Radha Bua is Mean!!!!! - Page 3

She shouldn't do that, because after all, he is HER CHILD!

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

OMG....m a bit taken aback at the discussions here..... so just thot to share my POV................

firstly a few facts....in india....as yet. abortion after 6 weeks or smthng is not a LEGAL option.....one has to go to court and actualy prove stuff before u can legally abort a baby..even if its a rape case.. and that is todays scenario....aka post Y2K n gen Y & X...

Radha buas generation is an entire two decades older...so abortion was literally out of question........!! coming to th next suggestion... - Adoption........another rarest of th rare phenomena....to give a child for adoption........firstly...ur family members wont allow..secondly..its another no-no from th society.....

Under all this circumstance...radha had only two options...desert the baby..... which wuld b outright inhuman.......... or raise it...!! she chose the second one.....

Rape is the greatest crime ever against HUMANITY...!! in all other crimes u can steal...kill......at the most...wit Rape... u break a person.. not only physically...but emotionally ....psychologically....!! Time may heal tons of wounds...but the pain and humiliation....of a Rape victim can never be forgotten................!! In all this situation ....Radha gave birth to the child..................... fended for it..n raised it........

Today when she went to Deepaks room on Deepaks request to atleast look at him for a second...she did try to hold back all those vicious memories of the past..n take a look at that face........but she couldnt............!!

Can we really imagine the kind of pain she is enduring.....first for being torn apart like that........n then...having to look at the result of that pain for the rest of her life???

Coming to th part of Radha not letting the other people of the house interact with Deepak...............thats coz she wants to see as little of him as she can.......she wants to hear as little of him as she can..... !! moreover....with the people in the house interacting wit Deepak...there would be more pressure from one and all.....on Radha to accept Deepak....which is something she is not ready for.........!! Also....if she refuses to talk to Deepak...despite everyone pressurising..one after another everyone will come to knw the reason...!! now that ofcourse isnt wrong...... but Radha bua mite feel embarassed to face the children of the house....so she choses to avoid that kinda scenario..

And i din find Radha scolding Suhana at all.....she was annoyed that Suhana was talking to Deepak......... so why is she mean????

actually abortion in India is legal upto 6 mths..although it requires the consent of two Obstetricians after 3 mths..coz its a surgery after 3 mths..and for abortions,believe me,there are no questions asked if she says she has been raped..in fact its one of the grounds for abortion,others being failure of contraceptives (in case of married women only,never understood this concept),medical problems of the mother,emotional or social trauma on bearing the child or congenital defects of the baby..all these are legal and medical criteria for abortions..in my internship i have seen one rape victim who had been brought to the hospital by a samaritan..the first thing done was give her contraceptives..i agree wid lady..after going thru such a trauma why have the child at all??and if u did,and cant stand the sight of him,shud have given him up for adoption right in the beginning..what she is doing rt now is totally unfair to deepak..dnt get me wrong,i cnt even begin to comprehend her trauma bt its definitely not fair to isolate him frm his family and herself after bearing him..the emotional trauma he goes thru when he sees his mother flinching frm him is also not less..

Radha bua went through a lot but raising hand on daughter in law of house can't be justified in any way.

Originally posted by: Blueberry_07

Exactly my thoughts LadyM and very well said! 👏

I was wondering the same. If she can't even look at her son's face and communicate to him properly because of the fact he resembles her disgusting husband, then why did she even gave birth to him? I would have rather she abort the child though it's not the nicest thing to do at all.

I read somewhere that someone said she may not have known that she was pregnant in the first place hence she kept the child..Okay if that's the case, after having given birth she could have given up the child for adoption right? Why put him through the pain of not gaining a mother's love..and feeling left out in the family..She doesn't give him love neither does she allow the other family members to. I didn't like how she asked him to go to the room when he was talking to Suhana..I mean it's just a conversation!

Okay if she's worried that he might turn into a beast in the future, just like his father, then that's where a mother's love comes in! If she felt that his father's habits might rub off on him, then that's where, as a mother, she has to step in and teach him the right things..but i don't think she has ever done that seeing how she can't hold a proper conversation with him....

Anyway i don't think ther's a need to do that seeing how Deepak seems like a nice man.

I find this issue on Radha Bua abit too weird. I mean no mother would do that to her child. You woudn't despise them just because they resemble someone whom you detest so very much, in this case her husband. At the end of the day, the child is innocent and it ain't his fault that he resembles his father..i mean it's only logical that a child would resemble their parents and in this case apparently the father's genes must have been stronger. Though i actually don't find him looking like her husband that much..😕

@Bold : Yes, that is very true! I really felt sad for Deepak. Esp that Dada scene..It was heartbreaking the way he was crying and questioning Dada..

Having said that, i'm excited to see how things work out. I really wonder how Suhana will help solve this issue..:)