Difference between immaturity and Cruelty

We all comment on Shravan's childishness and immature behaviour but at times his actions are more of a cruel nature. Like when he got Sanchi to sleep without a blanket in a cold room.

In the last episode he offered to take Sanchi out for dinner right before Sanchi was to sit down to eat at home. The promo shows them in a disco with Sanchi left alone and the JERK with Tara. That means that he used Sanchi to let him be out to meet Tara. That can also mean that he forgot that his wife has not eaten. I think this makes him a disgustingly cruel man. The guy is so blinded with the tara that his humanity goes out the window. I don't find this a cute love story anymore due to his frequent cruel actions. To me he is a total moron who deserves to suffer bad

i wouldnt still go far and call him cruel. i mean yeah he made the room temperature sub zero but saachi also had the choice of grabbing extra blankets or maybe a sweater from the closet , which is wat he probably thought she would do.
i am in NO WAY defending his actions with tara but i just see him as a childish person
as far as the bar thing goes, he again reminds me of a child at a party or carnival where all the parent does is watch the child. they dont have a momment to themselves, they just stand and watch from a distance. he draging saachi to the bar just resonates that for me.

Originally posted by: suresh555

We all comment on Shravan's childishness and immature behaviour but at times his actions are more of a cruel nature. Like when he got Sanchi to sleep without a blanket in a cold room.

In the last episode he offered to take Sanchi out for dinner right before Sanchi was to sit down to eat at home. The promo shows them in a disco with Sanchi left alone and the JERK with Tara. That means that he used Sanchi to let him be out to meet Tara. That can also mean that he forgot that his wife has not eaten. I think this makes him a disgustingly cruel man. The guy is so blinded with the tara that his humanity goes out the window. I don't find this a cute love story anymore due to his frequent cruel actions. To me he is a total moron who deserves to suffer bad

He might to stupid and spiteful things at times but he's not cruel! 😛 The only reason he's treating her badly at times is because he thinks Sanchi herself is evil because she only married him for his money. What he does isn't kind in any way, but I don't think he's ever intentionally trying to hurt her, he just doesn't really think about the consequences of his actions. Not only with Sanchi, but generally in life. Anyways, hopefully he will realize what he does is hurting others and does not continue doing dumb things.

Originally posted by: -xx-Roohani-xx-

He might to stupid and spiteful things at times but he's not cruel! 😛 The only reason he's treating her badly at times is because he thinks Sanchi herself is evil because she only married him for his money. What he does isn't kind in any way, but I don't think he's ever intentionally trying to hurt her, he just doesn't really think about the consequences of his actions. Not only with Sanchi, but generally in life. Anyways, hopefully he will realize what he does is hurting others and does not continue doing dumb things.

yeah i agree completely that shravan is not cruel he is immature, i mean right now he is pissed at sanchi as she demanded 25 lakhs from him and he thinks she is just a gold digger
but i think he is a nice person at heart because he did take care of sanchi when she was ill
he can be very rude to mama mami shreya and others but he isn't
and lets see the episode today before we judge him as villain as the promos can be very misleading

Originally posted by: atikna

yeah i agree completely that shravan is not cruel he is immature, i mean right now he is pissed at sanchi as she demanded 25 lakhs from him and he thinks she is just a gold digger
but i think he is a nice person at heart because he did take care of sanchi when she was ill
he can be very rude to mama mami shreya and others but he isn't
and lets see the episode today before we judge him as villain as the promos can be very misleading

Yeah maybe Shravan will feel bad for taking Sanchi to the club or whatever and then take her out of there or something..we never know.

Sorry guys, but I disagree. There is a limit to childishness. A grownup 23 ( or whatever) year has to have a little more responsibilty and brains. Did he even stop to think why Sanchi's condition was that the 25 lakhs come from his earnings?

I have not watched today's episode but do see a post that has others given up on Shravan for whatever he did at the disco today. The guy needs a real jolt to wake up

Originally posted by: suresh555

Sorry guys, but I disagree. There is a limit to childishness. A grownup 23 ( or whatever) year has to have a little more responsibilty and brains. Did he even stop to think why Sanchi's condition was that the 25 lakhs come from his earnings?

I have not watched today's episode but do see a post that has others given up on Shravan for whatever he did at the disco today. The guy needs a real jolt to wake up

Im not justifying what he did..but in his defense, he isn't really 23 in his brain. His entire life he was given whatever he wanted (in other words..he was spoiled) and therefore he is used to getting what he wants. When everything isn't working his way he gets frustrated and in turn does not think about the consequences of his actions.

Originally posted by: -xx-Roohani-xx-

Im not justifying what he did..but in his defense, he isn't really 23 in his brain. His entire life he was given whatever he wanted (in other words..he was spoiled) and therefore he is used to getting what he wants. When everything isn't working his way he gets frustrated and in turn does not think about the consequences of his actions.

Regarding why he doesn't wonder why Sanchi wants him to earn the money himself...I myself don't know lol. I thought the same thing, he didn't pay attention to HOW he is meant to earn money but instead only focuses on the fact that she wants him to give her 25 lakhs. Maybe he thinks that working is torture and that she told him to earn it himself to torture him 😆.