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"Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love
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this man whose quote i have used over here - in a strange co-incidence whose name happens to be Neil as well has perhaps used the best possible words to describe the hurt - the pain - of perhaps loving someone, of losing someone.
a random man - some truck driver today advices Samrat hearing out on his story to learn to let go - as this stranger sees through - a defenseless heart - a guy scared out of his wits - a man deep down frustrated at perhaps being ignored - a man not willing to let go - and so he tells him - ur love isnt making you do this your fear is
Sam says - i love her and hence am scared of losing her
ahh so true - the man still says - let go of her - if she returns it's her wish , Sam asks him - have i tied up her to me then ? - the man says - no u simply arent letting her walk free - let her be - if she comes back she is yours
and a scared Sam asks - if she doesnt - the man simply says - then you both were never meant to be
i dunno what to say at that - simply dont - ... i concur with that man yet am also in agreement with Sam - a part of love is learning to let go, but the question is how do you learn to let go ???
is it so easy simply just that - a piece of cake - Gunjan in the precap asks Samrat today - what was his idea of telling a reporter their love story as he prosecuted her character publishing an article about her saying - she is a manipulative small town girl who to have a career now and name & fame dumped her boyfriend - what was he thinking ? - did he want to prove his right over her ? show it to the world that she is his girlfriend
i realize her state of mind - and dont blame her - but how do i blame Samrat too ?
no it isnt cause of the reasons behind his actions only that makes me wanna defend him - the reasons are his actions themselves.
how are you supposed to know - supposed to learn - to let go ?
how can you not wanna say someone belongs to you - when you know they do - when you know you do - belong to them - in turn - as much - perhaps at times even more then them too
in neil' quote is a line - of a armor- a defense - we all build up sometimes - around ourselves - guarding our secrecy, our privacy and most of all the most fragile of all our heart - our feelings which thou may not be visible - still exist - just like god - as that random man too says today
when you then let someone through it - when someone finds a way - and manages to reach your heart despite it - what do you then do ?
hold them forever or let them just walk away ?
the person could have penetrated your defenses at a time you let your guard down - and a moment is but sometimes enough - for the heart to find that way - to reach out and want that person - and before you even know it - you are never the same again
how can you ever be ? when love finds you and changes you forever - simply how easy can then it be - to learn to set free - to be quiet and just walk away - to say all this is quite easy my friend - but to be there and live it is a different take
for a part of love thou it may be - the process of learning to let go - yet a part of love it is as well - the desire to hold on to.
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Neil Gaiman
this man whose quote i have used over here - in a strange co-incidence whose name happens to be Neil as well has perhaps used the best possible words to describe the hurt - the pain - of perhaps loving someone, of losing someone.
a random man - some truck driver today advices Samrat hearing out on his story to learn to let go - as this stranger sees through - a defenseless heart - a guy scared out of his wits - a man deep down frustrated at perhaps being ignored - a man not willing to let go - and so he tells him - ur love isnt making you do this your fear is
Sam says - i love her and hence am scared of losing her
ahh so true - the man still says - let go of her - if she returns it's her wish , Sam asks him - have i tied up her to me then ? - the man says - no u simply arent letting her walk free - let her be - if she comes back she is yours
and a scared Sam asks - if she doesnt - the man simply says - then you both were never meant to be
i dunno what to say at that - simply dont - ... i concur with that man yet am also in agreement with Sam - a part of love is learning to let go, but the question is how do you learn to let go ???
is it so easy simply just that - a piece of cake - Gunjan in the precap asks Samrat today - what was his idea of telling a reporter their love story as he prosecuted her character publishing an article about her saying - she is a manipulative small town girl who to have a career now and name & fame dumped her boyfriend - what was he thinking ? - did he want to prove his right over her ? show it to the world that she is his girlfriend
i realize her state of mind - and dont blame her - but how do i blame Samrat too ?
no it isnt cause of the reasons behind his actions only that makes me wanna defend him - the reasons are his actions themselves.
how are you supposed to know - supposed to learn - to let go ?
how can you not wanna say someone belongs to you - when you know they do - when you know you do - belong to them - in turn - as much - perhaps at times even more then them too
in neil' quote is a line - of a armor- a defense - we all build up sometimes - around ourselves - guarding our secrecy, our privacy and most of all the most fragile of all our heart - our feelings which thou may not be visible - still exist - just like god - as that random man too says today
when you then let someone through it - when someone finds a way - and manages to reach your heart despite it - what do you then do ?
hold them forever or let them just walk away ?
the person could have penetrated your defenses at a time you let your guard down - and a moment is but sometimes enough - for the heart to find that way - to reach out and want that person - and before you even know it - you are never the same again
how can you ever be ? when love finds you and changes you forever - simply how easy can then it be - to learn to set free - to be quiet and just walk away - to say all this is quite easy my friend - but to be there and live it is a different take
for a part of love thou it may be - the process of learning to let go - yet a part of love it is as well - the desire to hold on to.
Geet - Hui Sabse Parayee
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