Did Rudr ever love the real Pihu?

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Originally posted by: locman

Rudr loving Pihu is another one of those unfathomable things ....and i think we ALL know that Rudr doesn't know what love is......Pihu doesn''t know what love is.....and so.....we were supposed to think that they were compatible.....yes this is the twisted logic of this show.

Originally posted by: Rach1

@Anu- Did not understand the compatible part, I thought we were supposed to think they are not compatible.

Originally posted by: evasumi

Radh it is a very good question.

I think the way Rudra is.. He is very caring and has deep feelings and deep impacts. If he could be Gauri's such a good friend then I think he would have really loved Pihu... i guess, u didnt see yest's epi,, he wasnt acting like a friend..no True friends checks his friend out the way he did... Rudra doesnt have any deep feelings for anyone except for himself.. he only loves those who support him even when he's in the wrong.. Pihu, Dadaji, Bhabhi & now G...

Yes Rudra loved Pihu and inspite of knowing how she is I think he was hoping that the pihu which has been in his heart would emerge one day...

I think looking at Rudra's back ground and the way he was deprived of motherly care or fatherly attention or sibling support and has to find his own way and own thing around since his childhood, I think since childhood he got attached with this girl who was lively, his age and fun and lived nearby. doesnt it seem weird.. that Rudra's parent love R's sister & bro,& r always supportive of them, but not R... dont think a parent would show impartialism w/o a reason...

I think when they were children they seems to be together all the time and while you are kid you just play innocently and than you step in to teenage years and the outlook changes...

I think when they grew up the attachment with each other stayed with them and they really wanted to venture in life together as they were the most comfortable with each other. But the as they grew up they started to demand attention from each other and I think they grew up to be the different person than the other thought. If you see Pihu's behavior sometimes it would be just too childish.. In the sense even when she grew up she did not change her behavior with Rudra and behaved with same demands and tantrums like a little girl.

But if you see Rudra.. He grew up to be a man... in the sense that he would only tolerate to some extent and than he would just blew up. He wanted Pihu to behave in certain way as she was his girl but Pihu has her own mind and sometimes she would purposely do it just to irritate Rudra so that she can see the possessiveness of Rudra and feel happy that she has all the control over Rudra.. i'm sry... he didnt grow up to tolerate Pihu.. it was established in the first episode itself.. it was alway Pihu who had to give in during the childhood days... Rudr is used to getting things his way.. n he likes ppl who let's him have things done his way... n when Pihu could no longer tolerate him & went to agree to marry abhay, it threw him into a frenzy...
and If Rudra does not do she will be mad and all that.. So the compatibility as a childern was lost when they became young adults. But in their heart they both wanted that closeness they had when they were children and in turn both of them expected to dot on each other the way when they were children. But as an adult your vision and your attitude changes but for both of them they lived in their childhood companionship.. So when any of them behaved as an adult and expected other to understand it just did not click with them as an adult and they started to find faults with each other and I think though they wanted to carry on their childhood relations to the next level and were successful in some way but there was always something as an adult which did not click..

Normally Pihu is outspoken and will say anything whatever comes in her mind. and Rudra as his name is like angry young man.. and thus it would not take a minute for them to come to each other throat even in simple little things.

So I think the more they knew each other as an adult I think they did not get what one was looking for in other. And I think then may be mentally they grew apart and just could find the happiness they were looking for. I think they only had blissful time when they both were in illusion about each other .

So I would say when Rudra and Pihu started to know other out of their illusive world.. most probably they did not like each other and Pihu being outspoken would voice her opinion often. And Rudra would get angry as he did not like those things...

I do not know if I am making any sense here but that is the way I feel that the image of his Pihu in Rudra's heart was totally different. He loved his pihu and wanted her to be like what he has in his heart but she grew up to be totally diferent person so Rudra kept on loving her hoping that one day his love will bring out that Pihu which he wanted to see all the time... But in reality Pihu was just Pihu her own person and would not be molded by anyone. And ofcourse Pihu had the same thing he wanted her Rudra to dot on her all the time and keep her on the pedestal all the time but in practicle life it was not possible and Pihu would just not get that. That is Pihu and her desposition and she just could not have been any other way...