IMO every time ridhhima has tried to take a step forward, armaan has pulled her back... y? i dont understand... if your heart refuses to believe every single time tht she wants someone else in her life...too bad dude! thts ur freakin' problem! Not hers!! If you really believe tht she only loves you, why do you have to force her to admit her feelings... let her be na... give her space n give her time to sort it out... thts wat sid did, n guess wat? She Chose Him!!! Every time!!!!
Ppl say, it takes something or someone to remind ridhhima tht she s married to sid... am sorry but since the time armaan has come back, i ve not seen ridhhima's focus on armaan... its always been sid! Wat will he do...will he feel hurt... wat if he leaves me...why is he upset with me... hell she even confesses to armaan tht sid is the one who occupies her thoughts all the time... In fact, she was so busy with her husband tht ppl bashed her for being INSENSITIVE towards armaan's pain... she was oblivious to it!
So wat changed it all? THE PAST... and armaan's constant reminders to her tht she has hurt him... Either through his actions or through his words, he has reminded her of the past and tried to pull her back! She s also a human being and its just been what one year since they separated... its not easy to forget everything so soon...but u have to give her credit for at least trying! But armaan is not doing any good by constantly reminding her tht she once belonged to him.. If his belief is really that strong then the extra effort is not required... she will go back to him on her own...I know recently armaan has occupied her thoughts a lot..so much so tht sid started feeling ignored.. but u have to take into account tht this thing started ever since armaan started going back to his old habits (the past coming back to haunt her again)... and she always thought tht sid will understand and she took him for granted!... When she got married again, she wanted a closure to her past...to make peace with it.. she wanted armaan to come n see how happy she was so he could start his life afresh.. but again..wat did armaan do? he dint turn up... yes it wud have hurt him a lot, i agree...but i always believed armaan wud never take the easy way out... but he did... so again ridhhima was worried... there was no closure...
I dont have much to say bout the recent turn of events... coz its done to death now! All i want now is a sensible storyline, where you leave the choice to her! Noone and i mean noone should be forcing her for anything... who is armaan anyway to have tht right on her? am sorry but i dont think she s answerable to armaan.. till she s married, the only person she s answerable to is Sid, and if i know ridhhima modi well, she will confess her BIG MISTAKE!! And then the ball is in sid's court...u see even if sid does leave her...do u think she ll go running back to armaan? i dont think so... just as some believe tht a part of basket has not died,...a part of ridhhima modi will never die.. sid lives in her now and if armaan wants to live with her, he will have to live with this fact as well!
Cheers!
Rapz
PS: This is not a armaan bashing post... just a reminded to cvs tht going round in circles will not help anymore, coz we are fed up.. have the bloody guts to show something and then stick to it... u will be amazed at the results! There are still ppl out there who wud prefer a strong storyline over ANYTHING else!