Gori tere aankhen kahe ......... - Page 7

Sam ,

Since you have adjudicated so impartially..I shall abide by ur judgement and will try to see both sides ...😊

Binny,

Personality once changed cannot be reversed ...even if revisited..the accumulated changes will have an effect on your previous behavior ....he has subdued his anger and obsession has reduced..Possessiveness will always exist in a relationship..if he wanted, he could have chnaged this reality , no one would have helped her ..the change was voluntary , he willingly underwent changes ...changes which he need not have undergone [remember Pratigya did not have any allies then, and Sax were a pack of cowards while Thakurs are all powerful] ....
and when you are surrounded by brutality on all sides when you have grown up seeing this brutality ...having been brought up on the creed of being brutal mean being macho ..to overthrow all this in favor of being sissy really requires guts and Krishna showed it ...



Not only Krishna , even Pratigya has to overcome certain rigid principles of her own...and it is to their credit...both are attempting to cross the invisible boundaries and are trying to explore each other's world..

She did not accept Nitin...her convo with Roli reflects that ...and her fmly chicken like streaking across the field forced her to accede to Krishna's demand [ Krsihna had retreated, Pratigya went and asked him to get shagun .. a major error on her part ]..had her fmly gathered their wits and directly spoke to him and asked him point blank the WHY?? Q's ..Things would have been different...in a way her fmly's cowardly squawking hastened her decision or shall we say part of the blame must be laid at the doors of Sax too..


Krishna's ego is everything ...for his ego to be battered DIDO..is a big deal ...u say change has occurred for his betterment ...but in the jungle in which Krishna lives..such betterment leads to his killing..in a jungle one has to be a predator to survive..if a predator turns into a willing prey, he will killed within a blink of an eye and yet Krishna underwent this transformation willingly..


I still say Krishna's sacrfice was greater Than Pratigya's ........

Yes Krishna has become calmer but as I stated before he was never forced to change his love for Prats and the reality that she was correct was the reason behind his gradual change. It can't be a sacrifice because he truly chose to change for his life and he chose to support her she never asked for his support but as any wife she could have expected it but she had no expectations from the man she despised he actually shocked her by taking her side which portrayed his willingness to change as long as in his mind he was doing what he wanted to do.

No Krishna's personality has only been modified he has not changed from the person he once was, yes he is more understanding and compromising but only when it comes to prats happiness, otherwise he is capable of being just as ruthless as he once was this was shown recently when he told that man to kill his wife because she had cheated on him or that was what he thought.

Yes that was a mistake on my part I meant to say when she accepted to marry him and I agree she had not accepted him but that was an arranged marraige approved by her family. No her family is not really at fault here they tried everything possible to avoid this marriage but they are the Tachurs they have unlimited power and are used to forcing people to do as they wish so that's what Krishna did because he did not understand how to portray his love and never asked Prats about her feelings, not like it would have made a difference.

Yes Krishna's ego is a bid deal to him just like Prats self respect is to her both have been destroyed by the hands of the Tachurs by their taunting s and degrading behaviors towards both of them. Though Krishna was no less before their marraige he humiliated them to an extant that she was forced to consider marraige in order to protect her family.

Once again Krishna's behavioral change is for his betterment but it is only visible when it has to do with prats or he is the old Krishna as long as it does not affect his love, he is capable of protecting himself in this jungle and continue doing so.

Yes and tanthya I still say Prats sacrificed more then Krishna 😆 shall we agree to disagree then😊

Originally posted by: starlight123

OMG !! Dyehard !!😆 .....cant stop laughing after reading the underlined ...😆

😆😆😆. Thats so true. I've always had a problem with Adarsh as a husband, but never found the right adjective to describe him which wont offend the sensibilities of anyone. But a twerp he is!

I've always sympathised with Komal (love her fiestiness) especially with the indifference that Adarsh treats her and always blaming everyone else and never taking responsibilites for his own inability as a man and husband.

BTW, Tanthya, another lovely post. Enjoy your style especially the humour induced into the post😊.



Thank You starlight ,

Komal is one girl who has elicited a bit of admiration from me....she is the colorful peacock among the drab Pheasants ......

