Can't Enjoy The Silence - SaJan - UPDATED

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I had once read this quote - Silence makes the best conversation between friends...not the saying - but the never needing to say anything is what counts...


this is what could aptly describe SaJan of S1 - the two friends who wordlessly could communicate - a thing which Samrat even narrates in the barn post their confession - when he says to Gunjan how weird is it - that we could always so understand each other without saying a word - but how could we not understand for so long we love each other ... its so weird - and she said - Kuch baatein bolen bina nahi samjhi jaa sakti Samrat - dil mein rakhne se dard deti hai ... aur kehdo to khushi ...

to which Sam had so dreamily romantically replied - jaise pyar..

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this was what they had said on the night of their confession ... 2 best friends who went on to became eternal lovers - something which made me so so realize how important communication - especially in a relationship - one acknowledgment - acceptance of the feelings one experiences can so change it all... and keeping them bottled up inside you - can so take a toll on a person... - severe ties in fact - or even break em ... last year around it was lack of communication along with misunderstandings which had made gunjan feel Sam doesnt love her and she went to Morena ... and he followed her there - just to confess - say 3 words - I love you 😍


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here again we are seeing the Same couple in a way going through the same obstacle - Misunderstanding & lack of communication -which is taking a toll on them... Gunji in her attempts to make Sam ' life better - more organized as she feels is doing all these things - like getting those books - getting his admission in a coaching class - saying she would study with him and take his tests ... is going all out of her way ... without realizing this isnt what Sam wants ... as this time around - he cannot put his feelings in words for her

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honestly i am loving the whole track - concept - in the umpteen meetings SaJan are having - actually despite the conversations - there is a silence amidst them - silence - cos their hearts aren't speaking what they feel - think ; rather they are merely having a chat... cos despite all the time they are spending together.... they arent being themselves

honestly cv's are doing a great job with the track and concept - communication gap is a very real issue - esp among couples - and when the couple has been estranged for 3 years - its so natural !!


my only only woe is - i dont like the comic way it's being treated - the only thing i wish that changes about this track is the treatment - from comedy to more maturity - Sam and Gunjan are adults now not kids ... and i hope the cv's realize this ... cos honestly - at this juncture we expect more so much more
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Posted: 14 years ago
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*Edit* I will edit again tomorrow, cos it's late here 😉 ... but just want to repeat what EVERYONE is saying ... stop the forced comedy! It's not even funny any more ... and SG were never kiddish and immature even in season one, so why is this really good track being treated so badly?

The communication gap is the big problem here, and that is what needs to be highlighted ... apart from the fact that Samrat and Gunjan are two different people now ... their story had the potential to be re-started in a really good way ... and it was going brilliantly in the first two months of S2 ... we need that intensity back.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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😉res oki aani as usual i dont know if i made sense ... i think i need to put this as a disclaimer for every post of mine 😆😆😆 Anyways fantastic post jaan ...

"We sit silently and watch the world around us. This has taken a lifetime to learn. It seems only the old are able to sit next to one another and not say anything and still feel content. The young, brash and impatient, must always break the silence. It is a waste, for silence is pure. Silence is holy. It draws people together because only those who are comfortable with each other can sit without speaking. This is the great paradox." --- Nicholas sparks .. The notebook ... i feel so nice today after ages i am using quotes by my fav author and book....

Do i need to say anything more ..😉 i agree with u -- i am too loving this track to core ... real issues, real circumstances and real reaction...😊. Except the comedy.😛.. The main difference btn the SG of S1 and S2 is the level of communication and understanding ... which has been hampered ... the SG of S1 had taken a life time to learn and read and understand that silence which made them content .. as they knew exactly what was other heart or at least thru the silence to feel that all weren't right ... and that was because of the very basis of their relationship the communication... which brought them to that level .... SG of S2 with lack of communication and things on edge are impatient and want to break the silence thru communication but its on the surface .. they haven't been able to understand the silence which runs as undercurrents ...... and this can be done only when they say their heart out and for that they need a issue which after the precap, i can see as a major issues btn them which will make them break that barrier and build that gap ..... am just so missing Hitesh here and his short crisp yet meaningful and impact lines ..... i want something like that for breaking that barrier exactly like the impact of Look at me -- or most of SG patch up scenes in S1 the depth and impact....

We are getting what we wanted like --- Sam saying it out that he has been trustee not by choice but by need.. Saying out that they left him all alone .... but the whole thing did not have any effect as we wanted because of comedy .... to it ... the ppl who really need to know just ignored it as a banter ... and we are left confused as to why these unexpected reaction from gunji and over active towards his future ... it does make sense of have light comedy .. but at the same time i would like to have that maturity and intensity when needed ........This track has tremendous potential.. But i feel the whole essence is been lost in the comedy.... and what exactly that needs to convey is not reached ...

