Let's start with the journey of Sid.. Sid was a cool boy, the only thing that he used to do is Playing Video Games.. He was never serious with his life.. And he is forced to do medical thus lands up in Mumbai.. Eventually he meets Tamanna, and she plays a big role in his life, teaches him the value of life, human emotions and other things.. And then they have a break-up.. And at that point of time, Sid meets a girl who was broken heart, lost the charm of life, pessimistic and suicidal girl.. He handles her of his own, befriends her, and goes on helping her to find her love.. Saves her from death, ends up marrying her, treats his wife as a sh*t for the time being, and then gradually learns to love, to live and to give their marriage a second chance.. He impresses ANOTHER girl, Riddhima, to such extent that she confesses "He taught him the meaning of love".. "Their relationship is more than just a divorce..".. She loses herself to him, and starts living her life again.. She is gonna confess her feelings, just then a turmoil enters.. And Sid ends up sending Divorce papers to her.. Still the girl feels no difference abt their relationship, she is still in love with her husband, still longs for him the way she used to do before, still keeps KC for him, and wants to have him for the next 7 janams.. Still wants him to say I Love You..
Now the point is, in such HUGE progress of the story, in such BIG journey of his life, we never saw Sid as an under-confident guys who needs a counseling.. he is probably the only character in the show apart from Riddhima, who has faced SO many things in a few months.. Dealt with serious issues.. Still.. he never failed to impress Riddhima.. His anger, his attitude, his cuteness, his confusion and most of all, his caring nature is what Riddhima is impressed on.. He was never in any need of taking OTHERS' help to impress a girl.. he can win them whenever he wants.. He won Tamanna within a min time.. And he won Riddhima just within 2 months.. !! Sid has not done anything after Armaan's entry which can make Ridz feel that he has taught her the meaning of love.. ALL he did, was before his entry.. He won her heart without anyone's help..
Now a guy, who already won 2 hearts, who never lost his cool attitude, who never needed other's help to impress a girl, who never needed waxing and pink shirts to impress someone, who never needed any counseling to make Riddhima fall for him, why does it need those NOW ? My second question is - When did the counselor had wore Pink Shirt and waxed his legs to impress Riddhima? Is this how the counselor knows Ridz? Are these the things by which a modern-girl get impressed?
Last but not the least --
What is this whole issue of lovin like a boyfriend or a lover? Rid-Sid are married.. We all live in 21st century, does that mean that the gals who have love-marriage love their husbands in a more intense way than a girl who does arranged marriage? I am strictly against this concept.. It is ok for a husband to behave like a boyfriend for a few days or so.. But impressing a girl being a boyfriend.. this is not getting into my head.. To start a marital love, one doesn't need to become boyfriend.. The word Boyfriend doesn't have any commitment in it.. But the term 'husband' brings 1000 commitments and sacredness in it.. It is ok if Sid behaves like a BF after a few days of their happy married life, but to begin with it, being a boyfriend aint a good idea at all..
Plz CV.. I am happy with SR being married and acting as a husband-wife, a mature way.. Mature, yet cute.. Plz stop making Sid a character who needs others' help to impress a girl.. Plz ..
Anyways, that is my POV.. Hope I didnt offend anyone..