from it's beloved.

So Kareena lying to Tushar about her true identity should only have affected him as far as their relationship was concerned. Now if he truly LOVED Kareena - all those lies produced by her, wouldn't have mattered!

For Prem, he did stab Kareena in the back for not admitting that Tushar was the one who asked him to come to the Temple. As a friend (relationship) Kareena has all the rights to feel shattered as her best friend betrayed her. However, if she actually loved him (as Prem "thinks" he does) than all of Prem's lies wouldn't have mattered.

Abhilasha80 while I agree with what you have to say that love supersedes everything and is all forgiving, it's not totally true.
If one's trust in a person has been broken its difficult to forgive them but you can continue loving them. Understanding the motive makes forgiving easier.

**PD**