Confidence or Arrogance?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I hear many say they don't like so and so because they seem too confident. I think being confident is a strenght where as being arrongant is a weakness.
No offence mean to any singer or anyone but I found Arvind to be arrogant more than confident. The way he said that he wanted to be in the show and that he wont be diplomat is a sign of arrogance. If he had worded it like I really believe that I will be in only because I have the talent to prove it, would be taken more as confidence. Confident people can be humble too where as arrogant people can never be humble.
I find Tia to be neither confident nor arrogant, it seems like her strenght is her beauty. It appears that she seems more confident about her looks than her singing.
I am not familar with all the names of II5 contestants, so I can express my views right now on others.
Swaroop is confident, I dont see any arrogance in him. He believes in his singing.\
Manisha is an amazing singer, but lacks confidence.
Naushad is lacking confidence as well.
Shashi has no arrogance in him, I see confident Shashi. I am glad he has come out of is shell.
I dont wish to drag other reality shows or other singers from different reality shows, so please don';t bring them into this discussion.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i may be opening pandora's box for me if i say this, but i found vishwas to be a tad arrogant.
Reason: yesterday when sunidhi was telling him that once one gets used to a lot of wah wah and praises, sometimes it gets into the head, and that vishwas shouldnt let that happen to him...the response he gave was something along the lines of 'i have never let it affect me' it wasnt given much attention coz sunidhi and anu malik went on speaking, but IMO, it sounded arrongant
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't find Manisha lacking confidence ..... 😃
I don't find Yashraj lacking arrogance....😉
Edited by kuhu.kuhu - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kuhu.kuhu

I don't find Manisha lacking confidence ..... 😃

I don't find Yashraj lacking arrogance....😉

Good one😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kuhu.kuhu

I don't find Manisha lacking confidence .....😃

I don't find Yashraj lacking arrogance....😉










True..
I feel Yashraj is very very over confidence...he needs to be little humble and respect other top 15...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: desilawyer

i may be opening pandora's box for me if i say this, but i found vishwas to be a tad arrogant.

Reason: yesterday when sunidhi was telling him that once one gets used to a lot of wah wah and praises, sometimes it gets into the head, and that vishwas shouldnt let that happen to him...the response he gave was something along the lines of 'i have never let it affect me' it wasnt given much attention coz sunidhi and anu malik went on speaking, but IMO, it sounded arrongant


I noticed...but i i don't think that was arrogance.I had seen another show earlier where he was saying that while singing on reality shows lot of music directors applaud..praise you to the sky and then promise you work.But then never call these struggling singers..
What he says is true..i mean who is forcing them to offer work..just say you sang well and leave!But if they do offer work..i think they should keep their word!
Sunidhi said..tareef ko ek kaan se sunke..doosre kaan se nikal dena..and all he said is nikaalta aa raha hoon.There's no arrogance there....deep inside i see dissapointment.
He just seemed happy people liked it..he was'nt over the moon with the praise and standing ovation..i sensed a "been here seen this" feeling...and i felt bad for him...and all other good singers struggling to make it in the industry.Today Abhishek Bachhan and Hrithik
Roshan can playback...but nobody has one song to offer a good talented singer?!
Sunidhi's advice is a good one ..but it should actually go to the 17-18 yr olds..who think if they're praised a lot..then their future is set..coz this is just the beginning.When you say that to someone who sings at dinner parties/weddings/stage shows and just wherever they can to support their family..it hurts them more than helps them! Just my opinion!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I dont find Yashraj arrogant... not at all
ok he is confident. but hey.. why not ?. he's a won a title before. He knows he sings well. He is pretty decent looking. If you dont have confidence in your self, no one else will..

I guess everyone is basing their judgements based on just one line tat he said ''yashraj yashraj yashraj'' .. I admit I dint want him to answer that. but at that point , he coudn't exactly pin point who will actually be a threat to him and i think it was a wise idea.

I think we all should go easy on him, for the simple fact that he acutally sings well. and Besides, I m sure he's a loveable kid.
Edited by Sunita182 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Confidence is when you believe that you can do something, no matter how challenging it is. All the contestants have that else they wouldn't and couldn't perform.
Arrogance is when someone is egocentric and thinks the world should revolve around him/her. for me, only Yashraj is in that category.
But hopefully this fame doesn't go on top of the contestant's head.
Edited by debayon - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kuhu.kuhu

I don't find Manisha lacking confidence .....😃

I don't find Yashraj lacking arrogance....😉






so with u on this.... 👍🏼 ...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yashraj is not arrogant, he's just confident. and i don't think it's wrong. it's too soon to say i'm afraif of him/her.

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