Loved even Gayatri today!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: anu93

Gayatri rockeddd !!👏👏👏 Her dialogues were too good I wish Dadaji would have heard it . Bhabhima ka face dekhne layak ho gaya tha 😆... Gayatri and Rajbana should wake up now and realise that Naitik is their son and they have more right over him than DJ and BM. They should not obey DJ decision blindly and should show DJ n BM that Naitik parents are there to take decisions and there is no need to interfere in Naksh life. Instead it would be better if they interfere in Nandini's life...

Originally posted by: anu93

Gayatri rockeddd !!👏👏👏 Her dialogues were too good I wish Dadaji would have heard it . Bhabhima ka face dekhne layak ho gaya tha 😆... Gayatri and Rajbana should wake up now and realise that Naitik is their son and they have more right over him than DJ and BM. They should not obey DJ decision blindly and should show DJ n BM that Naitik parents are there to take decisions and there is no need to interfere in Naksh life. Instead it would be better if they interfere in Nandini's life...

Originally posted by: neel_jay

dear FLGator, i'm really sorry if you felt like my message was a personal attack on you. that was not my intention at all. please don't misunderstand me. i don't even know you, why would i attack you personally. i guess my post sounded personal because of my personal experiences.

as for Akshara and Gayatri, i have always agreed and will continue to agree that Gayatri is the one that couldn't be a good saas and doesn't deserve a gem of a bahu like Akshara. i'm totally with Akshara. infact, i wish Akshara would stop being so mahaan and would show some self-respect instead. the only thing i was trying to disagree with is "mothers treating their sons and bahus as single entities".

again, i'm sorry if i disagreed in a way that hurt your feelings.

Nahi yaar, don't worry I am too thick skinned for that😉 Yes, I felt a little railroaded coz I felt you were misrepresenting some of my thoughts. It's all good and taken in the right spirit😊 I come here to have a good time. It's very important for me that others do too so I take great care when I express my views to try & say the right things and not offend anyone. Yes, I know I'm entitled to my opinion but I am also mindful of the fact that my opinions may hurt someone & that's not what I am here for. Enough said I guess....

Coming to the discussion, I think Charu has made an excellent case for single entity. She really spoke my mind (we were joined at the hip😆). I think you are mixing up exclusivity & entity here. When I said single entity I didn't mean exclusivity. Let's take entity out of this since that seems to have been a poor choice of words on my part. Once you are married for all practical purposes you are considered a team to put it gently. You don't see one without the other. That is the universal truth but most mothers are in denial and that is the problem I have w/G3 too.

Coming to your friend's situation - I believe for every story, there are 2 sides and then there is the truth. We only know one side of the story. We don't know what the brother or his wife feels or the truth. We don't know what really happened between them coz there was no third person who could objectively decide what really went on. Yes, the sister may have witnessed it but believe me when it comes to your immediate family objectivity goes out the door.

If the son distances himself from the mother for no apparent reason then I would simply put him in the nalayak category. On the other hand, the mother needs to respect the d-i-l & welcome her into the family. I do not expect her to treat her like a daughter but she can be cordial & treat her like she would treat her daughter's friend maybe. Most mothers' have difficulty accepting a bahu but have no problem accepting the jamai. That needs to change.....

Originally posted by: moonlight08

gayitri has always been a good mother.. but she has been a horrible saas..

gayitri was always very possessive of her munna.. obviously.. naitik was a very pampered child.. all of gayatri's love has been showered on her munna and therefore seeing that there is someone who is equally important to her son than her.. it hurts her to the core.. i don't think it's akshara's fault anywhere.. marriage ke baad this had to happen.. as you people have been discussing.. awesome discussion everyone..👏

but yes.. i loved the rebellious streak in gayatri yesterday.. but.. as charu di and sarita di said.. i wud also have been more happier if gayatri would have showed this love consistently.. and not just on issues related to food..

Coming to the discussion, I think Charu has made an excellent case for single entity. She really spoke my mind (we were joined at the hip😆). I think you are mixing up exclusivity & entity here. When I said single entity I didn't mean exclusivity. Let's take entity out of this since that seems to have been a poor choice of words on my part. Once you are married for all practical purposes you are considered a team to put it gently. You don't see one without the other. That is the universal truth but most mothers are in denial and that is the problem I have w/G3 too.

Coming to your friend's situation - I believe for every story, there are 2 sides and then there is the truth. We only know one side of the story. We don't know what the brother or his wife feels or the truth. We don't know what really happened between them coz there was no third person who could objectively decide what really went on. Yes, the sister may have witnessed it but believe me when it comes to your immediate family objectivity goes out the door.

If the son distances himself from the mother for no apparent reason then I would simply put him in the nalayak category. On the other hand, the mother needs to respect the d-i-l & welcome her into the family. I do not expect her to treat her like a daughter but she can be cordial & treat her like she would treat her daughter's friend maybe. Most mothers' have difficulty accepting a bahu but have no problem accepting the jamai. That needs to change.....

Originally posted by: FLGators

Nahi yaar, don't worry I am too thick skinned for that😉 Yes, I felt a little railroaded coz I felt you were misrepresenting some of my thoughts. It's all good and taken in the right spirit😊 I come here to have a good time. It's very important for me that others do too so I take great care when I express my views to try & say the right things and not offend anyone. Yes, I know I'm entitled to my opinion but I am also mindful of the fact that my opinions may hurt someone & that's not what I am here for. Enough said I guess....

Coming to the discussion, I think Charu has made an excellent case for single entity. She really spoke my mind (we were joined at the hip😆). I think you are mixing up exclusivity & entity here. When I said single entity I didn't mean exclusivity. Let's take entity out of this since that seems to have been a poor choice of words on my part. Once you are married for all practical purposes you are considered a team to put it gently. You don't see one without the other. That is the universal truth but most mothers are in denial and that is the problem I have w/G3 too.

Coming to your friend's situation - I believe for every story, there are 2 sides and then there is the truth. We only know one side of the story. We don't know what the brother or his wife feels or the truth. We don't know what really happened between them coz there was no third person who could objectively decide what really went on. Yes, the sister may have witnessed it but believe me when it comes to your immediate family objectivity goes out the door.

If the son distances himself from the mother for no apparent reason then I would simply put him in the nalayak category. On the other hand, the mother needs to respect the d-i-l & welcome her into the family. I do not expect her to treat her like a daughter but she can be cordial & treat her like she would treat her daughter's friend maybe. Most mothers' have difficulty accepting a bahu but have no problem accepting the jamai. That needs to change.....