Is it the money that matters....?

Himanshu Sinha

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Welcome back laxmi di , missed u a lot😭😭
Valuable and remarkable comments as usual👏

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Charu

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Originally posted by: shounak-rijul1
I dont know why....but I found this track the most appealing in the whole episode today...Sushaan's scene was fun...but this was serious business...Right from the scene where Meethi comes crying for the pencil box...to the paise per pe ugte hai part....everything was apt ..this is the situation in every househole these days...and Suhana did have a jeeta jagta realization of how much we should spend and how much we shouldnt...

I liked the Rajni-Suhana convo bit too...Its a fact that today,she might ask for a 100 rs pencil box...but kal parsu it can reach to 1000 rs....It is their resposibility to make Meethi realize from her childhood that we should be in our limits...so that she doesnt grow up to be another Suhana...

Then the second part about Elesh-Disha,It was evident that Elesh is in some kinda problem...coz this just doesnt seem a job in a construction company...and the careless Elesh hasnt changed at all..though he has a job...I have been noticing how he has been spending big bucks..either on dresses,food or the tyohari...and saw the sudden change in Disha too that day...regarding the 1000 rs..so this reaction came quite unexpected...

Personally,Money does matter...kyunki aaj kal,its just money which speaks...and nothing else...jitna bhi humble or innocent u be,no one's gonna turn back at u and give attention unless you have money...and like LadyM said that if Money wouldnt matter,then no one would have tention and fikar at all...

Well said...I agree to the fact that there's no problem if you are a crorepati or a millionaire..untill u start getting the hangover of the fame and money and make things worse

i agree with you...when meethi was saying "my mom doesn't love me, she doesn't get me this n that" , i was remembering that my daughter has similar complaints from me ..each one of those dialogues said by meethi is repeated by my daughter several times ! nowdays new toys r introduced in the market every month, the cartoon channels show a lot of ads n every now and then therez a demand "mom i want this, i want that"...i cannot fulfill each n every demand , it becomes a headache bec. no matter how expensive a toy i buy for her, the next day she again tells me "this is old..now i want a new one" .... being frm a well to do family, i was never denied of any luxery but my parents taught me to value everything, whether it's expensive or cheap ! in my childhood days, my mom never used to buy me anything on my demand..she used to tell me u will get this if u get good marks....i try to do the same with my kids also...whether ur a crorepati or middle class, kids must know the worth of whatever they have & learn to stay contended ....parents try to fulfill their kids demands coz they think that they must have best of everything... in that case, kids turn out to be like suhana when they grow old !

the scene b/w rajini and meethi was very real n i loved it 👏 the whole sequence is excellent.....i can relate to ishaan and suhana's problem...my hubby never says no to me..he does everything for me, whether he can afford it or no but i know ke we must spend according to our needs and status n we have to save for our kids also toh i make sure ke i use my credit card carefully 😊

contentment is not there with ppl....no matter how much money they have, they think it's less n they want more ! ppl. r never satisfied....we must never compare ourselves with those who are richer than us but with those who r poorer...u will know that ur better than millions of under previledged ! ask ambani's wife what more does she want in life? may be she will have a long list 😃 that's human nature...ppl. might be a billionaire, own villas , cars, million dollar purses , clothes and jewellery but are they satisfied? then they want a stable life, mental peace etc....but then u cannot have best of both worlds.....God maintains a balance..humans cannot.....toh consider urself lucky with whatever u have...

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Posted: 14 years ago

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@shaunak, @haaki, @sinha My sweetie-pies....... love u all......🤗... missed u all..... was busy in family outings and just updated some episodes of SGP online..... SGP throws in such beautiful concepts as a surprise element and makes me feel awe about it....... so just loved it when shown in different angles.....😃

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Charu..... lovely post.....very well said yaar..... u have put forward your child's demands r similar to that of meethi.... i feel this current generation of most of the school going kids r the same.... even my child has quite a lot of demands and i have been facing brickbrats from his grandparents when i stick to my principle of not giving in to unjust ones.... i cud not manage to oppose them and i cud see the repercussions on him.... He being the laadla expects his demands r the necessities where as I def. don't feel so sometimes..... I am still struggling to juggle between his demands and my POVs ...... That day I indirectly made him watch that episode so that realisation dawns on him.....U r so very right.... it is become so difficult to make the kids realise the value of money....😊

Yup.....dear.... the graph between the expectation and the fulfillment always moves upwards..... our fulfillments can never end.... that is the human tendency.... a fact of human mind.....