Originally posted by: tanthya

Sam ,

Since you have adjudicated so impartially..I shall abide by ur judgement and will try to see both sides ...😊

Tanthya 🤗, what a lovely thread yet again and what an absorbing conv, You have given so much to this forum to enjoy this weekend. 👏 Love you all.

Originally posted by: Binny1247

Binny,

Personality once changed cannot be reversed ...even if revisited..the accumulated changes will have an effect on your previous behavior ....he has subdued his anger and obsession has reduced..Possessiveness will always exist in a relationship..if he wanted, he could have chnaged this reality , no one would have helped her ..the change was voluntary , he willingly underwent changes ...changes which he need not have undergone [remember Pratigya did not have any allies then, and Sax were a pack of cowards while Thakurs are all powerful] ....
and when you are surrounded by brutality on all sides when you have grown up seeing this brutality ...having been brought up on the creed of being brutal mean being macho ..to overthrow all this in favor of being sissy really requires guts and Krishna showed it ...



Not only Krishna , even Pratigya has to overcome certain rigid principles of her own...and it is to their credit...both are attempting to cross the invisible boundaries and are trying to explore each other's world..

She did not accept Nitin...her convo with Roli reflects that ...and her fmly chicken like streaking across the field forced her to accede to Krishna's demand [ Krsihna had retreated, Pratigya went and asked him to get shagun .. a major error on her part ]..had her fmly gathered their wits and directly spoke to him and asked him point blank the WHY?? Q's ..Things would have been different...in a way her fmly's cowardly squawking hastened her decision or shall we say part of the blame must be laid at the doors of Sax too..


Krishna's ego is everything ...for his ego to be battered DIDO..is a big deal ...u say change has occurred for his betterment ...but in the jungle in which Krishna lives..such betterment leads to his killing..in a jungle one has to be a predator to survive..if a predator turns into a willing prey, he will killed within a blink of an eye and yet Krishna underwent this transformation willingly..


I still say Krishna's sacrfice was greater Than Pratigya's ........

Yes Krishna has become calmer but as I stated before he was never forced to change his love for Prats and the reality that she was correct was the reason behind his gradual change. It can't be a sacrifice because he truly chose to change for his life and he chose to support her she never asked for his support but as any wife she could have expected it but she had no expectations from the man she despised he actually shocked her by taking her side which portrayed his willingness to change as long as in his mind he was doing what he wanted to do.

No Krishna's personality has only been modified he has not changed from the person he once was, yes he is more understanding and compromising but only when it comes to prats happiness, otherwise he is capable of being just as ruthless as he once was this was shown recently when he told that man to kill his wife because she had cheated on him or that was what he thought.

Yes that was a mistake on my part I meant to say when she accepted to marry him and I agree she had not accepted him but that was an arranged marraige approved by her family. No her family is not really at fault here they tried everything possible to avoid this marriage but they are the Tachurs they have unlimited power and are used to forcing people to do as they wish so that's what Krishna did because he did not understand how to portray his love and never asked Prats about her feelings, not like it would have made a difference.

Yes Krishna's ego is a bid deal to him just like Prats self respect is to her both have been destroyed by the hands of the Tachurs by their taunting s and degrading behaviors towards both of them. Though Krishna was no less before their marraige he humiliated them to an extant that she was forced to consider marraige in order to protect her family.

Once again Krishna's behavioral change is for his betterment but it is only visible when it has to do with prats or he is the old Krishna as long as it does not affect his love, he is capable of protecting himself in this jungle and continue doing so.

Yes and tanthya I still say Prats sacrificed more then Krishna 😆 shall we agree to disagree then


Draw and Truce ...Dear ...* extends the proverbial Olive branch *😆

Originally posted by: SAM2U

Tanthya 🤗, what a lovely thread yet again and what an absorbing conv, You have given so much to this forum to enjoy this weekend. 👏 Love you all.

Sam,

Thanks a lot , Hun ... 😳 🤗

Sam 😃

Yes I agree and following your suggestion I will make an effort to see both sides of this issue 😊

Originally posted by: Binny1247

Sam 😃

Yes I agree and following your suggestion I will make an effort to see both sides of this issue 😊

Especially now when Parigya has already turned the page and is seeing her self longing for his love. 😳