A genuine question!

Is it necessary that every person who is a fan other than your favorite is bad? How come people just jump over certain fan groups only 24/7?
I was going through a topic "what the hell?", and I wondered what it was and saw Jenny's name so thought of looking through...

LMAO I was surprised when many shilpa anand's fans jumped over a person who said shilpa and dr. shilpa both are annoying...well, yeah I agree it wasn't needed, but her fans started bashing Jennifer? I was like😕..did that person even say that h/she is a fan of Jennifer Winget?...lol..that person said nothing but still some people started showering love over Jennifer right there by calling rani sth...lol....and I started wondering well just because that person doesn't like Shilpa Annad, how does her/she become a Jennifer Winget fan?😕

I'd obviously not label Jennifer's non-lovers as Shilpa Anand's fans...

I know there has been many repetitive topics but I didn't have any other way to voice my opinion other than opening this topic...MODS sorry in advance!

So basically, my point is just don't stereotype every single person in thsi forum just on the basis that she/he doesn't fall in the same fan group as you do.

and one more thing don't hate anyone just coz he./she doesn't think the same way you do because the opinions differ and this is how this world is!

y r u people bashing jenny

Originally posted by: punjabkudi98

y r u people bashing jenny

who me?😕
that's what I'm saying...just coz someone doesn't like your fav, he/she isn't a fan of another actor in the same show😕

There are many people who are neutral, but still people think all others who don't like their favs are the fans of another rivalry or whatever they call that group's fan

Originally posted by: KaJenYaianSanju

who me?😕
that's what I'm saying...just coz someone doesn't like your fav, he/she isn't a fan of another actor in the same show😕

There are many people who are neutral, but still people think all others who don't like their favs are the fans of another rivalry or whatever they call that group's fan

no i wasnt talking about u don't worry 😃

sanju, Admirable sentiments from your side
this has Come up only recently and i am at a loss to understand why People are behaving so, and i mean all kinds of fans

there was a reply in one of these topics when some person Asked another person- why do you bash Jennifer in this , its not even a topic on her and the reply came- Only if you bring in SA

LIke WTH is it like a tit for tat game? The onus on maintaining a healthy debate is on everyone
No one is a relative of the actor or actress out here
We are not some buddy of the actor/actresses hence shouldnt behave so
If someone likes a certain actor ITS NOT A GIVEN that they hate the other

Some people ( sadly some instead of most) are here for the love and concern towards the Show whose forum this is


DMg Forum is not a FAN CLUB
And its a FORUM

Each one of us needs to get that
sigh

sanju you've said the one thing i hate about this forum.... literally, if u like ksg ur labeled as a "kw hater" and vice versa... same goes for the whole shilpa/jenny, AR/ArSH, kash/kajen/jeran.... if u like one group, ur immediately assumed to hate the other group... which really isnt true...

Originally posted by: KaJenYaianSanju

So basically, my point is just don't stereotype every single person in thsi forum just on the basis that she/he doesn't fall in the same fan group as you do.

Exactly... that person might like the person that you like but is just not a part of the 'group' dont' mean that they hate the character or the actor.

and one more thing don't hate anyone just coz he./she doesn't think the same way you do because the opinions differ and this is how this world is!
ditto... if we all think the same this forum would be a much cooler place to hang out in.. and not made us feel that we will get jumped on every sentence we type!

Sanju .. i applaud you for this topic.. actually i was thinking on the same lines this afternoon.. when i wanted to comment in a topic but regardless of if we say good or very good about anyone other than who we have in our siggie .... it is just not taken right and there always is this feeling that there is a hidden motive in our genuine comment.

i agree. i just wonder y is it not enough to love the ones you do rather than take time out to bash others who dont subscribe to your views. let the others b. its how this world is meant to b. if every1 agreed all the time it would b so weird.

its better to stand by those who v like and keep lovin them rather than indulge in bashing those who dont like / agree to your point of view.

Thank you guys for commenting…

Basically, I'm not the person who opens a topic…in fact I think I'm a person in this forum who has the most things to say. .I mean there have been so many points and things I have been wondering and I have actually been seeking answers to my wonders…but still I don't feel like opening a topic, but today I got really confused….

A person from nowhere says something against someone, and that person's fans start bashing the other actress…how does that even make sense??
In fact, that person has not even literally bashed her…it is nothing compared to how other DMG actors have been bashed in this forum….

And some people raised questions against Shilpa Anand's golden dress ( I didn't watch the episodes so I don't know how she carried. Herself…I'm sure she was good), and her fans started raising questions on how you people didn't make a topic when Riddhima danced in "uff teri ada"..actually there were 2/3 topics on that issue….it's nobody's fault if these people didn't see those topics…

And yes, I haven't watched the show recently to know if Dr. Shilpa's character is annoying, perfect, lovely, or so on, but I have seen topics on her…and Shilpa Anand's fans again start bringing Riddhima and Jennifer in those topics. The character was being criticized not the actor. Moreover, to answer them, do check some few pages of DMG forum and you'll see how much Riddhima was/is bashed..they have a grudge just because they think Riddhima isn't bashed…lol…Be real and see how Riddhima is the most bahsed character in this forum…if she does anything in favor of Sid, Armaan fans start hating and bashing her, and vice-versa.

And I don't understand how people need to bring KaJen fans in every topic and show their hatred for them. Well, yes we have been deprived from watching our favorite couple, and yes, you guys are happy…you guys are getting happiness from every side, and congratulations for that…..but again treat KaJen fans as humans only because we also have hearts just like you guys do…you don't need to call us jealous 24/7..why would we even be jealous? We have so many KaJen memories to live with…

And as I don't get to comment on any appropriate topic where I can say this because it always gets closed before I get time to check it..\
So I want to say this thing here only….It wasn't KaJenians who started putting "-" for Karan and Shilpa…it was their fans only who started as Karan-Jennifer/Ka-Jen…and some even call them KaJar…just imagine yourselves in our place, then you'd realize how bad we might feel….

It's true even some KaJen fans have started doing so, but we have never called any couple by the name that isn't used to call them, and I'm not even talking about the fictional characters, I'm talking about the off-screen names…
Personally I have not called Sidma as Sadma also even though I know some AR fans did/do