TaShi are not SaGini - Page 2

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

@Purehearts

this is not an adult tone for Tammy. the worst part which is happening with Tammy is every undesirable thing occurring together.. she gets slapped,she loses her fairy role, people call her dark, she hears her father is no more, she sees her mother sleeping with Khushi, Alekh coming and destroying her play...everyhting is coincidence but since she is a child, she cannot think of coincidence. She does not have the maturity to think like an adult and thus she is misunderstanding.

if she was really behaving in an adult tone, she would understand. She is a child and thats why all these doubts in her mind. Her doubts need to be taken care of and need to be driven out from her mind ASAP. I hope her parents can read her and work towrds it. Or else, such a sweet child might feel insecure and all these problems will stay in her and be a burden to her later life. Children need to be tackled in a proper way, by not suppressing the questions that come to their mind, rather by channelising and answering these questions properly.

Originally posted by: Purehearts

Bani, what I meant by adult tone is,how Tammy is reacting.
When a child IS usually having such troubles, she gets angry momentarily , after that she might even forget what happened or if she is very sensitive feel sad and cry .
But here Tammy is accumulating the feelings.Tammy sees one thing and connect with the other thing in her mind and then thinks my mom does not love me.It does not happen mostly with a 7 yr old.
Just a few mins ago my 8 yr old and 5 yr old were at a tiff, and no matter who is at fault my 8 yr old will end up listening to our bottom line "You have to be considerate with your little bro as he is still little" and she understands it that way.Even on a day I end up scolding her when I find my 5 yr old weeping after a fight , not knowing for sure who was at fault, she does not hold grudges , does not add up old things and feel against us.I think this kind of clear mind comes to her as we care to explain and make her understand, that we love both of them the same and she believes us.
Whereas Tammy is refusing to beleive her mother's words and also acting very insecure despite the whole family doting on her.That is what happens in the teen years.
Teenagers have a mind of their own and are zealously overconfident.
So Tammy's reaction is now like big kid than a 7 yr old!!
And no, not all adults understand and do the right things , I guess we have see enough of it before leap.

Originally posted by: SPN_JD_Addicted

Agree Purehearts.All this attitude suits the teenagers instead of a 7 year old.My daughter is a 7 year old and there is no way that she would hold grudges and that too for little things.I know kids are different but common I am yet to see a 7 year old like this.Having positive environment is great for kids to grow up and RV House was and is surely that so its even more puzzling!

Originally posted by: SPN_JD_Addicted

Purehearts,we are on the same page lol.My 7 year old knows even before saying that she needs to give in to her 3 year old little sister.And same here,no matter who started it we always go after the older one lol.

They become frustrated but that lasts only for few seconds and what surprises me most is Tamanna,a 7 year old trying to combine the incidents and coming up with a wrong conclusion.I don't think at 7 years they are that mature!

Why does it have to be always explaining and frankly at this age,it wouldn't be much of a help.She had parents who love her and family who dotes on her and she was portrayed as bindaas,carefree,confident girl and all of a sudden turned insecure!This is unbelievable!

Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

Tamy's reaction can be justified.At this age most of the child go through these situations and reacts in the same way.It's very normal for a 7 year old kid to be jealous of her cousin.At this age people only want apprceiation but Tamy is only geting harsh behaviour from the society which is making her insecured day by day.Tamy is behaving like a normal kid.You can not expect all children to be like Khushi.She is an exceptional child.i hope the CV's show some childish behaviour of Khushi also.But yes TaShi can never be live SaGini.SaGini were unique.

Originally posted by: Seebz

I exactly know what they are trying to do!! They are giving story a twist so Ragini can accept Sakshi in Alekh's life. When it came to Anmol, Vasu always have problems therefore she taunts Ragini in one way or other.Now, Vasu wants Alekh to get married again!!.

Ragini is, from the beginning, against Alekh's 2nd marriage but with this "twist" they will show a bit of tension between Ragini and Tammy. As Tammy is upset and somewhat feels jealous, she thinks Ragini is paying more attention to Khushi. Ragini may accuse herself again for this,,'main ek achchi maa nahi..' and all. When she will see Sakshi taking care of Khushi and Alekh, It will somehow mend the relationship between Ragini and Tammy as Khushi will have some1 to takecare of her.

One way or another Ragini will slowly accepts Sakhshi and Tammy won't have any problem. I know there is Siblibg jealousy and insecurity but this is an extreme they are showing so according to the script everything falls in place no matter how untrue of a situation seems.