Together.. why & why not? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Vishluvsammy

A huge applause for the bold part.

Also I want AR together because I know Sid is being immature and he just wants to WIN Riddhima over Armaan.That is not because he loves Riddhima by heart.He plainly doesn't trust Riddhima AT ALL!!

On the other hand Armaan.Armaan trusts Riddhima more than anything else.He is just bothered about what Riddhima told him.She wants to give her marriage a second chance.And Armaan never denies anything Riddhima asks for.If she asked him to go away,he would,if she asked him to die,I bet he wouldn't think twice.And that is exactly what he is doing by doing all this.He is literally killing himself and his emotions to reunite Sid and Riddhima.

You can be yourself when you are with the person you love.To us,Sid has been introduced as a childish cheerful jolly kind of person.Now after falling in "LOVE" with Riddhima that true Sid has disappeared.We completely open ourselves with the person we love.Sid never did that and Riddhima did that only before Armaan and NOT Sid.Isn't that enough proof that Riddhima still loves Armaan?She trusts Armaan and not Sid.She shares her feelings with Armaan and not Sid and she opens her true self ONLY before Armaan and NOT Sid!!

Originally posted by: Adi4Ayu

Marriage v/s Love

Not one human has been able to define "love". I'm sure that if I tried, I could find six trillion meanings of love. There would be the traditional, man and woman. But it goes so much deeper than that. I believe love is respect for each other, you can't live without each other, you laugh and dream together, prepare for a future together and know in your heart 100% that you will be there for each other.

In DMG, love was an impulsive, spur of the moment desire that clouded the mind with every thought that it crossed paths with. It was a thrilling and breath-taking emotion of longing and attraction that followed every tortured soul it consumed with watchful eyes, waiting for its inhabitant to finally succumb to its calling. Then everything was elated. All the problems of the world would bow down before it and expire, releasing the two people from the pains that they had encountered, and allowing them to come back to Earth to focus on what they what they wanted most: each other. Okay, so maybe I got a little carried away with that one. But that was the way that it was meant to be in DMG, the way it was intended to be for every hopeless romantic couple, at least this was the way AR came, loved and conquered!

Coming to "marriage", it is a blessed, most precious and most beautiful commitment, a union of two souls for time and eternity. It includes love, understanding, shared values, and the ability to complete one another. But, marriage is NOT about sacrifice, it is NOT about the so-called "farz", it is NOT about tying the knot under parental or social pressure. Infact, if based on these factors, a marriage is not a marriage at all.

I do feel you should marry who you love and not who was chosen for you. We can't pretend to love someone when we don't. It's important the person makes you feel happy inside and vice-versa. Riddhima married Sid not because of their love or mutual understanding or even friendship. She caved in to parental pressure. No religion in this world supports this type of forced marriage. It is illegal! No wonder, there was no magic in their relationship. SR have tried to do away with their unwanted bond numerous times. They can't be like AR, because there is no love between the two. They had no reason at all to get married.

AR? Why not?

Because they have no reason to not to be together. They love each other too much. They complete each other. Ridhimaa cannot help herself from falling into Armaan's arms, she cannot prevent herself from losing herself in his gaze. Just one glance speaks a million things! Isn't it only the thought of marital pressure which is keeping Ridhimaa away from Armaan? Doesn't it look like she would love nothing better than to love him back? I don't think I need to give instances to prove their love. It's redundant. We all have felt the AR love, extraordinary and improbable, amazing and incredible.

Armaan's actions can be more than justified. He knows Sid isn't capable of getting Ridhimaa back on his own, he knows Ridhimaa wants to give marriage a second chance, and he also knows that Ridhimaa still loves him. That's why he keeps dodging out of the way, so that Ridhimaa can try and concentrate on Sid, rather than losing herself in him. He deserves Ridhimaa like no one else. He deserves to be loved, he deserves to have a "happy-ending". No one else deserves it more than him. His love has been unwavered and undiminished, matched only by Ridhimaa's love for him. She made him conquer death. She caused him to be the person he is today. Armaan's love can try to goad Ridhimaa towards the path of her happiness, which he believes is through her marriage, but he himself cannot deny that when AR are together, Ridhimaa would not have to search for her happiness. Happiness is in their being together.

I do believe in true love, and that whichever way it happens, AR should be and have to be together. That's the one thing that's intended for sure.i agree with you..i have no more words..your post brought tears in my eyes bcoz old moments of AR WERE GOING LIKE A FILM IN FRONT OF MY EYES....u are right love means within not by creating circumstances😳😳😳

P.S. Any1 cn reply on d post as long its decent & doesnt lead 2 bashing & closing of d post.

Originally posted by: Adi4Ayu

U r ryt.. I havent been following d show regularly.. stoppd wen Suku left.. but startd it again in Feb.. & watched most of d episodes of AR & SR.. I may hav a selective memory 2.. but its obvious dt u dont share d problem.. so can u plz b more elaborate & explain wat reasons (apart 4m parental social pressure) did SR hav 2 get married & wat aspects of d show hav given u reason 2 believe dt SR r in "love"? I have been in luv.. I knw wat d feeling is.. its not having hallucinations n keepin karwachauths or giving second chances 2 a forced marriage.. its trust, respect.. its nvr endin & always gud.. evn when u r upset or hurt.. u dont evr wanna lose dt sum1.. & most importantly.. in love.. u dont lose urself in ur ex-boyfriend's arms.. no1 else exists but u & dt spl sum1.. if Ridhima cn lose herself each time she comes across Armaan.. & I cant see dt happning when Sid is around.. I wud like 2 believe dt Ridhima luvs Armaan.. Sid hasnt found a way 2 her heart uptill now.

Originally posted by: ka7eela

true Rids was forced in the beginning..she was pressurized to marry Sid but then when she commited sucide Sid backed off..then it was she who insisted to carry on with the marragie when Sid made her realize that life isnt about living for you own selfish needs its about family too..

and where was Arman when Rids was facing those dark days of her life behaving like an insane girl who would have been dead by now!..if it wasnt for Sid saving her time and time again!!..where was he when she was hit by the truck, raped or killed by the mobs, drowned , and when she got sick and when she could have been hit by a running car..it was Sid who saved her from all these ..and got hit instead!( now feel i am repeating my self)..how could you over look Sid's goodness and all that he did for her!

you say you watched the series!!.. then how come you over look all this!!..how can you ignore that she started to have feelingss for Sid..she said she was thinking of him all the time!..she hugged him and told him that he is her only truth..etc..how could you ignore that she was happy when she went to lonavla thinking she would meet Sid and take a further step with him!..

how could you ignore the recent track when she said in the drunken state that she wants to be with him and when she danced only with him and looked at him alone although Arman was there!!..anyways please take a look in my old post to have a better picture of what i want to convey.. here is the link:

Sid, Rids, Arman & the Concept of True Love