is navya your story?

hi guys...

after watching navya the question in my mind that is navya your story??
every girl comes to pass from this phase of life.mee too passing from this phase of life...in teen age every girl wants to enjoy her life...but most of the parents put restrictions on girl...they restrain girls...i cant deny this truth that parents concern for girl or daughter but it doesnot mean that they confine...parents know what is the behaviour of their childrens..if a girl like navya so y they donot bank on their children especially daughter without knowing the truth..they donot give chance to a girl to say truth just impose their orders on daughter not to go college & sit at home...a girl which sees this type of environment so she adopts many bad things eg lying to enjoy her life in her own way...

when parents will understand their daughter's happiness..when they will completely bank on their daughter??we cant sleep over this question...

navya parents is like my parents who constantly struggle between being parents and friends to their children...

share your views...

hmm....nice topic to discuss.....😊

Yup dear..Navya's and my lifestyle resembles a lot.

Even I have lots of restrictions at my home. My parents are really concerned and possessive about me. They always want to know what I do, where I am and they do not allow me to go anywhere any outing and all ...even if I want to enjoy a little walk with my friends in near by market.

And me always wanting to for a walk or night stay at my friend's out just like Navya but cannot coz m afraid to ask. My dad is just like her, he loves me a lot and cares about me..but do not allow me to do lot of things..and my mother is not so strict just like navya's but I am not able to share everything wid her.

The scene where navya's father says What is the need to go to Appy's house, do the work here. Same condition came into my life too. They always want me to be infront of their eyes.

They don't like if I make male friends.

Even I have a Dadi in my house who is same irritating like navya's. So it is almost the same. 😃

But if we carefully see into the scene..it is not nyones fault..parents are with their thoughts and we, youths are with our thoughts..and they just clash with each other..parents who are bought into so much traditions can not digest the new generation, they consider them to be shameless on the other hand we think that whats the big deal into it ( like having fun with friends, making boys your best est friend or even having boyfriend) . So it just requires the cooperation. But some end up into a tussle with their parents and some suppress their desires and live into a fearful life like Navya.



Soma

nice topic....😊

Originally posted by: madhu_sridhar

nice topic....😊

to start with, my family make up is same as that of navya's-banker dad, homemaker mom, bickering dadi n myself...typical middle class family with a dash of conservatism and traditionalism. my grandma wants me to 2 be this traditional girl-wearing salwar full time, keep bindi, put bangles in hand n stuff like that and whenever she gets the opportunity she starts talkin abt my marriage (kya karoon...fate fate)...and there is mom n dad, but they differ slightly from navya's parents. i usually dont have any difficulty in askin permission 2 go out wid friends. they let me go easily but only thing is i have 2 keep them informed abt my whereabouts every now and then. they are also pretty nosy when it comes to me using the internet. they wanna know what i keep doing online for hours together. but they compensate some where or the other. they allow me 2 b a bit modern and give me a gud amount of freedom. so i'd say navya is about 75% of my story.

now u must ask...wat about that remainin 25%....well, there is no anant in my life na😉...so i deduct 25% for that...

ya me also 75% Navya..N I guess there are many Navyas like us are out there.

yes i too can relate with navya's story.....the scenes shown reflect my life too in many ways...not the romantic part ofcourse..... my dad is strict like navyas dad...but he loves me a lot too.... i have frens like navya who wants me to enjoy life, have fun, ...but for doing all masti i have to lie to my dad many times.... for watching movies, n many other masti..which our parents think will spoil their daughters...but this is the time when we can enjoy our life....but parents will never understand us n we cant understand them...but the tension shown in navyas face when her fone rings, or when her parents r scolding her.....or when she wants to do something n cant do because she is not alllowed to do...same thing has happened in my life too...n still happening...n it wont stop either...so yes navyas story is related to my story too

Navya's parents seem too restricting than I would imagine modern India's parents to be.
Restrictions exist not only in India but also here in the U.S. But obviously not for such things that are shown in Navya. No one here restricts a 19 year old from having a sleep over with friends or heck not even middle school gals to have a sleep over. Sleep overs are a major part of the "school" time for almost every girl, isn't it? We even go to movies together.....but till 16, our parents or elder siblings have to drive us to places. After 16, ask mum and take the car keys and go! lol

But yeah until we are in high school, parents give restrictions like be back by say 10 on weekends or 8 or 9 by school nights. This is not only among the indian people living in US but my friends who are caucasian also have such restrictions till they are under 18 and still in high school. After that, when one is off to college...lol all decisions depend on them then, parent's are there to guide you but you decide what life you want to have. Isn't it?
Too much freedom costs one same as too much restrictions might too!

yea...dis stry is similar 2 ma lyf.....itz reli a nyc stry...nd da best serail on star plus eva !!