i dnt feel sad for Dutta....... - Page 5

Originally posted by: Dancingdoll

So, Dibya, my question to u is, what should he try to understand and how...I mean, u have Naku's data with u....he doesnt...so, how does he understand.....He is still in dilemma that why did Nku run away....was it No from her side..if she loves him and thats what he read in her eyes and she has been vocal about it then why reject him...was he wrong in thinking about her...wuldnt tht be natural now tht he doesnt have her real data...what he has is - Nakus numerous confessions, her attitude and action towards him that showed him the light at the end of the tunnel.....and suddenly, it seemed like she is switchign off tht light too....so, he hasnt passed a verdict but he is more than confused.....and with the past that he has with other gals, this just adds up....so, its natural for him to think the way he is thinking....

yes, what I wuld now want dutta to do is, ask her for an explanation....with Naku's constant confession to her love, he has a right to know why he was refused/stranded!!....and listen to her patiently.....

Originally posted by: swati2008

Girls.......u all are sad for Dutta now.........i know what i m writing......is almost opposite of the general view.......but i dnt feel sad for Dutta.......morever i m disappointed with his behavior.......girls......remember how many times Naku has confessed infront of Dutta.......n how many times he has ignored her.......still Naku loves him selflessly........though i dnt expect Dutta to be so much selfless like Naku.......but can't he try once to understand her feelings.........i mean Dutta just confessed for once.......when Naku ran away......he felt so heart broken that started doubting her again.......but girls what kind of love is this.......Dutta is still only thinking about himself.......he didn't love her so he ignores her confessions.......n now he feel he is in love......so Naku is bound to reciprocate it........if she doesn't do this.....she's again guilty......WTH......but Dutta has never tried to understand the reason behind her behavior.......has he ever tried to think by Naku's point of view........no.......he never thinks about her........he's only concerned with his own feelings........sorry girls.....but i think Dutta is again being selfish..........i m very disappointed by this.......

i know most of u will not agree with me......but i can't stop myself after the epi n u all bashing Naku........i dnt think Naku is right.....but Dutta is not too........sorry if u all find no sense in this post of mine.........

Dibya

Originally posted by: taherav

i agree with u here..like i said earlier naku isn't helping herself by stretching her dilemma to the limits...she is digging her own grave if she continues in this path...she needs to talk to dutta and the time is right now!! she already missed so many chances before and its just causing her more pain...she and babi keep on saying ke joh bhi hoga bappa ki marzi se hoga but news flash girls...like the saying goes 'god only helps those who try to help themselves'...so bappa can only show naku the way like he has done numerous time for her to come clean but she has to take hold of those chances which she unfortunately hasn't as of yet..bappa can guide her but she needs to make the final decision..

coming to dutta..ok so agreed he's angry because he's confused and he really doesn't know the truth yet but come on i think even he shud think this out calmly...like u said naku has been very vocal about her love for him and all of a sudden when he proposes to her she runs off without a word...that leaves him confused and the question 'why' begins to float in his head...instead of just getting angry he shud find out an answer to that 'why'!! and if naku is not responding accordingly he shud take the initiative to get to the bottom of this....he needs to understand that its not him only who is confused but also naku...lets face it...with naku being all vocal about her love what did she ever get?/ just plain rejection frm his side....and now all of a sudden she sees this major change in dutta with regards to her...ofcourse she will get a lil scared and confused..i mean till 3 days back when they were in the jungle he kept on telling her that it is over between them and his duty is just to see her safe and sound back with her family..and now this proposal..that to which i guess naku had no idea about at all...she is bound to feel turmoil in her heart and mind....i feel dutta and baaji shud have atleast thrown a hint at her that they were planning to do something like this...

Originally posted by: taherav

and one more thing..dutta shud realise that naku has just come back from experiencing an excruciating ordeal when she was kidnapped by anna..did he ever think of talking to her about it...trying to find out what happened to her over there..did anna try to do anything inappropriate with her?....he saw her in a wedding dress..did he ask her why she was wearing it?? was anna trying to forcibly get married to her..and if so why?? and to top it off she almost died there..anna would have surely shot her if subhalaxmi hadn't pulled the trigger in the nick of time....did dutta try finding out what is going thru naku's head at this point of time....no he just decides that he likes her and wants to get married to her....ok so yes naku loves him but the girl has just gone thru hell in the past 3 days or so..how does he expect her to happily agree to the proposal..she may not even be in the rite frame of mind...and to top it all her guilt is slowly killing her frm inside and not to mention his three sisters and their behaviour towards her..how does a girl deal with all this??