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Posted: 19 years ago
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Whoever does it on her on is indeed courageous, but watching simi's show( once) where zeenat was talking about her husband's illness, (mind u he was sick only when there marriage was good five or six years old), she was quite forthright in saying that she was exhausted tending her husband, it was one reason that her marriage collapsed in the end.
So ppl who get into this kind of arrangement/marriage need to be applauded. It is a very difficult choice, similarly there maybe countless women whose hubands maybe in a similar situation but fighting it out. Maybe out of love hard to say.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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might as well have sum gud moments wid da guy u love den marriying sme1 u dont love and having to live wid em 4 da rest of ur life
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: zoya786uk

might as well have sum gud moments wid da guy u love den marriying sme1 u dont love and having to live wid em 4 da rest of ur life

i agree wid u, thats wot i wud do
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Posted: 19 years ago
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exacly ennit mite aswell be wid sme1 dat u really love den marry sum1 dat u dont wanna be wid
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Posted: 19 years ago
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well i mean if u marry a person with a disease and they die ur whole life will be ruined especailly if u have child, a persons dream is to have a nice spouse and spend there lives together noone wants to be left alone in this journey of life, it would be selfish to get married to a person wen u have a illness, although u have every right to live the life u want to but u have no right to ruin another persons life
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I have never thought about.Well its a very serious decision because it can happen to anyone amongst us.
I think if the guy knows that he has such a disease which will not let him live long, he has to sacrifice his love and not even think of gettin married.By any means, if he wishes to tell the gurl or not.He must not get married is the point.
Because if he does and then he dies,the gurl is left with no option but to juzz stay like that foreva...unless she gets someone else in her life, which is quiet unlikely is what i think.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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it aint dat eazy beleive me i knw but iz true time heals everyfing and u ave to get ova da guy and dat guy shud himself not make any commitments knowing he isnt gonna be der 4 her
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Posted: 19 years ago
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well i think da person suffering frm any such disease shdnt marry bcz whts da meaning of ruining other's life?
but if u luv dat person and dat person too wana marry u and wants to give u happiness in last moments of ur life den u shd marry dat person...
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajeev_fan

well i think da person suffering frm any such disease shdnt marry bcz whts da meaning of ruining other's life?
but if u luv dat person and dat person too wana marry u and wants to give u happiness in last moments of ur life den u shd marry dat person...

exacly right gal 😉

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