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At the start of this i was expecting to it to be like the SSC track... blanced with light comedy and the maturity and intensity where ever needed , not heavy on emotions , yet powerful dialogues giving out all thats need to make the track meaningful and completely.... but the way the last few episodes are going i have lost my hope ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree Aani.... There is a silence between them. Samrat is not being himself. The Samrat we all can see, the Samrat jiska dil keh raha hai, "Nahi... I don't like MBA and studies and stuff. I want to live my life as a B-ball player" woh Sam Gunjan ke saamne aane se dar raha hai. I say bahut comedy ho gaya hai... we all enjoy a good dose of laughter but I want something intense and serious now... Samrat ka ye jhoot baad mein bahut complicated ho jaata hai... that's the main problem... And then Gunjan, who's probably doing all this for Samrat because she wants to show her love for him after those three years... usey toh dukh hoga na? I want Samrat to tell her and then Gunjan can support his decision because knowing how awesome-blossom our Sam is at B-ball, he's definitely gonna become a super-star! Gunjan will hopefully realise that Samrat should get a chance to try and fulfil his dream. Let's see what happens! I hope CV's realise what we all want (for once) and make SaJanians and MayUr-SaJan-ians like me happy! 😃
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Edited by Swati_Hegde - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Aanii....update soon....the title is making me curious...was the epi that bad?? i read what happened in the epi in another post...don't think its gud...bt usually its u who cheers us up and gives us hope...this time doesn't seem so!!😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
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amazing post ahana.. and i so agree with ya
well this is a good track ..but only if thye show less of comedy that would be better na..
well communication gap is faced by many ppl tpday so its a good theme for the track. lets see wat is next in store for us.. because this sajan is really different from the sajan we know...
Edited by pragya_luvsajan - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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SaJan were hilarious today and Samrat was cho chweet with his expressions... but Gunjan got him like, a hundred practise books for MBA and she looked... so.... HAPPY! And she didn't even realise that Samrat was going mad.... it was funny but aside from that, I was kinda disappointed coz I was hoping that Sam would tell Gunjan... 🤔
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey aahana... Res!!
but seriously dnt want this kinda...track..need an intense SG track...not liking this more of comic relief nemore...bcoz our SaJan...whom v loved was more understanding,communication, romantic,the shyness,cuteness,sweetness n jannuableness...their intense,impact 😳😳
n also the intense n impact here is lacking n this current track is coming out more in a comic way!!! yaa nowa days...this SG scenes r bcomin more comic n m nt feeling the essence in it...i mean the track is gud n sensible...n m loving it..but jst dnt want this comic stuffs included!!
ofcourse i love my SG in everyway...but i vld prefer those SG moments more than this comic one!! n yup...the precap...gosh wats the need of sam to tell lie to gunjan:/ he can easily say his dreams n his pov to gunji...n m sure she vl always b there for him...as v all knw she loves him to the death....so no need of lying...n on the otherside....the gunjan hu use to understand sam's situation so easily....jst through his face...through his single expressions...his touch..seeing his eyes....but now she is nt able to get his probs n all....n all this is happening bcoz of gap of three yrs btw them....
n this gap had affected n created the lack of communication btw them they need to solve out issue...n hope cvs handle this track well...n again wont disappont us!! completely my pov..!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Meera-

hey aahana... Res!!
but seriously dnt want this kinda...track..need an intense SG track...not liking this more of comic relief nemore...bcoz our SaJan...whom v loved was more understanding,communication, romantic,the shyness,cuteness,sweetness n jannuableness...their intense,impact 😳😳
n also the intense n impact here is lacking n this current track is coming out more in a comic way!!!
yaa nowa days...this SG scenes r bcomin more comic n m nt feeling the essence in it...ofcourse i love my SG in everyway...but i vld prefer those SG moments more than this comic one!! n yup...the precap...gosh wats the need of sam to tell lie to gunjan:/ he can easily say his dreams n his pov to gunji...n m sure she vl always b there for him...as v all knw she loves him to the death....so no need of lying...n on the otherside....the gunjan hu use to understand sam's situation so easily....jst through his face...through his single expressions...his touch..seeing his eyes....but now she is nt able to get his probs n all....n all this is happening bcoz of gap of three yrs btw them....
n this gap had affected n created the lack of communication btw them they need to solve out issue...n hope cvs handle this track well...n again wont disappont us!! completely my pov..!!
vl edit it aftr ur upd....till then waiting for ur upd...Res!!! 😳



bingo meera exactly
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Swati_Hegde

SaJan were hilarious today and Samrat was cho chweet with his expressions... but Gunjan got him like, a hundred practise books for MBA and she looked... so.... HAPPY! And she didn't even realise that Samrat was going mad.... it was funny but aside from that, I was kinda disappointed coz I was hoping that Sam would tell Gunjan... 🤔



swati the comedy is exactly the problem !!

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