They are such disrespectful people.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am sorry for saying so, but it really looks like they are so disrespectful. I am referring to Shravan's n Sanchi's family. Mama Mami treat Shravan as if he is some gali-ka-mawali...and not their 'Damad'.....I was so shocked to see Mama running after Shravan with a broom-stick in an episode. Maanaa ki wo Shravan se bade hain & Shravan is not that responsible yet (towards his work)....but still, whatever, he is their ''damad'' n kisi damad ko uske sasural mein aise jhadoo se mara jaye, so will it look good or respectful?😕...

Then comes his own family....earlier i used to like this thing alot that his family believed in Sanchi more than their own son😊..they can blame Shravan for a mistake, but never Sanchi.😳.......but now, it sort of feels like they treat their own son with no respect at all ! He is childish in his ways, is not that responsible yet, but still, he is the son of that house...and that too the youngest. Usko respect dene ki zaroorat nahi hai, par atleast uski kahi kisi baat pe toh vishwas kiya karo....leave ''vishwas'', yeh log toh uski baat sunana tak nahi chahte hain..........if sanchi says something,they believe her...but Shravan toh jaise mano unke ghar ka nahi, koi paraya ho...😕..................Either they pamper him ALOT...n treat him just like a kid......or they don't listen to him at all, as if his say doesn't matter in the house at all. 😳


I dunno whether you all will agree with me or not, but i certainly find this thing bad!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i think that the jhadu thing was included to make the sequence a litlle humourous

but yes its quite stupid

and i completely agree about your point on shravan 's family
you remember in the satyagraha episode even shravan says that nobody ever gave him responsibility , nobody trusted him


until and unless he is given responsibilty how will he prove that he is worthy

pratap asked him where is love

i'll ask pratap what responsibilty are you talking about

have you ever entrusted him with any?
i don't say pratap is wrong but still i am also for shravan getting a chance

and yes i feel that shravan will only work for something if he has passion
and because he truly loves sanchi he'll do whatever to prove it
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Shravan needs a career. Something he enjoys doing. Not every child
wants t join their father's business. Throwing him out of the house will be a big mistake at this stage as his family didnt teach him survival, they just spoilt him rotten.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cinderella100

Shravan needs a career. Something he enjoys doing. Not every child

wants t join their father's business. Throwing him out of the house will be a big mistake at this stage as his family didnt teach him survival, they just spoilt him rotten.

@the bold part....thats the truest part....dadi, his mom n even Nidhi has raised him as the laadla of the house, he was totally afraid of his dad n was not allowed to voice his opinion else he will be thrown out...when they wanted him to marry also ....there was a huge confusion cuz of Nidhi n Dadi. Even when they went to see Sanchi n their family he was not allowed to speak...Pratap shut him up n asked only Sanchi...when he did say he loves Tara he was asked to get out. All these while people dint give him respect nor were they interested in his likes n dislikes.

Shravan takes the easy way out....yea he has been...but iam asking y were the family members just only scolded him n forgave him all the time?? The frist time he lied or cheated he shud have been punished or atleast given proper lecture n explained the repercussions of cheating n lying....then Shravan would not have turned into a person as he is now. Now when he is yearning for his love n wants to spend the rest of his life with her......they dont even listen to him n even now takes all the decisions for him without his consent.....yea Ships i do wonder what a family these two!!!

i dont even want to comment on mama...just looking at him irritates me...he is more immatured than Shravan!!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shipra_S

I am sorry for saying so, but it really looks like they are so disrespectful. I am referring to Shravan's n Sanchi's family. Mama Mami treat Shravan as if he is some gali-ka-mawali...and not their 'Damad'.....I was so shocked to see Mama running after Shravan with a broom-stick in an episode. Maanaa ki wo Shravan se bade hain & Shravan is not that responsible yet (towards his work)....but still, whatever, he is their ''damad'' n kisi damad ko uske sasural mein aise jhadoo se mara jaye, so will it look good or respectful?😕...

Then comes his own family....earlier i used to like this thing alot that his family believed in Sanchi more than their own son😊..they can blame Shravan for a mistake, but never Sanchi.😳.......but now, it sort of feels like they treat their own son with no respect at all ! He is childish in his ways, is not that responsible yet, but still, he is the son of that house...and that too the youngest. Usko respect dene ki zaroorat nahi hai, par atleast uski kahi kisi baat pe toh vishwas kiya karo....leave ''vishwas'', yeh log toh uski baat sunana tak nahi chahte hain..........if sanchi says something,they believe her...but Shravan toh jaise mano unke ghar ka nahi, koi paraya ho...😕..................Either they pamper him ALOT...n treat him just like a kid......or they don't listen to him at all, as if his say doesn't matter in the house at all. 😳


I dunno whether you all will agree with me or not, but i certainly find this thing bad!

hey shipra......dont react so soon....everyone is in state of shock, non are in their senses......wait when everything sinks in.........then they will start talking sense........till then dont get disappointed.....................some time back when the pregnancy was false......during the 'prem sutra' and alll that stufff.............we all at the forum wanted inlaws--- like sanchi's.........isnt it? wait patience is the key.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mariamurs



hey shipra......dont react so soon....everyone is in state of shock, non are in their senses......wait when everything sinks in.........then they will start talking sense........till then dont get disappointed.....................some time back when the pregnancy was false......during the 'prem sutra' and alll that stufff.............we all at the forum wanted inlaws--- like sanchi's.........isnt it? wait patience is the key.


Hey dear, it's not that am calling his or her in-laws bad....of course they are very good people. Am just saying that they treat Shravan just like trash. From their behaviour it doesn't seem like he is their son!😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shipra_S


Hey dear, it's not that am calling his or her in-laws bad....of course they are very good people. Am just saying that they treat Shravan just like trash. From their behaviour it doesn't seem like he is their son!😳

thats true.....but then has he every done anything they can be proud of.....they have not seen him declare his love to sanchi ( we have seen it), they have not seen how well he planned it, so it is but natural to react. Sometimes a little spanking at the right time, will be good ........will make him definately a better husband than what he is now. Dont u want that?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mariamurs

thats true.....but then has he every done anything they can be proud of.....they have not seen him declare his love to sanchi ( we have seen it), they have not seen how well he planned it, so it is but natural to react. Sometimes a little spanking at the right time, will be good ........will make him definately a better husband than what he is now. Dont u want that?


I totally agree with that.😃 He..rather they, need spanking at this moment. What the family is doing is right! BUT they should atleast listen to him na!😳....Should at least try n believe him sometimes, for a change?!😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shipra_S


I totally agree with that.😃 He..rather they, need spanking at this moment. What the family is doing is right! BUT they should atleast listen to him na!😳....Should at least try n believe him sometimes, for a change?!😳

if they would listen to him and take his word, we would be sitting here and discussing, how can his parents just listen to him and forgive him so easily, inspite of such a big mistake.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Pratap did a good thing for Shravan in today's episode.

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