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Hello LTLians,
After today's drama with the gift and Kala, and Nakku's questions to Bappa about what she will answer to the world that is pointing fingers at her, I am a bit nervous, No, really uneasy about the outcome of the Proposal.
He said he will ask her, and there will be no pressure on Nakku, she should accept it as per her wishes.
So, that really makes me uneasy.
What if Nakku does not respond in front of everyone? Like she did not accept the gift today?
His sisters will descend like vultures to gnaw at his hurt and exploit the situation. He cannot bungle again, please, this is too important.
The poor girl, Dutta has not told her how he feels about her personally, and somehow I really feel this is not such a good idea to ask her to marry him in front of the whole clan (very filmy).
He should not spring any more surprises on her without opening his heart to her first.
Baaji, please do something. Tell Nakku how your Friend, Bhau, really feels about her. And tell your Friend, Bhau, to do it one-to-one first, and then announce to the family. They really do not need to witness this!
The environment is too toxic. People who give out bad vibes will be present, there will be awkwardness and hesitation.
Nakku is in a very delicate state of mind right now. It was different before. She had no hope of him returning her feelings.
Then she hoped he would accept her, they would become good friends and even good husband and wife, soon. Then he dashed her hopes by telling her their paths are different, and he will return her safely to her mother.
But things are different now. He is within reach, she has something to hide, and there are people to make her feel inadequate, unwanted. Iti is No state of mind to make right decisions.
Baji cut the crap about Nakku being "Layak" of becoming your Vahini. Tell her about Bhau's intentions; tell her he means well, wants to make up, tell her she should also give him sometime, and most important, that he loves her and misses her bak-bak, and thinks she has changed.
Baji tell Bhau not to do it in public, and have a private conversation first.
Please Baji. Arrey Hanuman ban gaya hai, toh message bhi acche se de un donoko.
Or else, I dread that she will just run away from the scene when he asks her to marry him in front of everyone.
Dutta, please have a private conversation first, and then go public. Please!!!!
