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Posted: 20 years ago
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what do u think is the diff between real love and infactuation??

how can we be sure what angad and kripa are experiencing is love and not infactuation?

do tell me what u think...😊

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Tough question!! Well I've never been in love before. But I think love is when ur willing to do anything for the person u love, u can't see them crying. And infatuation is just something that comes and goes, but love is 4ever. Ummm I tried my best but when i fall in love i'll surely let u know what's the difference. 😊 I also think that Angad and Kripa love each other.
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Love is blind. U love the person for who they r. Even if they r the worst person in the world, for u they r the best. That person becomes ur 1st priority. U can die for the person if they asked u to do so. But infactuation is when u like someone. U like this person probably becoz of the way they look or maybe something attracts u to that person. But gradually, u will start disliking that person (i dont mean hate). That person wont be so important to u. They mite be important but onli if u want something from them. When ur in love, u accept the person for whoever they r n wudnt want them to change. If u want them to change, then it aint love. Sorry for making u guys bored. But thats what i kind of think love is.
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Cant say for sure since havent experienced any such feeling myself but still here is my take on love: (opposite is wat is true for infatuation but basically infatuation is only attraction...it remains there only for sometime and afterwards completely forgotten)

Love is when u see the world through someone else's eyez
Love is when u know that u cant live without the other person the same way you would live when he is around
Love never dies..Its always there no matter u accept it or not
Love is when u r sure that the other person can never be urs but still u love him/her with all ur heart
Love demands nothing, it only gives
Love is when your life becomes full of colors
Love is when you feel on top of the world & everything seems so different
Love is when your heart skips a beat everytime u look at ur love
Love is that flourishes even when the two are apart
Love is which totally belongs to the soul and not to the appearance in anyway
Love is when u cant keep ur mind off ur love at anytime
Love is when u hurt more than ur love when something goes wrong in his/her life
Love is too beautiful a feeling that can never be expressed in words, It can only be felt.........

Infatuation is when its all opposite (in my view)...if u get apart, u tend to forget each other in infatuation coz u r only attracted to the other person...love grows in distance but dies if its a mere attraction...and thats how u can get to know if u were really in love or not......I think that angad n kripa really love each other...! watever might happen in future but for the moment, they are tied in a beautiful bond known as LOVE!

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: IMP TNG


Love is when u r sure that the other person can never be urs but still u love him/her with all ur heart
Love demands nothing, it only gives
Love is when you feel on top of the world & everything seems so different
Love is when your heart skips a beat everytime u look at ur love

I agree with u coz this is how i felt. I wont say that i was in love coz it takes 2 to be in love with each other. But i can say that i loved this person although they can never be mine.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepey

Tough question!! Well I've never been in love before. But I think love is when ur willing to do anything for the person u love, u can't see them crying. And infatuation is just something that comes and goes, but love is 4ever. Ummm I tried my best but when i fall in love i'll surely let u know what's the difference. 😊 I also think that Angad and Kripa love each other.



yep i agree with u there deepey
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Posted: 20 years ago
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gud question.it took me quite a while to figure it out myself
but i will tell u all i kno

1.infactuaion is when u have a crush on somebody.
2.u r attracted to that person for their physical appearance or one of their qualities.
3.however,after sometime,u start getting bored of the appearance and u notice the bad things in the person too

LOVE
1.love is when u kno somebody and u kno the kind of person he or she is.
2.love just happens.u can like somebody or kno somebody 4 ages but a moment could come when u start liking everything about the person(i m not talking about love at first sight).
3.u accept the person for what he or she is and also accept his or her bad qualities.
4.u want to spend as much time as u can with that person and dont wanna lose a single moment.
5.u remember every dialogue,every smile,every little thing which the person says.
6.when the person u luv smiles,u want to smile with him or her
and when he or she cries u wanna do everything u can to wipe off their tears or thei frowns
7.in love u dont need to say anything,your lover understands perfectly(believe me,i have experienced this)
8.u care about the person so much that he or she becomes your life. your lover becomes your best friend
9.the person can make u laugh tho not by cracking jokes but by general things.
10. lastly,love just..........happens and keeps growing day by day,moment by moment.
believe me u will kno when it does

and angad and kripa do love each other

u guys would think i m just quoting lines from poems or romantic books or whatever
BUT believe me i do kno about love as well as infactuation

if ne1 has any love pbs,dont hesitate.i want to be friends with everybody and help everybody. 😉 😉
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Posted: 20 years ago
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kool geet......for sure will come to u when i find some1 interesting😉.... thanx guys for putting love n infactuation in such an understanding manner......good points.....dont know nething abt love.....but infactuation i think u guys r rite.....
Edited by sneha_09 - 20 years ago
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Posted: 20 years ago
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i agree with u kaj that luv is blind!!!

tia

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Posted: 20 years ago
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infatuation is so temporary.............the feelings are quickly eradicated.........Whereas loves is almost everlasting...............

INFATUATION is first mistaken for love.............its like love at first site...........which is a whole lot of crap........

LOVE..............definetly not love at first site.............LOVE is a feeling that is devoloped over a period of time............It takes time to fall head over heel inlove with somebody...........LOVE is most certainly not a spontaneous feelings..............You cant meet a guy for the first time and say i love that guy............Impossible.............You will soon realise that it was infatuation or pure lust..............

HUGE DIFFERENCE..............

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