shaan- a LOVER yes...but a PROUD ONE? not yet! :( - Page 6

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Ok then i need for Sareeta for support😆 jkjk.I think if you look at it from Shans pov i dont think a man can take rejection more than once.Once is bad enough so he doesn't want to go thorough the whole rigmerrole of events again.Shan is an egoistical person and for him to take the first step in confession was big enough.He let go of that ego during that very crucial engagement period and confessed or atleast he thought he did.No i am not condoning what he is doing,by no means,but the guy is acting out of hurt,the girl who he loves so deeply is not giving him that confidence to make that brave move that we all want him to.I am not saying she should confess,make him atleast feel that you want him.Dont share few moments of lust in a hotel room.(BTW Gaayu i always wanted to ask you what you thought of that tie scene.😆).Love ranges far deeper than that,When you can see the love of your life hurting so badly for no fault of his you just act like a mannequin?????.Shan has hated her ,scolded her,cojoled her and finally loved her but i just dont feel the love from Khanak apart from a few tiffs she has had with the dumbos,where she goes on bragging about her love but not being able to put those words into actions promptly.Shan is wrong but is acting out of hurt.Khanak is not giving him the confidence apart from enjoying his closeness at times,so he rather be with someone who loves him than with someone who is on rocky terrain.
Edited by sharmida - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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BTW i just wanted to add that i am actually feeling really sorry for Nuts now.She really needs to run from the Shaadi ka mandap as fast as she can.😆
Edited by sharmida - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ sharmida
You have a fair point there... but I still don't agree with Shaan. I guess u really do need Sareeta to support u, LOL....may be it's my personal view coming in here, but for me, no matter how much hurt we r by another person's actions, we do not have a right to hurt that person or someone else... may be am a bit naive and stubborn to thnk so but thats how I feel. One shld always try to do the right thing, no matter what others do.... there... my baashan:)

Re the tie scene, my reaction- whoa whoa whoa.... can't say more, LOL....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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zabardastt debate going on here pppplz! chak de!:D
i just came back from where i had to go this morn... abhi hav the laptop for awhile! :D
@zenn: agreed - u don't just marry to some1 else becuz ur wife doesn't love u back... i mean when u r JUST in love with some1, but not married to them, then fine even if u move on, that cud be understoood... but when u r married, u love ur wife, even if she doesn't love u back as of yet - its ur duty to try and win her! and i mean its not like this marriage isnt workign at all! SHE IS RECIPROCATING HIS FEELINGS! she is responding to his touches and his actions! and yet he isn't standing up against a second marriage JUST BECUZ SHE DIDN'T CONFESS??? just 3 words - becuz of which he is all up for breaking his marriage and ruining another life! :|
@sehjal: yaar i am full angry on khanak too.. infact i am sure ALL of us r angry on both shanak to an extent.. u have a very good point: khanak ONLY gets all senti abt her love in front of SD AND BD... husband ke saamne woh pyar kahan jaata hai? the one who NEEDS HER CONFESSION the MOST? there she isn't able to say anything! her marriage is abt to break up.. ALL THE GUY WANTS TO HEAR IS HER CONFESSION! yet she can't do that! she is making him go through such suffering - WHY?
however, i still blame shaan... i am MAJORLY disappointed in him..like i said, he shudn't just neeed VERBAL confession to decide to keep his and khanak's marriage intact... even if she doesn't confess... if she isn't flinching at his touch, if she doesn't run away when he tries to get intimate, then that means she DOES WANT HIM!
and more importantly, he DOES NOT LOVE NATASSHA.. and he shud not bring natassha into this! anddd he shud be PROUD OF HIS LOVE FOR KHANAK! he shud be PROUD to love her, whether or not she loves him back... sache aashiq toh woh hote hain na jo kahe ke "MY love shud be enuff for BOTH of us!" .. yeh hoti hai pyar ki intehaa.. and htis is wht a proud lover is... shaan may love khanak.. he may even be impressed an dproud of her... but he needs to be PROUD of loving HER! he needs to STAND UP for HIS love! regardless of how she feels abt him! that comes afterwards! =)
see ... i understand he is senssitive.. and he was hurt by her "rejection"... hwoever, that depression is only valid and acceptable as long as he doesn't take any drastic step using this "rejection" as an excuse.. his depression to the extent that khanak herself manao-fies him, that's well and good! but for him to use this "depressive" and "angry" mood as an excuse to marry natassha?? WRONG!
and this is wht i think will happen; NATASSHAA wiill be the one who puts a stop to all this! and that wud SUCK! becuz its SHAAAN who shud've done this!
and i agree gaayu... the ONLY PERSON i feel SORRY for in all this mess, is NATASSHA! the girl really is at no fault, other than beign a viictim of her own heart! :(

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