Hi Friends
I find some friends here bashing Gurmeets hug to dhrasti in toay episode as awful hug.
I dont understand...why should the hug be passionate when they have been through a adrenaline racing life threatening situation?
His thoughts were
1) OMG..is she safe..is she okay/
2) what would have happened if the thing fell on her
3)He was close to losing her.
It was a hug of concern..relief that she is safe...anger and upset that she was put through that and working in such a place...
She was hugged tight rightly so because it was a " I want to keep you safe from anything that can harm you " hug.But it was very short because immediate concerns were of more importance.
That is not the situation where a man explores skin. They cannot get mushy lovey dovey in a storeroom where Geet was about to get harmed.
He immediately called Pindi and lectured her...his concern right on the spot for Geets safety....
Now he will keep an eye on PINDI also...he got some suspicion this time.
Every hug is not about passion...
when a husband comes home from work after a tired day...the hug is of relief..a good to see you hug.
when a spouse is in some emergency and you are there in time..the hug is of glad this is over
when you are away from each other for a long time...the hug is " thank god i can hold you now "
hug.
when you hug after a mistake its im sorry i hurt you hug.
Everything doesn't have to relate to passion..passion is one dimension in a couple..concern for each other physically and emotionally...being worried sick about the other....to do something because the other likes it.
I feel GC and DD are acting according to script in every hug...the Archive rrom hug was long and close because its first hug after a long MU between them...and because she comes out of the chakkar and he realizes she is so fragile.and It archive room nobody can come there.
Lets not needlessly bring the personal lives of GC or DD in between and lose focus of what the director is trying to say.I think we are more lenient in this matter with DD...because even if we dont like her hug we can always cover up by saying she was coy or she is a girl to chalta hai.
I know we all want to see bold scenes and relation to next level...that doesn not mean they touch skin and hug passionately at every available juncture...thats lust...not love.
Not to offend anybody...