Really nervous now, about the Proposal & Wedding

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hello LTLians,

After today's drama with the gift and Kala, and Nakku's questions to Bappa about what she will answer to the world that is pointing fingers at her, I am a bit nervous, No, really uneasy about the outcome of the Proposal.
He said he will ask her, and there will be no pressure on Nakku, she should accept it as per her wishes.
So, that really makes me uneasy.
What if Nakku does not respond in front of everyone? Like she did not accept the gift today?
His sisters will descend like vultures to gnaw at his hurt and exploit the situation. He cannot bungle again, please, this is too important.
The poor girl, Dutta has not told her how he feels about her personally, and somehow I really feel this is not such a good idea to ask her to marry him in front of the whole clan (very filmy).
He should not spring any more surprises on her without opening his heart to her first.
Baaji, please do something. Tell Nakku how your Friend, Bhau, really feels about her. And tell your Friend, Bhau, to do it one-to-one first, and then announce to the family. They really do not need to witness this!
The environment is too toxic. People who give out bad vibes will be present, there will be awkwardness and hesitation.
Nakku is in a very delicate state of mind right now. It was different before. She had no hope of him returning her feelings.

Then she hoped he would accept her, they would become good friends and even good husband and wife, soon. Then he dashed her hopes by telling her their paths are different, and he will return her safely to her mother.
But things are different now. He is within reach, she has something to hide, and there are people to make her feel inadequate, unwanted. Iti is No state of mind to make right decisions.
Baji cut the crap about Nakku being "Layak" of becoming your Vahini. Tell her about Bhau's intentions; tell her he means well, wants to make up, tell her she should also give him sometime, and most important, that he loves her and misses her bak-bak, and thinks she has changed.
Baji tell Bhau not to do it in public, and have a private conversation first.
Please Baji. Arrey Hanuman ban gaya hai, toh message bhi acche se de un donoko.
Or else, I dread that she will just run away from the scene when he asks her to marry him in front of everyone.
Dutta, please have a private conversation first, and then go public. Please!!!!

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Hessa85 thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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if she rans away sallu will bring her back lol
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wel guys I believe nakku wont say no to dutta as AS WIL SPEAK TO GANPAT AND BABI . They both wil convince naku to marry dutta and I do thnk AS WIL tell babi abt puruhit remarks and ths wil force naku to marry dutta to save hs life. Oh god want naku to say yes to dutta . Dutta ko aur na satao naku
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I dont think Baji shld say anything to Naku. Let Dutta do some mehnat from his side. I mean so far it was mostly Naku...now its his turn. Even if he takes a wrong turn he should learn from his mistakes and move forward.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kshreya2002

I dont think Baji shld say anything to Naku. Let Dutta do some mehnat from his side. I mean so far it was mostly Naku...now its his turn. Even if he takes a wrong turn he should learn from his mistakes and move forward.



I m praying to God tht Nakku says a Yes to Dutta. But somehow got the same uneasy feeling too what if she says a no because she feels she doesnt match to Dutta's status, n shes betraying him by hiding her truth! also she is not expecting any reciproaction from Dutta, so dutta proposing may come as a shock to her and might not be able to react at all or go silent! n i seriously hope tht Dutta doesnt take that silence in a negative way thinking he has scared/hurt Nakku so much tht she doesnt even wnt come to close to him or be wth him!!! both of them are having their own fears n apprehensions!!! But i m soooo praying tht some miracle happens..n there is no misunderstanding btwn both of them watsoever!!! n all is gud btwn them!!! Bappa pls take care of tht!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mstvaddicted



I m praying to God tht Nakku says a Yes to Dutta. But somehow got the same uneasy feeling too what if she says a no because she feels she doesnt match to Dutta's status, n shes betraying him by hiding her truth! also she is not expecting any reciproaction from Dutta, so dutta proposing may come as a shock to her and might not be able to react at all or go silent! n i seriously hope tht Dutta doesnt take that silence in a negative way thinking he has scared/hurt Nakku so much tht she doesnt even wnt come to close to him or be wth him!!! both of them are having their own fears n apprehensions!!! But i m soooo praying tht some miracle happens..n there is no misunderstanding btwn both of them watsoever!!! n all is gud btwn them!!! Bappa pls take care of tht!!!

amen
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree that Naku is in a delicate state of mind right now as she has perceived the change in Dutta but she has not allowed herself to believe it is because he loves her back. She thinks it is part of his redemption for his misdirected anger. However, she also reiterates that she wants Dutta's happiness at whatever costs so if Dutta proposes than instantly she will know it is genuine as Dutta only does as he feels. Not due to family pressure. Than how could she possibly reject him when his happiness lies in her 'Yes'.

Yet I'm with you on the part that the proposal ought to be a private moment which is why i'm hoping it gets postponed. A disturbance occurs a la Sallu and then when Naku is back safely, he uses the opportunity to speak all that is in his heart for her ears only.

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