The Day We Fell Apart - Of Love, Hurt & SaJan - Page 4

Originally posted by: aahana86

Aarthi exactly hun .. as u said god sends his angels in the most unexpected ways

wasnt cop kulkalrni one too 😳 well angels for angels 😳

and hun i truly think it is abt trust but not sam' trust on Gunjan but himself - he's scared 2 be alone as everyone leaves him - he has 2 hold onto himself and trust himself and control his instincts 😳

Originally posted by: aahana86

ok Anu first of all girl 🤗 a huge hug 4 u


loved ur post esp d last line 😳😃

Mayb nw Sam will realize the truth of the wise truck driver..... he'll give her the sky to fly ....it'll b very hard for him ..but he'll wait for her return ...& she will .. because for Gunjan .. home is where Sam is....😳.

beautifully put hun 👏

gee thx dear if u think i can write well enough to provoke thoughts ☺️

i agree hun .. what u r saying .- this is a lone battle for Sam and yes he cannot have anyone else even Gunjan to help him fight this dear

but i suppose the trust part... its not her that he doesnt trust - it's himself - he has lost so much in life and hence is scared silly of a loss again - and of hers - THE MOST

his actions are desperate as his heart is so scared

his mind knows he is freaking out yet he wont use his senses as they say a drowning man has nothing but hope 2 hold onto and he thinks and hopes his actions from his heart will justify all things

There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind.

but yes he'd learn and be strong once he calms down and perhaps suffers a blow losing the very one he is clinging on to when she perhaps asks him 2 leave her

it is then perhaps he will learn to let go as he'd see Letting go doesn't mean giving up, but rather accepting that there are things that cannot be.


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Thanks dear .. a big hug to u 2🤗.....
Oh! ys, yr posts are lovely ... infact nw days I wait for them ....😊
Yes, I agree for Sam .. trust is a big issue, because all he has seen is betrayal in his growing up years ...& what u go through yr childhood remain with u for life.. it is what later that shapes yr character.... For Sam those years very very painful & lonely.. hence his feart abt Gunjan leaving him ... or mayb betraying him with Neil.....but hard is it ... painful is it ...no one can help him or take his fears away ... yes , people can guide him .. they can show him the path .. but he has to walk there alone ......he has to open himself to his fears , look inside him & come out in open abt his insecuritis.. by open I mean he has to b true to himself.. other wise these fears will destroy his relationship..
I don't know if u see Uttran ... this is what they r showing nw days.. how Shaak , fear... destroys relationships, clouds the thoughts.. & the person is unable to differenciate between right & wrong .........I'm happy here the CV's r showing that it's possible to fight yr fears & insecurities.. rather than restore to voilence &h urting yr partner.. physically as well as emotionally .. as they'll show with Vansh later on ...
This is what I love abt mjht.......they show a positive approach .. a positiven solution to various problems & issues ..

Awesome post aaha I dont blame samrat.Neil told him he loves gunjan and he did not said where the shoot is.Mayank told him to call jour to find out the shooting place.He too told director is fida on gunjan after hearing all this which B/F will keep quiet and mayank also told him neil has said he loves her and no one is there 4 her so u go.

I want to point out one thing.Whatever Gunjan read in the newspaper is not told by Samrat.She thinks like that because Neil is the one who showed the news and explained to her something.I think he is playing with her emotions and make her think Samrat did all that to show how important he is ..But one thing I don't understand that HOW CAN GUNJAN THINK SAMRAT WILL DO SOMETHING SO CHEAP TO GET HER?

She always says that ,she knows Sam to well.Never leave him alone...But what now???


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Today what that old truck driver said is such an old saying ...but if u look at it's meaning it's so true....why only lovers .. I feel that it applies in each relationship... the more u cling .. the more that person wants to break free of yr hold......the more u set it free... the more it'll want to b with u .....& If it's a relationship between a man & a woman .. then he / she will come back to his / her partner...if their love is true ........the only way that's poss is to have full faith & trust .....it's here that Sam is wrong.......he could not give that space to Gunajn....Yes, he told her to fly .. but hw can she fly if he tied her wings.....This is the bitter lesson he has to learn ... that unless & until he'll give that space to fly ....give her the confidence .. that he's waiting for her return .. she'll b unable to take that plunge .
I know it's difficult .. but it's not impossible....it's just the matter of opening yr heart & mind &having that trust & faith in yr relationship ...more than that .. I think if we show our partners through our actions that we are their for them .. our trust , our faith is their's ..then half of the battle is already won .....This is what is happening with Sam .. he says he trusts Gun .. when it comes to showing that trust .. he fails to do so .....Today it's Neil .. tomorrow it'll b some one else...unless & until he learns to trust her . their relationship can b broken by any one. WHAT EVER GUN MAY SAY OR DO .. THIS IS ONE BATTLE WHERE SHE CANNOT HELP HIM .. HE HAS TO FIGHT THIS BATTLE ON HIS OWN .. SHE CAN ONLY SHOW HIM THAT SHE IS HIS.. BUT HE HAS TO LEARN TO BELIEVE IT ON HIS OWN .....THE DAY HE BELIEVES THAT .. IS THE DAY HE STARTS TO TRUST HER TOTALLY
Mayb nw Sam will realize the truth of the wise truck driver..... he'll give her the sky to fly ....it'll b very hard for him ..but he'll wait for her return ...& she will .. because for Gunjan .. home is where Sam is....😳.
(BY anuverma)