Aaye hai khaali haath.....

lautenge bhi khaali haath.....

yeh soch agar hum samaj sakey......

toh dhan ko dhan na samjhenge.....

sunenge sab sirf apney man ki baath....!

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: laxmi_s

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Charu..... lovely post.....very well said yaar..... u have put forward your child's demands r similar to that of meethi.... i feel this current generation of most of the school going kids r the same.... even my child has quite a lot of demands and i have been facing brickbrats from his grandparents when i stick to my principle of not giving in to unjust ones.... i cud not manage to oppose them and i cud see the repercussions on him.... He being the laadla expects his demands r the necessities where as I def. don't feel so sometimes..... I am still struggling to juggle between his demands and my POVs ...... That day I indirectly made him watch that episode so that realisation dawns on him.....U r so very right.... it is become so difficult to make the kids realise the value of money....😊

Yup.....dear.... the graph between the expectation and the fulfillment always moves upwards..... our fulfillments can never end.... that is the human tendency.... a fact of human mind.....

Aaye hai khaali haath.....

lautenge bhi khaali haath.....

yeh soch agar hum samaj sakey......

toh dhan ko dhan na samjhenge.....

sunenge sab sirf apney man ki baath....!

ur very right dear..my problem is similar..i try to be strict with my kids but her grandparents and my hubby spoil them by giving in to all their demands ! i cannot say or do anything !! and whenever she does something wrong , the blame comes on me ! it's a vicious circle and i'm not able to maintain the balance ! i too feel bad and i buy her a lot of stuff, then i regret coz afterwards i notice that it doesn't have any value ! demands never end...next day she again wants something new.....it's a never ending cycle......we r the ones who have to make their future so we must make them realize the value of money...it's better to invest money in their education rather than stupid toys, tv and games coz they r a big big distraction ! i'm stuck so badly in this mess , now my child is so much addicted to cartoons and internet ke she doesn't study ! on the top of that, peer pressure..my friend has these shoes, these toys, this watch so i must also have it....new problems everyday after she started going to school !

in the end all of us do and say what rajni said 😃 "i'll buy her the pencil box next month" 😆

my daughter was also watching tht scene ....she didn't react but i know it registered in her mind..which is good 😊

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Posted: 14 years ago

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ur very right dear..my problem is similar..i try to be strict with my kids but her grandparents and my hubby spoil them by giving in to all their demands ! i cannot say or do anything !! and whenever she does something wrong , the blame comes on me ! it's a vicious circle and i'm not able to maintain the balance ! i too feel bad and i buy her a lot of stuff, then i regret coz afterwards i notice that it doesn't have any value ! demands never end...next day she again wants something new.....it's a never ending cycle......we r the ones who have to make their future so we must make them realize the value of money...it's better to invest money in their education rather than stupid toys, tv and games coz they r a big big distraction ! i'm stuck so badly in this mess , now my child is so much addicted to cartoons and internet ke she doesn't study ! on the top of that, peer pressure..my friend has these shoes, these toys, this watch so i must also have it....new problems everyday after she started going to school !

in the end all of us do and say what rajni said 😃 "i'll buy her the pencil box next month" 😆

my daughter was also watching tht scene ....she didn't react but i know it registered in her mind..which is good 😊

I guess we need to practically demonstrate that we too forego our desires due to the cost factor...may be when we go shopping....not because we cannot afford it but to spend within the limits.....so that they indirectly understand that even they need to cooperate.... the same formula of RAJNI.....to meethi for Suhana....😆😆..... I have been successful in somewhat framing rules like having pizza only once in 3 months and stuff..... he atleast respects that till now.....😆....He has been demanding PS as all his friends have it and I have been adamant that nothing comes free.....He needs to earn it if he desires it..... so we have placed our condition to him for the same and by doing this.... we hope he understands everything comes with a PRICE TAG....😆Try out Charu..... these might work for u too...😳

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