Perfangel,
Nice post. I liked the way you comprehended both sides of the situation. I will be very honest, I do admit that it is hard to let go of someone you truly love in your life. I mean I can totally and completely understand that its not easy and the pain one goes through is just killing.
I know in real life when a loved one dies, its not easy to live your life without them as you think about them all the time. So, in a situation like that I can understand if you can't move on.
But, I feel that in Armaan's situation its very different. He's in that situation where the girl he loves is married and she actually chose to be with her husband. And the fact that Riddhima is falling for Sid now and how he has even seen them romancing and looking into each other's eyes and he know that they're living together. So, I think he needs to accept that she is happy with her husband and working on her marriage.
So, in spite of all that if he is still thinking about romancing her then it just doesn't sound right. I know that he still loves her and can't just forget her like that........I mean its okay if he thinks about her but, daydreaming about romancing with her is just a little off here. And plus, the fact that he considers Sid as his brother and friend. I'm just saying that if you keep dreaming about something that you know isn't going to happen then how are you ever supposed to move on.
He needs to make an effort at least to get on with his life...........the more he thinks about romancing her the more he would want her............and he is forgetting the fact that she is married and is the wife of the man who considers him as his elder brother! So, even though he loves her he is still thinking about romancing a married woman who is his considered younger brother's wife.