5th Aug - ArShi - Dil mein jaake rukti hai woh.... - Page 3

Originally posted by: Pocahontas

<font color="#ff0066">Thank you, Shilpa.🤗.......Yeah, Dhanno is seeing Sadu in his real Sadu form at the moment but i do believe that she will put him back brick-by-brick which many result in her own devastation. </font>

awwwwww.....i feel so sad for her pocu.....so lonely herself n she's helping ammy....but 1 thing i knw abt amy is dat 1ce hhe gets 2 knw abt shilpa's loneliness he'll forget his pain n leave no stone unturned to help shilpa.....he can go to ne extent for ppl who r imp 2 him(rememba how he helped muski wid her marriage thingy).......we've got liking, we've got bitterness, pain, attraction, S remindin A of R, n a lotta emotions but 1 thing i want for ArSh before any revelations, love realisations, n heartbreaks is a deep, true friendship.....sumthing dat AR neva had........a friendship that will stay for dem through out no matter they r 2geda or not, there is love or not.....cos they need it more than nething at dis pt ov time.....even for armaan, after venting it out, peacefully discussin n thinkin over it wid sum1 trustworthy, a heart-to-heart talk has to be d second phase of recovery.....i'm waitin for dis second phase n i think its gonna be soon.......unlike phase 1, it'll be quiter, softer but equally painful

luv ya 🤗
shilpa

Originally posted by: FiiLza

WOW ANother gr8 post on ArSHi by PoCO...yeh havent read much from u this week...this 1 is awesome like alwayz...yeh Armaan becomes himself wid Shilpa and i juz love that..guess he thinks she doesnt hold any importance in his life buh soon he'll relaize that there is someone who will take his pain and misery from him...give him support n love and will always be there for him....alll wut Armaan deserves and ofcourse Shilpa will also be lucky to have a partner like Armaan...for obvious reasons...love ArShi...cant wait till the bike scene...ArSH <3

Hi Filzie!🤗

I have not been around much. 😆😆😆😆....True. ArShi should heal each-other . That is the only way they can lead a good life ahead.😳

i love this post and i agree with everysingle thing u said😉

Poco Brilliant post!

I have to say Shilpa has become a punching bag for him, but she is rightly punches him back! I guess she will help him and by the time he realises a lot of grovelling will be involved!

first of all a big hug and evn bigger hi🤗

Hi Poco,

Loved it...................As u made Siddhima lovable for me with yr posts now u r doing the same with Arshi also, wonderful. I loved reading it.

Yeah............Armaan is real to Shilpa and as u have said Shilpa is not quite or sweet to Armaan. With her words she bangs him with the truth that he is spoiling his life and also the ppl around him. She is not afraid of him.

Poco, once again a beautiful post!! But I don't think till the street fight time Armaan had done anything at all to hurt himself ... nor was he behaving like a sadu with anyone other than Shilpa...

I agree that at the moment she is the only one who has seen the anger... but that is more due to circumstances .... Armaan of course cannot show his pain to SR and I don't think he is angry with SR either ( atleast this is what I think).... he is just angry with his lot in life.... and realising the enormity of his loss and handling the feeling that no one needs him at the moment....I don't think he was making life miserable for anyone around him till the birthday party and the accompanying hungama... true he was not his own self... but he wasn't really too much of a sadoo either.... but if someone who doesn't know you comes and talks to you abt your Ex and her husband or keeps replaying your own love story which you probably dont want to remember obviously you would react badly... Arshi started off on the wrong foot with Shilpa sending Armaan to jail and generally taking him for a ride even after he came back and then he tries paying back in the same coin and she cried... he was nice to her then.... and even during some of the following tracks he was nice... I think the problems started after the prank.... and her constantly talking abt Sid... She is a nice person.... but I think most people in Armaan's position would react the same way as Armaan if someone is prejudiced against you and keeps talking the way she talks.... and the street fight again was not something Armaan planned and executed tod estroy himself... shilpa got him into it and he was doing fine till he started remembering Riddhima.... anyway all I wanted to say was that Shilpa is unknowingly pricking his wounds which is what is causing him to lash out at her.... and he definitely has not been behaving like a sadoo with everyone all along... but the things that recently happened starting with the SR video, Riddhima's accusation - first of him coveting her position, then of him hurting Sid because of the past - which made him feel that she never understood him at all, , then Shilpa's constant talks abt SR and then her re rendering of AR love story, on top of this having to see SR in front of him everyday ( now that he is no longer needed anywhere)... all these together has Armaan in a very unenviable position... and even the boxing.... I don't know .. he wa staking out is anger on the punching bag... but where was he hurting himself... Armaan needs someone with whom he can talk.... hopefully Arsh will become friends and hopefully shilpa will know abt AR too sometime... but i think the people around Armaan are basically overreacting ... the drunk epi and the street fight are the only instances where Armaan did anything destructive.... but otherwise he might not have been his usual self... he might not have been happy... but he wasn't being bad or sad all the time too.... for a person in his position I feel what he is going through right now is very natural .... and yeah I don't want shilpa to be sweet to him or anything... but I don't think he can be blamed for reacting the way he does to Shilpa... what is the harm if he is boxing with a punching bag!! I didn't really get that.... it is just another way of taking out your frustrations or anger.... imagine having to work with your Ex all through the day and seeing her romance her hubby.... or hearing her profess that she cares for you and feels your pain.. I think while I appreciate the thought behind R's actions... realistically speaking you ex is the last person who can help you in moving on... it never helps.... and just because they want to show that R cares for A even now.... they are showing a track where R is trying to support A... so it is fairly normal for him to feel frustrated and he wasn't hurting anyone including himself by taking his anger out on the ounching bag!! and what he tells sid abt wanting to work alone... again what is wrong... it really wasn't like Aand r are both needed in general ward... Sid put them together because R wanted to work with A,,, and it is only natural for A to not want to work with R....unless absolutely necessary.... so even at that place if he was being sadoo I would still understand... even I would be if I was forced into a situation which I dont' like.... the best thing for every one would be to just behave normally ... not ask too many questiosn all that!! let him be.... he will slowly come out of that phase... this is my POV... and while SR friendship with A is not goign to help A now... if shilpa and he becomes good friends it will definitely help that he will have someone to talk to ... My POV.. I didn't intend to bash anyone.... if anything here sounds like bashing... apologies..