Can Suhana relate to badi ma?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Badi ma hadn't been lucky as far as her married life is concerned. She married someone (Ishwar) who inspite of living with her for 15 years and giving children never really loved her. Her presence never mattered to him and eventually he left. Poor Badi ma still cannot move on. She cries in pain even after so many years, neither can she forgive not forget. When everyone is asleep she sits alone holding the remaining of her unfaithful husband and thinks of the life that she could have if circumstances were different and in her favor.

Suhana may not share an intense relationship with Sidh as badi ma had with her husband but still she did love Sid deeply. She trusted the guy with her fragile heart but he backed out during the time of commitment. After spending so much time with him, after sharing all her joys and sorrows she realized he never really loved her, she was more of a show off for him. He refused to tie the knot with her and left her stranded. Suhana the same way as Badi ma is not able to forgive Sid neither she forgets. We see her waking up in the middle of the night cursing him and crying out in pain. She too thinks how different her life would have been if Sid really cared of her and asked her hand for marriage.

After watching the last scene between Suhana and Badi ma, the thought stuck me if they are in the same page. So do you think Suhana can relate to badi ma? Is their situations somewhat same?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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yeah!!!!!!!!!! mee too think of the same
badi maa and Suhana are almost going through the same situation..
but in a different way...
and really, their lives would have been different if it was in the other way...
They both used to not stay in the nights with heart full of pain and sorrow and lead their life in that way...
I too agree with you that they both are undergoing through the same thing...and Suhana can relate to Badimaa
p.s:hope I make sense
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: haaki.b

yeah!!!!!!!!!! mee too think of the same

badi maa and Suhana are almost going through the same situation..
but in a different way...
and really, their lives would have been different if it was in the other way...
They both used to not stay in the nights with heart full of pain and sorrow and lead their life in that way...
I too agree with you that they both are undergoing through the same thing...and Suhana can relate to Badimaa
p.s:hope I make sense

Yes you did make sense to me😛
Thanks for posting your views.😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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She might ID with Badi Maa's situation.... but I am thinking she thinks of Badi Maa as her own mother. You could see that pang of jealousy on Suhana's face when Panna was hugging her. She is naturally drawn to her. She wanted to alleviate Badi Maa's sadness and loneliness as a daughter would.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ambrosia.....awesome subject and a very beautiful post...!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I so totally agree wit the views of haaki n LM..... its that common link of LOSS.....n HURT ...that both these women share...
in Suhanas case.... LOSS of her Mother n HURT of being dumped by Sid
in Badi Maas case....its the LOSS of her Hubby ...n a HURT of the way in which he dumped her midway in life...
I still remember that scene when on seeing Sids pic in the Magazine Suhana was crying inconsolably ....that.... ' i m leading a GHUTAN i.e. Suffocating life'..all coz of u.....! In Badi maas case too... she is leading this ...........life....of misery......without her hubby whom she luvd n a perfect family she dreamt of...
Both of them....are shown not to share or show their scars to anyone.. n endure their hurt....!!
This very feeling.....is that common TIE that binds thes two wonderful women....n i hope that thru each other....they are able to come out of their sorrows n share their pains....

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