marriage........... - Page 2

Originally posted by: slovania

i believe in marriages,,a marriage in which both partners hv mutual understanding , love , respect, care, true dedication for their relation, be a part in each other happiness n sorrows, trust , n kehte h na ki dosti me pyar ho na ho but in marriage or love dosti ka hona bahut jaroori h.then theu bcom soulmates.
without all this a marriage is not a marriage. sirf rituals follow karney se marriages nahi nibhti.

very true......

love without marriage is possible but marriaaage without love is not possible..... at all.....

it can be a samjhota.....

Originally posted by: maanu

i m simply not bbashing u at all...

this is really to know what everyone thinks

so i m just counter questioning u.....

love does not only require the feeling of love...

it requires all the things which a marriage requires...

respect, care, tust, understanding... and many more....

marriage is cermony to show the world that we love each other...

marriage without love is like a dead body.....

no use....

but marriage without love has its own importance cpoz there is a space for marriage... that is proving the world...

it is always imp and necesaary to shown what u believe otherwise it is usless.... u have to put in efforts....

Originally posted by: rapunzel84

Love is a feeling...marriage is not a feeling...all the things tht u described above are feelings as well...respect - a feeling, care - a feeling and so is love...love includes all these feelings but at the same time these feelings can also exist on its own...for e.g. u can respect someone but not necessarily love them...same thing for care, trust, understanding etc...wen it comes to love - its like all these feelings come under it, plus something more!

And marriage is not a feeling at all...its a commitment which requires much much more than just love...

thts my POV...respect urs...

love is a commitmment but without any necessary ties....

one is free to select according to its own choice......

marriage as inherit compulson odf doing the same things as love...

many argue tha marriage as responsibilities........

but love also has these responsibilities but without compulsion....

in marriage one is expected to fulfil responsibilities................

but love has no compulsion........... and then if u fulfil the responsibilities then it is purely out of choice which makes it moe imp...

here my aim is not to prove love is greater...

and i m not against the sysem of arrange marriage...........

in arraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaange marriage also one is given time before marriage to start to love the parner....

love means care, understanding, respecting, exceptance as a partner with all its bad and good quality....and u know the lkist will go on...

love is not just necssarily before marrainge.....